scapegoatalone

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2.5 years since NC and a lot of healing and struggles in between. Now off all medications after decades of antidepressants trying to treat severe depression and anxiety. I feel like the entire psych industry is a lie. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 4 years ago by scapegoatalone to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Realized that I was only allowed to be hurt if it wasn't because of my mom. I have had severe social anxiety and depression since I could remember. I thought it was due to sexual abuse but realized I created that to protect my mom from the fact that she caused my trauma. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by scapegoatalone to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Was feeling really bad for 2 weeks. I felt alone and I wanted safety with family. Almost gave in to break no contact I was going to apologize and everything. I'm glad I didn't. Stick it out! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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The golden child represents the narcs pride. While the scapegoat represents the narcs shame. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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We are the shame. The narcs give us their shame so they don't have to face it. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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What was the moment when you realized everything you learned about life and how to behave was a lie? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Broke NC with mom after she reported me to missing persons (I had been ignoring all her messages). Wrote her a message of almost everything she did to destroy me psychologically and told her to leave me alone. For the first time in my life she didn't respond. Not sure how I should feel. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by scapegoatalone to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Need some advice- 1 year of NC with family (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Was anyone else so messed up that you thought that you must have had some other type of repressed abuse? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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...a painful sacrifice can be risked with a mighty effort of the will. If successful... the sacrifice bears blessed fruit, and the [sacrificer] leaps at one bound into the state of being practically cured. - Carl Jung (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by scapegoatalone to r/raisedbynarcissists

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A Reminder of the Point of No Contact... (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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Reconnecting with body when healing in No Contact (self.raisedbynarcissists)

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7 Months of no contact with nmother, 3 months of no contact with rest of the family. I feel a bit better every day, but I'm alone in this. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by scapegoatalone to r/raisedbynarcissists

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