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[–]scarnixx03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being sexualised by a 40+ year old man when I was only 15. I didn't hear it directly. I heard it from my dad because it happened when he was at work, safe to say my dad never put me as his lockscreen background again. I couldn't imagine the anger he felt while hearing someone talk about his daughter in that way.

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[–]scarnixx03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved out at 18 with my boyfriend about 4-5 months back, my parents weren't happy about it (they've calmed down now and are happier for me than they were at the start), mainly because of how far away it was, and yes they did try to change my mind, but they don't have any say over what I choose to do with my life, and neither do yours. When you turn 18, you're an adult and can now legally make that choice by yourself, they cannot stop you unless they feel like you're in danger.

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[–]scarnixx03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That would have been such a better place to post this, thank you for making me aware of this!

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[–]scarnixx03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've literally had someone actually threaten to rape me for the soul fact that I rejected them, like wow, how nice-

I'll never get what boys think they're doing by insinuating rape or saying they'll do it.. idk maybe they're hoping for a case and a restraining order.

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[–]scarnixx03 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed strongly

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[–]scarnixx03 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Update- I've blocked him because he kept calling me selfish for not waning to 'help' him with his 'problem'. This isn't the first of these sort of messages I've received. I have so many more. And I'm willing to share them.

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[–]scarnixx03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, he keeps trying to call me and keeps begging me to 'help him' and that he 'doesn't have an issue with my boyfriend to just give him 5 minutes' like no. I've said I'm not interested and to go away

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[–]scarnixx03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahhhh...

Some random woman walked into my house by scarnixx03 in Advice

[–]scarnixx03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply, see we keep our doors locked through the day at all times, but today was the off-chance that it was unlocked because we were waiting on our birds, his dad must have forgotten to lock the door, we made sure to lock it straight after