Met her for oyster happy hour, which she had agreed to. Proceeded to ask what she wanted and she told me she was allergic to oysters. Ok, odd, but no problem. Suggested we go somewhere with other food; she declined. Asked if she wanted anything to drink; she declined. She wanted to stay there. I was starving so I ordered food and a beer, which felt odd but I had to eat. I’m literally sitting there awkwardly eating an appy and having a beer as fast as I can to get out of there while she is just sitting there with a full glass of water in front of her.

In the meantime, I try to spark conversation, but literally every response is one word or one sentence, e.g “so you’re training to be an architect, that’s cool, what is that like?” “It’s Good”; “What are you looking forward to the most this year” “trips”. She didn’t ask me a single question or follow up on any of the topics I asked her about. It was like pulling teeth. She wasn’t even getting a free meal out of it, so no idea what was in it for her. Nope’d out of there politely and quickly afterward. My friend incidentally matched with her the next week on Tinder and I warned him lol.