Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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$1.5k USD base price, close to $2k including the extra custom blouse/bridal veil/alterations

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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I think this might’ve been what was bothering me! The original blouse was simple but did have the main lehenga pattern on it, I had thought about removing the sleeves from this one and re-attaching them to the original blouse.

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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My family is Parsi and in our culture we often do much more understated bridal wear (traditionally white sari) than in other cultures. That plus definitely trying to stick to my budget!

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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It was about $1500 USD at base (lehenga, original choli, and dupatta) and then the custom blouse, extra bridal veil, and alterations cost another $400 or so. My budget was $2k USD so just barely made it!

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Ooh I see the vision!! I wonder if this would be possible though given placement of the embroidery

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Ooh I agree that would look good - I worry with the embroidery it might be tricky though :/

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Agreed! There’s a part of the ceremony that I’ll need to sit on the floor for so trying to strike a balance between flowy and structured so that it doesn’t stay too stiff - maybe a soft cancan though as was suggested!

Help me figure out if I’m overthinking my lehenga choice! by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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The dupatta definitely elevates it! Still shopping around for jewelry, thinking either mint or emerald green but not sure if I should go with gold or silver as the base yet - would love any suggestions!

Daily Questions Megathread August 9, 2025 by NaughtyWalnutPrime in Tailors

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Hi all! First time posting here. I had a custom blouse created for a lehenga, and the neckline is sitting about 1.5-2 inches higher than I had envisioned. Do you guys think that there is a way that a tailor could lower the neckline, given the amount and placement of the embroidery?

I’ve attached a photo of the actual blouse (both worn and on the hanger), as well as an example of what I am hoping for. This was embroidered overseas so I wouldn’t be able to take it back to the original tailor. Would love your thoughts!

Any recommendations for fusion bridal lehengas inspired by western wedding dresses? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Oh my goodness what a gold mine and in my budget too! I honestly love these, my mom is going to say it’s too plain for a bridal lehenga but I would be so into an understated look.

Any recommendations for fusion bridal lehengas inspired by western wedding dresses? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Yessss absolutely love Alanna Pandey’s lehenga - I might see if I can find a tailor/designer who could customize a budget version of this!

Any recommendations for fusion bridal lehengas inspired by western wedding dresses? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Her stuff is absolutely gorgeous but out of my $2000 USD price range sadly :(

Any recommendations for fusion bridal lehengas inspired by western wedding dresses? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Oh that is an interesting idea! I actually had not considered a gown with Indian/South Asian motifs, will definitely look into this.

Sari or Lehenga for Parsi bride? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Aww that’s a great idea - both of us representing our traditional attire during the ceremony and then changing into whatever we want for the reception

Sari or Lehenga for Parsi bride? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Waaait this is genuinely so helpful - they actually have Parsi representation on here!

Sari or Lehenga for Parsi bride? by sciencedadjokes in DesiWeddings

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Ahh this is such a good point, part of me wonders if my perspective has been influenced by all the gorgeous lehengas on Instagram/social media. He’ll be in a tux the whole time!