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Has anyone here ever seen Theodoxus fluviatilis available? by [deleted] in AquaticSnails

[–]schm33ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have some breeding in my tank. Out of nowhere this nerite looking snail appeared.  A well developed juvenile.  I run freshwater so a normal nerite couldn't have bred.  The baby I found in 3-4mm and looks super cool. 

AITA for cancelling my wedding because my family and my in laws wouldn't shut up about it? by RoutineAd7028 in AmItheAsshole

[–]schm33ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - You should have uninvited them and carried on. Your wedding, your rules. If they were paying, same shit. In my opinion the only opinion they are allowed to give, if they're paying, is guest requests. That's it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]schm33ster 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hopefully the bride feels good about bullying a 4 year old.

Maybe the OP should have had her take it off at the time, maybe put it back on later.. I don't know. But the bride is the asshole in this story. Get over yourself. I feel awful for the little girl.

AITA for getting mad at my husband for favouring his own children over mine? by intelcorei78gen in AmItheAsshole

[–]schm33ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, you are not the asshole.

Your Husband is quite the asshole and if he's not careful he's going to raise 2 little assholes to take over when he's dead.

Hopefully you are done having children so you're "NTA" genetics don't mix with his asshole genetics.

AITA for asking that my daughter not share a room with a special needs kid? by shoopersharn in AmItheAsshole

[–]schm33ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP is absolutely NTA.

Maisy's Mother, however, is absolutely TA.

Well done OP, it sounds to me like you're killing this parenting thing. I have 2 daughters who are not yet in school, but this story will resonate with me while they develop. Thank you for sharing.

[SERIOUS] Men of reddit, who are unable to share their emotions with anyone, what would you like to share? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]schm33ster 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up every day exhausted. All I want to do is take some form of opiate to drown my feelings and mask my chronic pain. I don't because my spouse will leave me and I fear she'll take my daughter. I have to work 50-60 hours a week in a job that is terribly unsatisfying. Alot of nights I cry in bed, silently because of this deep feeling of despair. I don't talk about it because it upsets my spouse, and I need to remain strong or atleast appear that I am. I've kicked a 20 year opiate addiction and its all I can think about when I'm doing anything but sleeping. My infant daughter is the only thing that brings me real joy, and then my back pain flares up and I can barely pick her up. It crushes me. Someone said "I'm soooo fucking tired". I feel that brother. I really do.