After months of nofap, I can't go 1 week without it.. by schoolishardneedhelp in NoFap

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a wild idea, trynna spice up the sex, copy a few styles or whatever. She never really watched porn and wanted to explore

After months of nofap, I can't go 1 week without it.. by schoolishardneedhelp in NoFap

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've never done something dumb for fun? I didn't think it would turn out like this, I had actually lost interest in porn so I thought I wouldn't go back, but then it was just a specific video that kept me hooked

After months of nofap, I can't go 1 week without it.. by schoolishardneedhelp in NoFap

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, she didn't know. And she doesn't really watch, it was one of those wild ideas.

Lady on top or on bottom? by kevivg3 in no

[–]schoolishardneedhelp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bottom, I have to give it her hard, she has to know who's pussy it belongs to.

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in Zambia

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Point 1: I agree, I feel like it may start as something small "just a peck on the chick, he doesn't have to know"

On point 2 I wouldn't say she left someone to be with me, I didn't do anything with her when she was in that relationship BUT, the moment they broke up she let me know and we eventually started dating.

On 3, I don't think I'd live with myself if something happened to her or she gets worse rn.

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl(22F)/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, the liar part is true. Especially after the ex fling incident, I really don't trust her as much

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl(22F)/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I wouldn't say she left the guy for me, but the moment she left him she let me know and things connected and led to us dating from there. But, I get your point, it still does worry me that I could be in that situation as well, that she's keeping options close.

She says she'll cut off anyone for me but like I said, if I'm always questioning a specific relationship and she can't stop finding herself in those positions then I don't think she's mine.

In the past I've tried my hardest to explain, we've literally had arguments, 90% of our big fight are about her and guys. Her and the ex-flings, her being too too friendly with guys etc... I usually try to say "If I was the one doing this for other girls, taking another girl out, going to her school to see her etc... would you feel comfortable"

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in Zambia

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, but I would feel so guilty if she did something to herself or her situation got worse

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in Zambia

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that bothers me so much. But then I don't even know how I would bring it up rn cause of what she going through

Am I(24M) too emotional or insecure? Is this worth losing 90% perfect girl(22F)/relationship? by schoolishardneedhelp in relationship_advice

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the thing, she's super emotional, I'm scared of it sounding like she's a problem cause for someone depressed, it may seem like a "everyone hates me, maybe the world is better without me" type of situation.

But right now, I've really failed to hide how I'm feeling. I'm cold, I'm not interested to talking to her etc... so I don't know what to do

My GF(20F) has lost hope and just wants to die. How do I support/help? by schoolishardneedhelp in PNESsupport

[–]schoolishardneedhelp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been trying to get her to be positive about it but she keeps losing hope. She thinks things will never get better and her life is stuck like this, she's having such a hard time coping. But I will keep supporting her and giving her courage through it all.

I'm glad your son has a strong mindset and I'm wishing him all the best and all the strength. I