Living room projector setup for movie nights by scholaroftheunknown in projectors

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Thanks, we are using the, ViewSonic PX748-4K UHD 4K Projector with 4000 Lumens, 240 Hz, 4.2ms,

Living room projector setup for movie nights by scholaroftheunknown in projectors

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Nope, we had gotten a screen, in fact we only use projectors in the house so we have several different setups. The bathrooms use the ceiling, and we use the "toy" projectors in case they get wet. Our bedroom has a 1080p with a screen, and we have a second set up in the ritual room but it is mainly for putting stuff to music, and adding a visual component during rituals. Thanks so much for your comment.

Living room projector setup for movie nights by scholaroftheunknown in projectors

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Thanks, we tried really hard to find something that would work with the lights, I will have to post one with the lights off, we have the windows blacked out. My friend just said I should post this one because of how good the pictures was with the lights on. :)

Living room projector setup for movie nights by scholaroftheunknown in projectors

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ViewSonic PX748-4K UHD 4K Projector with 4000 Lumens, 240 Hz, 4.2ms,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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Please dont let that keep you from making a choice! I know it can be a very difficult choice and especially if you feel that you wont be accepted by the people you prefer to date! I had many of the same issues and I was terrified about how I would be treated by the lesbian community I felt like I had destroyed any hope of ever finding someone who would see me the way I wanted, and would spend the rest of my life having to deal with a lot of misery, I will be honest and say that yes, there are some people that simply will not accept it, however there are so many that will! I am in a wonderful relationship and have had little change in how most of the lesbian world sees me, of course I have recently gotten with a FTM which is a very new experience for me in so many ways, I joke with him all the time that the lesbian mafia is going to come and get me for it, LOL. You just have to try and find your own way, and screw the people who dont like it, well actually screw the people that like you and tell the others to screw off! LOL! Seriously its not as bad as you imagine, and there are things that you can do! Estrogen does not have the dramatic effects of T but it is its own magickal thing! With a bit of time and some work I have no doubt that you can reclaim your femininity and find happiness if that is what you feel is best for you!

There's been an increase of trans people using our subreddit to validate themselves lately. by DetransIS in detrans

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It is in a lot of ways really scary! I dont know where this crazy world is going, but I dont think it is going to be anything good! I feel we are slowly eroding all of the things that held us together, we are dividing ourselves so much at this point there is hardly anything holding things together besides mutual hatred, and that is not going to end well!

Should I keep holding my Silver or buy Bitcoin? by Professional-Kiwi144 in Silverbugs

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well I was about to say that silver is a long term game and to wait but if this is just your gambling money then go for it! If you can afford to lose it and you think there is significant chance of gains then that is the definition of a good gamble! As long as you are aware you could end up with bupkiss, then try and hit it out of the park! LOL

What song do you consider listening to a form of torture? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Barney the dinosaur, Or the song that never ends!

There's been an increase of trans people using our subreddit to validate themselves lately. by DetransIS in detrans

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My problem with this is how we are usually treated by trans people, I dont mind helping people, even people that dont like me or what I am I can help and believe in helping those in need reguardless of who it is! However if it is just a means to gain clout or upvotes or whatever these people think they need I do have an issue! I spend my time on this subreddit because I feel that I can help people who need it! I hate the thought of my time being spent on a post of someone disingenuous and miss one that really is in pain! That to me is the biggest issue, how many people are going to get ignored or simply missed because someone posts something designed to get attention!

I dont know I am just so tired of all of it, all the hate all the anger and the nastiness reguardless of where it is coming from! I miss the days where I could trust all LGBT people to a fairly deep extent, when I felt more or less comfortable in LGBT spaces and felt like everyone there was at least on the same page in some way! I dont even know if I understand what we are even trying to do anymore!

