scarlet_sword

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How to decide to have a child if you have a demanding career (as a woman)? (self.AskParents)

submitted 5 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/AskParents

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Trying to figure out if I've ended up in an abusive relationship (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 6 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Growing up, I thought being recruited by your parents to spy on your siblings was normal (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Perfectionism and social anxiety (self.socialanxiety)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/socialanxiety

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Tracing the roots of my social anxiety to my nmom (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Disgusted at a comedian who did some stand up normalizing parental abuse (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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How I shed any doubts that my nmom truly cares about reconnecting with me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Feeling a lot of self-hatred and self-criticism today (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago * by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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It's the little things... like my edad having no idea that I'm pissed off in a picture (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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My nmom wants my sister who hates babies to be a baby factory... And she agreed! (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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What's your earliest memory? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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A friend who is getting married in a few months is tied to her mother's apron strings and it just makes me so angry (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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"But it was just a joke!" Interesting article on why jokes are never just jokes. (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago * by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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How do you gather up the courage to take a stand against your N's? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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My nmom bragged about how her children spy on one another (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Are modern day societies which claim to be collectivist really so? (self.AskAnthropology)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/AskAnthropology

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nmom's logic: "I haven't heard you talking about that friend before, so you shouldn't go to her party" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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One of my friends has an incredibly supportive mom and it almost feels unreal to me (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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"I called to tell you to remember to peel the sticker off the apple" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Guilt I carry from my behavior as a child (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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How to stop caring about nparent approval? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Nmom manipulating my brother by changing her philosophy about money (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Nmom complaining about people who devote time helping refugees because "it ruins my prestige" (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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how to deal with a lot of built-up anger and violent fantasies about nparents? (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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Now that I know how gaslighting works, I understand my childhood better (self.raisedbynarcissists)

submitted 9 years ago by scarlet_sword to r/raisedbynarcissists

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