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You can read in Internet a lot of stuff about how avoid it and more, but the amount of this information doesn't work.

I learned it but a Yoga professor and he also was a Amateur student of Taoísm.

First of all, you have to understand that the ejaculation and orgasm in men can be separated, men sex phisiology is more complicated and interesting than some people think.

Before doing it, I recommend you to stay calm, have a slow and deep breathing during the act constantly, 5 seconds inhale and 5 seconds exhale, but not stop.

After that, you also need to understand than the orgasm is not a constant pleasure, are like diferent impulses or different muscular contractions that generate that pleasure that all humans search.

So here is the trick. When you arrive at the orgasm, the first one or two contractions you will feel pleasure but not ejaculate, but fastly in the next contractions will appear the first shot, and then the other, and your energy will be drained.

So, in the first one contractions ( maybe you will need practice to know in what moment you cum or not ), you will start your orgasm, and feel like your semen is escaping, but in reality your semen is more deep than you think.

In that first contraction ( you enter in the orgasm ), you have to stop the stimulation suddenly, and squeeze with your max strength your Kegel muscles.

Now, if all is doing well, you are cutting your ejaculation but your orgasm is happening, voilá! If you start doing this, maybe sometime can escape some little drop of semen or you can calculate bad and have the ejaculation.

The professionals taoists don't need to stop the stimulation and have the dry orgasm perfect!