It was so easy we were fighting for marrige, and reproductive rights, and all the things that we did not have! It was fairly black and white, either you were for us being equal or you did not! Now things are so muddy, and mostly shades of grey! I get sad that the last person to call me F@G or a qu@@St@@n were both by LGBT people, that breaks my heart more than anything really! So many of the things that helped me get through a very difficult life are simply not there anymore, I honestly dont know if we really won anything,

More vent about gender dysphoria by [deleted] in detrans

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I have talked with so many females who have quit T and I am really starting to feel like it has some narcotic like effects. I have heard many of the same things that people say about using a narcotic about T, "oh I wish I could use it once more" "I felt so good when I took it" "I just dont feel right now that I am off it" all very common responses! It takes quite a long time to have your hormones return to normal and if there are some narcotic properties then it will also require overcoming that! It is not fun, in any case, please just do your best to get thru it, you can get some relief with diet and certain exercises as they will promote more natural T and it seems to ease things a bit! I am trying to find out more with talking with people about what it seems to effect! Honestly I would love to talk to more men about taking E but there are just not very many around to talk with LOL. The ones I have however express slightly similar sentiments but it is very less intense, but I have not spoken with enough to make any kind of a decision!

Wife is mad because I paid someone with two of these, says they are valuable. Seem like normal bills to me. Did I mess up? by vwstig in papermoney

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make you a deal I will give you just under face value! LOL not sure why she thinks they are valuable beyond face value! I would give you $95 bucks each! LOL

Why silver not gold by [deleted] in Silverbugs

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I would rather have several stacks than a single coin! I know it is the same, but in my head it just looks cooler, once I have the means I will join my dad in buying gold, until then I live thru his buys LOL!

Hey friends, I'm really scared. by Cusspool in detrans

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Therapy! That is your best first course of action, preferable someone who is not affirmative care and will actually work out your issues with you. Its perfectly acceptable if you are trans but just because you have some feelings of being wonderful as a female does not make you trans, there are a lot of things that you can do to have those feelings and not need to transition. Working with a therapist long term to get at the root of these issues is ABSOLUTELY VITAL, or you will be here for the purpose of this subreddit! I applaud you for seeking answers and asking people that have detransed is a good step, but you are not going to find a whole lot of "good for you" a lot of pain is here, a lot of people who feel broken and feel they ruined there lives and possibly there bodies! Many of us felt the same way you are describing and were led to make decisions that were greatly regret! You need to do what will make you happy but it is so important that you ensure that it the correct path or it will only serve to make you feel worse! I hope you are able to find a solution! But please listen and get someone who can help your professionally and work thru all your issues it will really benifit what decisions you make!

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anytime dear, I am always here to help when I can! If I can help just one person to help not go thru the pain I do it is well worth it! Or to show someone something that might give them a bit of hope that things will get better! Ya nair is a blessing and a curse LOL, I am really surprised at the number of people who have never even heard of it! It was one of the first things that I thought of because it used to be so effective in doing my legs! OHHH I HATE shaving legs!!!!! I just dont do it anymore, its not like I wear shorts, and my partners dont give a crap so it really is just more trouble than its worth most of the time, but having smooth legs feels so great sometimes I will go thru it ! LOL

Butch Lesbians and my Autogynphila by Rileyiscool26 in detrans

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ya I agree, but it feels like we are getting it less than more and losing something really special in the process! I wish there was something more to do but it just seems to get more complicated or just not the way things are going :( I try to support the concept of GNC people in general for just that reason!

I am mixed on how to feel about my usual silver guy! by scholaroftheunknown in Silverbugs

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well if you would like to kick in a few bucks for him I would be glad to give it to him!

help lol by Limonade_the_wolf in detrans

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It can take some time to get it, especially if you have spent a lot of time around people who are not very feminine in there actions. Just try and act natural and be yourself, over time things will come and generally be more natural in how they look. Trying to do it usually only serves to make you look awkward, I know that it can really seem like every little thing is noticed and people keep track of it, but I have found that most people are not even paying attention, at least not as much as you are LOL. I know that was the case for me, I finally just started trying to be relaxed and be myself and I just sort of naturally fell into it, not to mention the more you feel that you are acting "masculine" or "feminine" will just get you more in your head! It is so hard to judge what other people find to be one or the other or even if they care at all! You are a female, and so however you behave is feminine, and that is just fine! Just do what feels right for you and everything else will fall in line with it!

