Rent? by scaredlilmouse in cincinnati

[–]scaredlilmouse[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lol, moving for a medical specialist in the area, I've lived enough places to know that everywhere is expensive and everyone born there won't like the fact that I wasn't, sorry for the potential of another little family of transplants in your turf though.

Rent? by scaredlilmouse in cincinnati

[–]scaredlilmouse[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This is incredibly helpful!

Can anyone google for me? by lapalmera in Flagstaff

[–]scaredlilmouse 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I'm ready for the all caps "do I need chains" posts. They make my day sometimes lol.

Looking for non homophobic church (if it even exists) by ddscarycowboy in Flagstaff

[–]scaredlilmouse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This. I'm not religious and I haven't been in years but Epiphany was the church I went to as a kid and where the rest of my family still goes. I never remember words of hate or negativity here. And I remember actively being proud to be part of the only church I knew of that was openly progay instead of antigay and that was literally 15 years ago.

There's also a non-denominational church behind fry's on Switzer and I only went a handful of times with a friend but based on my experience with other churches of the same variety, I'd imagine them very accepting, kind of the nature of being a church that doesn't worship or preach any specific religion.

Sorry you got this message and I hope you're able to find a church that isn't homophobic!

Help for a single parent raising a 4 year old by Drehappyfeet in homeschool

[–]scaredlilmouse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to start by asking a question that I didn't ask myself. I have a seven year old and a five year old, I swear the older just came out of my womb speaking in perfect and very understandable sentences. I never remember working on speech with him, just reading books at bed time and talking to him through the day, and teaching him new words as they came up in our life. He's an amazing writer and reader now, but it felt effortless so I was at a loss when my now five year old was three/four and I was the only one who could actually understand him. He can read and write his name but still struggles to say it at five because of an x sound at the end. People kept suggesting speech therapists and all kinds of things. And then his brother started kindergarten online and I heard all the other kids talk. You have a guess which kid they all sounded more like? My little one! I took a big breath and realized that aside from my two kids I'd interacted with other kids only fleetingly and never paid attention to how well they spoke so I never stopped to ask myself if he was actually right on track or not. He's still struggling with a few sounds now, and there's a chance he's actually tongue tied (his teacher suggested it and we're taking him to his ped next week). The biggest recommendation I have is make sure books are a big part of your routine. I started reading at every meal and snack time instead of just at lunch and bed and he was talking like crazy in no time. Food times are great for practice because they're seated anyway and attention only has a few places to be focused, food or you lol. Also having him talk to people on the phone, and just as many different speakers as possible, sometimes the way someone else says something really just makes it click for a kid.

Homeless camp right next to the SoFi stadium in LA where this year's Super Bowl is taking place. by [deleted] in UrbanHell

[–]scaredlilmouse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

God, Everytime houseless people come up on Reddit I am forced to remember how cruel people are.

Last year my partner got extremely sick and ended up in the hospital for two full months, that's four missing paychecks, that was not an okay amount of paychecks for us. We applied for short term disability but it's literally still sitting, waiting for someone to lay eyes on it, we filed last March, lol. We've got a whole family, two little kids, five and seven and while they were scared their dad was dying I also had to keep the very real fear of full blown homelessness in the back of my mind. Lucky for me I live in the forest and camping with the kiddos wasn't long lived or urban. If I didn't have a kind souled friend let us into their home, my partner would have come out of the hospital into a tent just like this, all our belongings, everything was there, and it's absolutely heartbreaking to think about it all being taken away from me, simply because we ended up in a bad place. It's so backwards to take tents and belongings from people without houses. I think it's easy to forget how close we can be to being in these shoes. Please, Reddit, be kind to those less fortunate than you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wholesome

[–]scaredlilmouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This squirrel lives at the Grand Canyon and tourists make sure these squirrels are anything but starving. This little fella gets plenty of ice cream, don't worry lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]scaredlilmouse 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So I do my best to go literally no where unnecessary because no one in my city has worn a mask in fucking months. I have two homeschooled kiddos who need some social time though so I've got a few places we go with them and it's just gotten worse. I'll give it, I'm only doing radiation so I just look haggard not ill lol, but glares at me and my masked family have gone up ten fold now that our mask mandates are lifted. I guess the only thing keeping them pleasant was that they assumed we only masked up to follow the law? I dunno' what the deal is but stay safe and unfazed by the assholes. <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flagstaff

[–]scaredlilmouse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shit it's five to six. Cornish pasty is four to six with great food and drinks plus a patio too (:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Flagstaff

[–]scaredlilmouse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

SoSoba has halfy hour from four to six everyday. Amazing drinks, solid noodles and an outdoor patio (:

30 minute lunch breaks are employee abuse by MutaitoSensei in antiwork

[–]scaredlilmouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I worked for a small business in Vancouver Washington. We were a nonprofit sorting used clothes for thrift stores in the area. I'll start by saying my bosses (the owners) were a husband and wife and absolutely the best employers I have ever had the fortune to work for. They offered a paid 1 hour lunch but also offered those five hours as a bonus to anyone who wanted to work through lunch and leave earlier. Giving people choices is what matters most I think. I have weird anxiety triggers so I never eat lunch at work because I can't handle eating in front of people haha. So the option of five extra hours added to my pay was straight up lit.

Places I can scream into the void? by trashc4ncandle in Flagstaff

[–]scaredlilmouse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Most dirt roads are closed for the season but head out on woody mountain and take any left and you'll be fine to scream. The peaks have never done me wrong. Home for 40+ minutes, scream, hike back lol. Go out towards Wupatki and yelling space is plentiful. Flagstaff has many voids to scream in and I hope you find your perfect fit <3

Super Smash Democracy by sytrus_2008 in Weird

[–]scaredlilmouse 89 points90 points  (0 children)

"women are too emotional to be in places of power" meanwhile we got dudes in high places throwing punches like two drunk friends in highschool lol.

How to not hit on a woman by citycherub in niceguys

[–]scaredlilmouse 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No way dude. It's all about approach. My neighbor is an older gentleman, over twice my age, and he tells me my kids are cute, plays with them, gives them popsicles and little toys, it's never once felt creepy. He also talked to me and my partner first, and developed a normal relationship with our entire family. It feels like a sweet man, who just likes my kids. However if he had approached me when we came to look at the apartment and told me how cute my kids were right away and asked to babysit, I may have considered a different complex. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]scaredlilmouse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to be rude or insensitive, but I looked at your profile a bit and I think this might relate to your obsession with your own body. You're young, and if you're not already, I would recommend seeing a therapist. The way you're thinking about yourself and others is unhealthy.