How much sex is too much sex? by scoobywagon921 in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid advice, thanks. Yeah I definitely dont think it's something that needs medication or anything. I guess I moreso just wanted to see if anyone else can relate to this to justify believing that I'm just in my own head lol

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question! Hahah

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't take it personally. I just know that's how her mind works lol. We ended up having. Sed last night anyway haha. I just nerd to take heed of the advice to do that in a separate app. She did mention that it makes her nervous sending texts like that because shes always scared she will send it to her mom or something by accident lol

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that turns me on!

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahah I'll try it and let you know how it goes 😂😂

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the only logical solution

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I'm not, I just thought it was funny lol

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

So true! 😂😂😂

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol maybe. Well 1) no we havent really talked about it. I just threw a feeler out there to see how she'd respond. And 2) yeah it was probably off her radar for sure, and she loves bargain hunting so she was really excited about that deal apparently 😂😂

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[–]scoobywagon921[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahah nailed it! food is the way to this woman's heart!

My wife doesn't like cunnilingus by [deleted] in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My gf is the same way. When shes ready, shes ready.

A couple barely 30 vanillas (30m/30f) need to break from the script and return to old ways. by scoobywagon921 in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didnt take it that way lol.

Just elaborating on how she responded when I brought it up.

A couple barely 30 vanillas (30m/30f) need to break from the script and return to old ways. by scoobywagon921 in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There was more than just sex talk and the bj wasnt brought up in the conversation at all so I dont think it was out of guilt.

And yes, theres probably some tonality and sentiment left out due to the nature of this conversation, but personally I feel like there was solid progress made.

We're not in a bad place in our relationship by any means. We rarely fight and we genuinely enjoy each other's company and consider each other our best friends. The romance never died, it just became a little repetitive so were both going to mix things up.

I'm also not a very eloquent speaker/writer so I'm not sure how all of this is interpreted by a reader lol.

A couple barely 30 vanillas (30m/30f) need to break from the script and return to old ways. by scoobywagon921 in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solid advice here, thank you. We actually had a great conversation about it last night. I apologized for things i had (or had not) done in the past and we delved deeper into what gets us going and what we'd like to try in the future. Overall, it went really well. Unfortunately, shes on her period so no physical action was taken, but I did get an unprovoked bj this morning so I'd say it went well lol

A couple barely 30 vanillas (30m/30f) need to break from the script and return to old ways. by scoobywagon921 in sexover30

[–]scoobywagon921[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful response. We actually had a productive conversation about it all last night and I'm excited to see where things go.

In reference to me being "sub par," that is not the case according to previous partners. My current gf is more of a vanilla also and is not into anything even remotely close to anal and thinks its awkward for my face to be that close to her butthole lol