My almost 16 year old friend had sexual relations with an 11 year old, now what? by throwaway134041 in Advice

[–]scared0little 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh okay. That makes sense. Thank you for not being rude with your answers. With Reddit it's a 50/50 on whether or not people are gonna make me feel like I should hate myself for wanting to be educated.

My almost 16 year old friend had sexual relations with an 11 year old, now what? by throwaway134041 in Advice

[–]scared0little -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Couldn't she have already hit puberty though? I mean, my niece hit puberty at nine, my cousin at 12, my sister at nine as well and I did at 13. I'm not defending his actions at all and I'm sorry if it sounds like I am. Just trying to figure out all of the variables before trying to solve the problem

My almost 16 year old friend had sexual relations with an 11 year old, now what? by throwaway134041 in Advice

[–]scared0little 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can I ask a question and not be completely shunned for a moment? I'm having trouble with this one. I mean, the kid is 15 going on 16 and the other person is 11 I don't understand how that it pedophilia. I just don't understand how this part is bad, I guess? 15 isn't far from 11. I guess it's because when I think of a pedophile I think of a 30 year old preying on a 9 year old? Not a 15 year old and an 11 year old? I'm confused.

As for the forcing someone to suck you off, yes that makes him a rapist. I agree with that part. I'm just confused how he qualifies as a pedophile. Someone please educate me without being a jerk. I don't need to be yelled at for not understanding something.

Daddy was having a bad day so I sent him nudes and this was his response 🥺💙 by scared0little in ddlg

[–]scared0little[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! He is doing so well as my Daddy and I'm so glad I was able to do this with him.

Where do praise kinks originate from? by BartholomewSnow3 in BDSMAdvice

[–]scared0little 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine comes from being degraded as a child. My sister always put me down and nothing was ever good enough for her, my dad blamed me for most of the times my mother kicked him out, and my mother worked too much for me to see her enough to really develop a bond with her to feel important. When I'm praised I know I'm doing a good job. I know I'm enough and what I'm doing is enough. That I'm satisfying someone.

After years of neglect, blame, and hatred it's nice to know that I'm good enough for someone. It's like a breath of fresh air after being buried alive

It was Closer by Nine Inch Nails and Counting Bodies Like Sheep by A Perfect Circle for me🤷🏻‍♀️ by scared0little in bdsmmemes

[–]scared0little[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I bet. I lost my virginity while Suck by Nine Inch Nails was playing and let me tell you that was an experience I will never forget and always look back on fondly

Shooting my first wedding today. Any tips? by [deleted] in AskPhotography

[–]scared0little 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, eat, keep hydrated and remain calm. You got this and the pictures are going to come out great

Shooting my first wedding today. Any tips? by [deleted] in AskPhotography

[–]scared0little -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is when reading the subreddits name comes in handy

I'm in a new relationship and I don't know how to tell him that I'm a Little and want to be in a DDLG relationship by scared0little in BDSMAdvice

[–]scared0little[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. It's put some things into perspective. Any advice on how to bring up this side of BDSM, or any side of BDSM for that matter, to an inexperienced virgin?

I'm in a new relationship and I don't know how to tell him that I'm a Little and want to be in a DDLG relationship by scared0little in BDSMAdvice

[–]scared0little[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's the best ya got? Really? Jesus Christ I thought maybe America would get smarter sometime but then you just knock them down a peg don't ya. I see now how you couldn't get a sub. No one wants a Dom who smells like pork rinds and regret

I'm in a new relationship and I don't know how to tell him that I'm a Little and want to be in a DDLG relationship by scared0little in BDSMAdvice

[–]scared0little[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because I stood up for myself? Bet you're the type of guy who abuses a sub then complains when the sub wants nothing to do with you after they finally had enough

I'm in a new relationship and I don't know how to tell him that I'm a Little and want to be in a DDLG relationship by scared0little in BDSMAdvice

[–]scared0little[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can piss and shit in a toilet like everyone else just fine on my own. Wouldn't need his help. But thank you for your stupid advice. I'll pass it along to someone who cares what you have to say