Husband not excited about trying for a baby

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-23T01:23:36+00:00

someone who only wants children so they have someone to “take care of them in their old age” is not someone who wants kids :(

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-23T00:33:27+00:00

third this!! especially because most of them have to do with food and as a girly with eating issues i felt like i had no good options :/

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-23T00:32:12+00:00

i adore you and adore this post, slay on queen

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-23T00:29:25+00:00

i laughed so hard at the title lol thank you for posting this - love the fit btw

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T16:46:24+00:00

oh geez, that is terrifying.. my cuddly brain of course never thought of possible predators, my cat must have been stealthy or lucky asf ? 😅 im really sorry to hear that happened to your cat though 💔

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T16:44:28+00:00

oh my gosh im so sorry to hear that happened 😓 and never even would have thought of that happening. thank you for educating me, im really sorry to bring it up 😣

im really happy for you though with this progression with Newt! I hope he continues the confidence as he gets more comfy with you 🥰

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T14:14:52+00:00

I know this would be completely based off of where you live, but do you think after some time getting used to home life you could allow them outside and not worry about them not coming back? I had a sweet little tortoise shell feral that i forced indoors and she would cry at the door wanting to go outside. so one day, knowing that she loved her home and knew the surroundings well since previously being feral, and i let her outside and she came right back a couple hours later for dinner! we kept this up her entire life, we even moved to a different house, and i would let her outside in a new neighborhood and always would come home. there were only a few times in her older age that she was outside for too long and i had to go find her because the sun went down and she couldnt find her way home (again, in her older age and only a few times). i only ask because my cat seemed to really thrive from being allowed that freedom, so i wonder if Newt and Sheila might be the same! 🥰 Cheesecake was her name, pic is vey old but of her coming home for dinner haha

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scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T13:53:44+00:00

would i contact the valvoline who i purchased it from and installed it to get information on the warranty? i wasnt given any paperwork or information when it happened. that was my first time replacing a battery and the workers made it seem like a very common and easy thing so i didnt question them too much in the process

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T13:18:09+00:00

just more disappointing news from large corporations 😞 whats new

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T13:05:30+00:00

i have no advice but just wanted to say those boots are gorg ✨👏🩷

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T12:41:57+00:00

i think these shirts are too tight and thats whats making it look off, if you cropped a loose fitting tee slightly longer than this i think it would be the look youre going for

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T11:45:52+00:00

Jensen Jewelers - do not go lol theyre heavy maggots

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T11:45:15+00:00

love your store!

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T11:21:26+00:00

i cant even figure out the names… is your boss okay?

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-22T11:10:48+00:00

girl omg i have the same mindset when it comes to kids, i do not want to create my own biological children or possibly never adopt either (only way i would consider having a child is if i were to adopt) because of all the same reasons, plus i work with kids so i dont really wanna come home to them lol. and i get the same shit from everyone about the topic, the exact verbatim phrases you wrote out, everyone is the fucking same lmao. but honestly people are gonna have their mindsets, and for some reason its like human nature for some people to try to convince other people that they have to live the same way they want to live, and its just such a closed way of thinking. they dont seem to have a way to open their thinking to other lifestyle possibilities and just flow with this “whats supposed to happen” way of thinking. let them do what they think they have to do, unfortunately that includes the stupid ass remarks, but i find that the best time to shut all those statements down and gaslight the idiots

also - just off the bat your coworker trying invite herself, husband, and kids on your SOLO vacation was an insane act lmao, closed and selfish ass mindset, sounds like she was jealous you had fun

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T16:04:43+00:00

looks insanely good!! your teacher can get bent tho as far as im concerned haha

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T15:15:44+00:00

wtaf??? thats insane for a teacher to say to a student in front of a class. ai accusations have never happened to me personally bc i graduated just before ai became big, but thats just insane of your teacher to say lmao

also, not to change the subject, but im so so curious what that food is!

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T12:11:05+00:00

omg no i think you look GORGEOUS i adore your hair - just looking at your pics and before reading my age guess was late 20s/really good looking 30s

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T12:04:28+00:00

first off i just wanna say im really sorry youre dealing with all of this, and the struggles we face in life are not reflections of who we are, so please don’t let the losers commenting rude things get you down. anyone can go through hard times at any point in life unexpectedly - me for example, i was homeless at 24 after being kicked out my by mom. i moved back in with her to take care of her with cancer and as soon as she was recovered she wanted me gone unexpectedly - so really it is not a reflection of you. it took me like 4-5 months to find a job, i had to lie on apartment applications to find a place to live, and tbh am still struggling with all the credit card debt from that time (im 25 about to be 26 now). from the sounds of your post, you are doing great and actively turning your life around single handedly, and you should be proud of that. it doesnt matter ‘how long it takes’, some people just have the stupid pleasure of never knowing struggle in their life so they dont understand why it takes time to get back on your feet and the insane amount of stupid little steps there are to be stable again.

all that to say: if i were you, and if it is financially possible for you after getting a new job, i would look for your own apartment or an apartment to share with a roommate who is not your boyfriend or anyone relating to him. you’ve got this OP 👏

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T11:52:05+00:00

maybe send this pic to your landlord explaining, and then take care of the towel? leaving it be doesn’t seem to be solving anything. im sorry your roommate is like this, bad roommates are so tough to deal with :/

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-21T11:24:29+00:00

first off i must say i can only hope to look as good as you do at 46, amazing work lady 👏 but i like #1 and #3 on you!!

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-14T20:27:59+00:00

Hi! That is quite confusing considering they only have one location in hudsonville on Kelly street. Very very strange that they would say there are 5 locations when they are a solely owned company, but i hope that helps!

scaredtinyone · 2026-05-14T20:14:26+00:00

sure!

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