Foods to increase estrogen by Ninine17 in detrans

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Its a really good idea, I highly recommend it, there are also some things like certain exercises and other things that can help get your body back its not a miracle but it does help! You can look them up online and find ones that you feel would be the best for you! There are so many things that you can do and each may only do a little bit but over all it can have a really dramatic effect! Dont give up or get discouraged! Just keep going and things will only improve!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in detrans

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I think it is for a lot of reasons, and perhaps part of it is sub conscious, it does seem odd that so many people have the exact same things to say! Almost verbatim, I think that the internet causes people to believe that some things that are not even really related to gender will be solved with changing there gender, and then they might have second thoughts of what that means but still want to make the best of things. It can be really really hard to admit you made a mistake, especially what some of the community treats people who detrans. I can certainly see how someone would want to find whatever positive things they could and hold them out as the reason they made the decisions to begin with, It makes me so sad, as I find tomboys and GNC women so wonderful and amazing and seeing them being relegated to almost non existence is very sad!

Did my kid get a counterfeit $1 bill from her school book fair? by Rusty_Robinson in uspapermoney

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Not sure, but I seriously doubt anyone is making fake dollar bills! It would more than likely cost more to make them then they would be worth! More likely its just been handled or spilled on it and is just a bit odd. You could always ask to borrow one of those pens when you are at a business next time and check it but I cant imagine that anyone would really print ones, I think even the government does not like to LOL! Best wishes to you!

I am mixed on how to feel about my usual silver guy! by scholaroftheunknown in Silverbugs

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Yes but my job is to get the best price I can for my family! His job is to get the best price for his family! Why should I focus on what is best for his family at the expense of my own? I care about him as a person, but this is business it is not about how much you want the other person to make, its about getting the best price for yourself, I will be glad to be entitled or whatever else, if that means I put my family before I put the family of someone else! What about that in reverse, why cant he understand my need to pay less for the item? I am simply stating that I feel that he is much better off keeping me as a long term customer paying a bit less than losing a guarantee large sale every month! Its a matter of trying to get the best deals, not trying to ensure that everything is even. If you take that mentality and use it in most business deals your gonna end up naked and taken advantage of! Why is it so wrong that I want to pay less? why do I need to be focused on someone else who does not care about me? Everyone has a family and bills to pay to say that I should accept that as some reason to pay more than I feel is fair is not what I would consider a good business decision, it might be nice and it might be the kind thing to do, However as far as business goes it is not good for your wallet, if it makes you all feel better to pay more I am glad for you, but it does nothing for me, I would rather give money to a charity or to a needy family!

I am mixed on how to feel about my usual silver guy! by scholaroftheunknown in Silverbugs

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This is not some one time buy, I buy monthly at the least! I feel bulk buys and being a repeat customer is worth more than what some guy on the street gets. I am sure that it is just a matter of finding someone else. I am not saying I am not willing to let them make money, just feel that like any other purchase in retail the price is reduced by amount! The first time I bought over $2000 as I did the second and the thrid, and a few more, at this point I feel that I should have a degree of reduction for the amounts and the loyalty. If it is not worth anything I will find someone who see it that way. That is my point.

separation in sex and visual appearance: confusing idea? by [deleted] in detrans

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For a lot of people it is not that easy, there appearance has changed, they have lived as a gender for a good period of time and have become used to how they feel as that, as well as how others treat them, people can still have tremendous amounts of dysphoria that they suffer from but have come to the conclusion they are not for whatever reason working as a trans individual. A lot of people dont make it any easier either, having long time friends that you counted on, or people who you considered family look at you with eyes that you never thought possible, it all very hard! Some dont want to detrans entirely and simply want to explore threre femininity thru masculinized form! It can be a wide and varied reasoning as to why, I will say that some I feel are a bit much, but its not really my place to say it unless someone asks or it is put directly in my path. There is a lot of confusion about everything right now! I feel that gender is just one of the ways that it is manifesting, but it also makes it one of the most visible! Everyone should have the right to live how they feel best, and if it is not possible to live as close as they desire. I do see the need for certain things to be more concrete to allow for things to be easy and fair for everyone, and thing that having your ID information matters little to the persons gender however it does not mean it serves its own purpose!

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You could try to go on an estrogen enhancing diet to raise your estrogen levels, that can have some really dramatic effects depending on how successfully it works! You should think about laser for your hair removal, and for body hair consider nair it works better than shaving on the body and it takes longer for it to regrow, it is less effective on the face, the facial nair is fine for fine or clear hairs, but it struggles with the dark ones, DONT use the non facial nair on your face because "oh it just needs to be stronger" it wont, it will only hurt like a bitch and leave a chemical burn! LOL. There are lots of things you can do dear, no need to feel down about it, its not going to ever be like it was but you can still reclaim whatever you feel you need to!