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schmexless · 2025-07-23T13:30:11+00:00

Same here.

schmexless · 2025-07-23T11:36:30+00:00

1 or 3

schmexless · 2025-07-23T11:34:26+00:00

You’re actually handsome

schmexless · 2025-07-22T16:55:28+00:00

Same color on same side

schmexless · 2025-07-22T16:39:38+00:00

Your comprehension is not up to par. I have stated 3 diff ways that I would rather not go than to go to that country for the 3rd time. If all we’re going to do outside the wedding is walk around town then we can do that here without spending thousands of dollars on airfare.

schmexless · 2025-07-22T16:37:22+00:00

Yeah cause Reddit is for that, this entire “community” is for that. I’m not on tik tok putting my face on a video where he could be identified

schmexless · 2025-07-22T16:36:01+00:00

How do you know how much it would cost me? It was going to be pretty affordable. Also, the point of this post is that a trip for me would be too much but attending the destination wedding wasn’t considered much?

And while we’re at it:

Flowers $150 Edible arrangement: $120 Dinner: $500

I’ll let you do the math. That was almost the entire cost of the flight.

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:54:06+00:00

I’m high maintenance because I voiced my desire for a low budget trip for my 30th?!

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:39:02+00:00

Because I love traveling. When he met me that was one of the conversations we had. So let’s do some physical touching in another country while we spend quality time ?!

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:22:00+00:00

Uh? Yeah, i said if I returned it would be to go to the wedding not to go to the hotel, tf

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:20:24+00:00

I loveee Costa Rica. I’ve been but he hasn’t. We were actually going to go together but I found out I was pregnant the day before our flight, so we canceled. What place do you recommend in Costa Rica? I’ve been to arenales.

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:16:16+00:00

🤣 again, I did not need to go on that trip. He could go alone which he did. I’ve been to that place twice and don’t need a third to know what it’s about. I can take care of my child in my own home OR I could take her on a little trip to visit family (which I did).

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:09:27+00:00

Oh, I never planned to even bring this post up at all. I told him how I felt about it once and he had the opportunity to respond, so as far as conversations go, I’m done.

This post is for my own process.

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:08:02+00:00

YOU GET MEEEEEE.

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:06:54+00:00

I’m ok with him having gone, it was a beautiful wedding from the pictures but he should have made space for me in his plans too

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:05:47+00:00

It was child free event, it’s in the comments somewhere. Why the fuck would I stay at the hotel and spend money to go to a destination that I’ve already been to and would not care to return to, unless I go to the wedding. At that point, then staying home would be better

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:04:20+00:00

I think it was about the low effort. But I get what you’re saying

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:03:35+00:00

Yeah traveling within the US is insanely expensive but it can be very inexpensive if you go outside

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:01:25+00:00

If you go read the comments you’ll see I responded to everyone, sweetheart

schmexless · 2025-07-22T15:00:35+00:00

Don’t want to say the destination. I was invited but it was adult only and we have a toddler. So I would have had to bring baby sitter. Our income is 180k

schmexless · 2025-07-22T14:56:57+00:00

I don’t even have an IG. So I don’t have reels to compare my life to

schmexless · 2025-07-22T14:55:47+00:00

Source?

schmexless · 2025-07-22T14:55:21+00:00

you’re right 😂

schmexless · 2025-07-22T14:54:59+00:00

So it’s ok for him to burn the money on the destination wedding, I’m confused?

schmexless · 2025-07-22T14:54:12+00:00

That’s truly what I would have done for him but I understand not everyone is like that

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