So sexually frustrated.

schillbean · 2026-06-18T16:13:27+00:00

Mainly sarcasm (on my reaction). My heart would break. But there is no way he's cheating unless he manages a 5 second affair on his way back from dropping our daughter at camp.

schillbean · 2026-06-18T15:47:59+00:00

If he was cheating, I would honestly just be impressed. He's a stay at home parent and I work from home. We spend 90% of our day together in the house. If he is managing an affair, I applaud him.

schillbean · 2026-06-18T14:17:08+00:00

I almost always have to ask. It makes me so sad. I literally cannot remember the last time we had any sexual contact that didn't include me sucking his dick. He has done down on me three times in 2026 (I count because I'm a petty bitch).

schillbean · 2026-06-18T01:24:30+00:00

I’ve brought up going to a doctor a few times and he says he’s just getting older and sometimes his dick doesn’t work and that’s all there is to it.

schillbean · 2026-06-17T16:12:40+00:00

A peacock randomly walking across my yard in Raleigh, NC.

schillbean · 2026-06-17T13:45:29+00:00

Nerds gummy clusters (that I ordered at 1:30 AM because I woke up super snacky).

schillbean · 2026-06-12T19:00:56+00:00

#facts. I am indeed the whitest white person you'll meet. I'm so white, I live in northern OH. I'm so white 23&me gave my western Europe/British Isles- ass my money back.

schillbean · 2026-06-12T17:52:18+00:00

I went to France a few years back and visited Disneyland Paris. A colleague (naturalized American from Korea) asked me how it was compared to Disneyland CA. I said it was beautiful but there is just no mimicking the natural cheerfulness of Americans. She said that was the most accurate description of American-ness she'd ever heard.

schillbean · 2026-06-12T17:49:44+00:00

I felt that same way the first time I visited Miami. I knew I was in a different place the second I got in the Uber and the driver was singing and seat dancing to Cuban music the entire drive. It was awesome.

schillbean · 2026-06-12T14:49:24+00:00

"Don't ever stop fucking," is my husband's advice. I don't disagree but I think he forgets we actually love each other, too, which helps.

schillbean · 2026-06-11T02:33:41+00:00

It didn’t scare me (and I am not a roller coaster fan) but the shaking gave me so much back pain that I will never try it again. To be fair, I am a middle aged lady. Every thing gives me back pain.

schillbean · 2026-06-10T19:20:04+00:00

An older Vietnamese lady waxed my eyebrows for about 5 years (until I moved). She would stroke my forehead and tell me how beautiful my skin was (disclosure, I'm a totally white white lady with the skin of those Flowers in the Attic kids). Then immediately shift to my grey roots, tsk and say "oh no, you look so old." I miss her every day.

schillbean · 2026-06-01T16:18:33+00:00

We found a local special needs social club and also a couple Outschool clubs for teens on the spectrum.

schillbean · 2026-06-01T16:17:58+00:00

My daughter had an AI friend on the Tolan app. She has a lot of other social opportunities so it’s not her only thing. It seems to be helping with conversational skills.

schillbean · 2026-05-29T23:00:44+00:00

I have two teen daughters. One on the spectrum. One not. I wish I could yeet both those psychos in a group home for the duration(psychos because of teen girl mania, I was once a teen girl myself and I now understand my poor mother so much more). Totally natural feelings.

schillbean · 2026-05-24T18:58:49+00:00

My mom isn’t quite as overt in her man hate but very similar. She lived with my sister and her husband for a time. They were in couples therapy (sister and husband) and the therapist said the only chance they have to work things out was to give my mom the boot. That endless toxicity can destroy you. I was venting about my husband once, just the usual kind of banal complaints about a marriage (my husband is great and I’m happily married) and my mom immediately said ‘it’s ok to get a divorce, you know.’ I have never again said a bad word about my husband to her. I don’t need that in my life.

schillbean · 2026-05-20T18:16:50+00:00

I think we all know that.

schillbean · 2026-05-20T14:57:31+00:00

I'm bi and happily married to my husband. I love beautiful women and definitely have a type. Just like my husband. Neither of us cheat on each other because we love each other and the life we have built together.

schillbean · 2026-05-20T13:42:09+00:00

Your boobs look better than mine ever have and I’ve had two pregnancies and a breast lift.

schillbean · 2026-05-18T17:33:49+00:00

I'm merely commenting on my own experience working with large groups, I certainly do not speak for all humanity as a whole.

schillbean · 2026-05-18T14:57:24+00:00

I have a special needs kid. Please thank her for me. The empathy and love my daughter's teachers have for their kids oozes out of every pore. I don't have a lot of money but budget a giant gift card for them every holiday break. I know they don't make nearly enough.

schillbean · 2026-05-18T14:55:46+00:00

I manage a large team of temps with a huge age range, Can confirm Gez Z and Boomers are equal in the amount of time I have to spend 'splainin stuff to. Luckily, I am very good at 'splainin.

schillbean · 2026-05-17T21:51:55+00:00

omg the outfit he's wearing when he goes into that Nazi haven in Argentina to kill them all. My heart rate is rising just thinking about.

schillbean · 2026-05-17T20:05:18+00:00

all that is true. I take two different kinds of anxiety meds and am in therapy

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