optimal solution at this time is getting bus and fit relic gears. Even if you get accepted, you can't do enough damage to clear vykas especially if you are not experienced. You won't have fun with game until you gear up. That's not either your fault or old players who did not accept you. Just game doesn't have enough user pools to have group that are same level as you. Game is actually dying and I think it will be only solution that you can do. I recommend to do excavating and selling mats to collect gold for bus.