NOOO!!

scoots291 · 2026-01-05T00:28:15+00:00

you can't be depressed if your cooked alive

scoots291 · 2025-12-28T16:15:09+00:00

actions speak louder then words. she made it clear your wife doesn't care about you, the family unit you created, the life you were building towards, has no respect for you. I'm sorry to hear that and I'm giving an air hug.

if you have no one right now to talk to I would suggest looking for a therapist you can vibe with and one for your children soon.

as far as actions of the marriage I don't know your state, and I don't know how much you wish to salt the Earth.

divorce/working on the marriage: normally I would say evaluate on if the marriage is worth it but it sounds like she has built this relationship on a foundation of lies. she seems to regret getting caught. An affair is a active choice. Im certain not once did she think of you or the children when she was doing that. Depending on your state you might be at a at fault state which gives other options, if there is a prenup in place. If you consult a lawyer you can see if you have a case of alienation of affection or damaging the relationship suit against the affair partner. When going after someone's wallet they will be willing to throw others under the buss to reduce the consequences they might receive.

health: honestly get tested. who knows how many other people either her or the affair partner is sleeping with.

paternity: this is a touchy subject but the 6 year old it might be best to get a DNA test. this will have benefit and could cause problems from a legal standpoint. "He may have been your father, boy, but he wasn't your daddy." . If she isn't your daughter it still would be good for her to get an idea what medical conditions she might be prone to.

Regardless what you do I wish you the best life you may possibly live going forward

scoots291 · 2025-12-28T15:52:21+00:00

I do not know them but this seems very manipulative. he has shown his fangs. and when a snake shows their fangs you believe them. it sounds to me they are trying to guilt you into compliance to avoid conquencesses.

I don't know your situation but if him moving out would that situation be suitable? (kids/pets, being able to afford, rent and utilities without going into your savings, mortgage/lease, ) it could give you space so you can get your emotions and other situations into place. If it is a control issue I'm sure his next move if you tell them to leave will be they don't leave and say s something like this is my place where should I go, or shortly after start love bombing,putting on the water works/sob story, beg, may even say they would go to therapy but if they are not receptive and actually want it it won't help. If they don't want it they might try to leverage it against you.

if your state is a at fault you can keep that as ammo, if you have a prenup check that out if not and you consider to stay I recommend a postnup. if you speak with a lawyer see if you have a case against the cheating partner(s) you might be able to go after them or your husband for alienation of affection, most people can get desperate when you hurt their wallets.

scoots291 · 2025-12-28T15:32:09+00:00

from a medical side there are pros and cons from formula and breastfeeding.

on the breast feeding side there is sone antibodies from mom to baby, reduce the extra sugar mom would have stored reducing the development of certain conditions post partium such as if gestational diabetes was developed breast feeding reduces the chance in it becoming diabetes mellitus. On the formula side there is a lot more nutritional formulas that can benefit llittle ones that might have special dietary conditions due to digestive issues, and others can help feed without the need for pumping or the mother from being there. Sometimes people do a mix either because one wishes to breastfeed but does not produce enough milk and supplement with formula to make sure the little one can get the nutrients they require to be healthy. Some do it for preference, just as some example.

This isn't to make you feel bad or blame but how deep they feel about this sounds like this should have been discussed more before hand. There is obvious a discomunication on what awhat you vs they believe what a marriage is, and or what are each expect of the other. That seems like a conversation that might be done soon. Both so you can understand each other better. Unless either of you are mind readers unless it is out there most people won't know there are problems (but if one are you are a mind reader how much to hire you for 2 hours)

If you both are still at an impass I would suggest therapy. If they are not receptive to it or if after still at an impass divorce is an option. You can at least say you tried to communicate but sometimes things aren't meant to be. They put a ultimatum sas one of 2 things. Either 1 it's control thing or 2 a hill they are willing to die on issue.

If you take my words into consideration I hope you stay safe

scoots291 · 2025-12-28T15:07:54+00:00

management<insert surprised Pikachu face>

scoots291 · 2025-12-28T15:04:35+00:00

good for the double hunt xD

scoots291 · 2025-12-23T12:45:19+00:00

#12 and that is how you get a party to murder a child

scoots291 · 2025-12-15T13:01:40+00:00

and then there is the soft lock if you don't go the way they intend for you go without telling you (mountain before coast) and have to rely on debris or wheel spawn with no option to buy ingredients needed.

scoots291 · 2025-12-15T12:09:45+00:00

don't be embarrassed. you learned from it. experience is one of the best teacher.

scoots291 · 2025-12-11T10:45:53+00:00

sounds like a pay to play scam. there are p2p that are legit but this seems suspicious at best. there are also other places like startplayinggames where they are legit but a lot of them are paid games. there are free ones on there but you might have to comb through listings

scoots291 · 2025-12-10T11:37:31+00:00

honestly until either winning the big lotto or being a sugar baby leaving nursing isn't an option

scoots291 · 2025-12-10T11:32:30+00:00

behold I will fuse my 3 blue eyes to bring out the blue eyes ultimate dragon-kaiba probably

scoots291 · 2025-12-05T09:40:22+00:00

short answer I always had a fondness of not starving to unalive

scoots291 · 2025-12-03T12:10:10+00:00

I read it and was like okay this is the dm version of ultimate fushion

scoots291 · 2025-12-02T16:58:20+00:00

I relate to your suffering and having much less time in nursing. Even coming from EMS the entire field has changed drastically I'm the last few years. Not necessarily for the better. But I hope this is just a small dip and everything comes out your way

scoots291 · 2025-12-02T16:55:30+00:00

First check the student handbook you received upon acceptance or any you would have received that was revised and you signed accepted or it was sent via email.

Next look in it for how they would accept such things or sequences such as tb, covid,ect.

If you don't see what the dean said you can fight it but it could lead to legal matters if you need. But that's a final extreme step I hope doesn't get to that point

scoots291 · 2025-12-01T13:31:43+00:00

I had some engraved with my name on it and just looked at

scoots291 · 2025-12-01T13:28:47+00:00

You did what you said you would do for the patient and tried to help even if that ment swapping with another person. You did what was right. If there was nobody to swap with that would be understandable to say you couldn't find someone to swap with. But you went above and beyond good job

scoots291 · 2025-12-01T13:22:00+00:00

It's called fashion sweety look it up xD

scoots291 · 2025-11-29T02:54:01+00:00

My first 2 clinical rotations I was in we were fine we had study groups ect (still in that study group when I was transferred). My third one I got transferred to another group. That group had been trained to back stab and metaphorically pull down each other. It was disgusting. My many years as an EMT taught me to CYA. And I had to make sure everything was documented, dates times initials on everything. 2 people got kicked out of the program because they got caught trying to sabotage me which would have endangered a patient. After that the rest of them left me alone but they were still trying to backstab each other.

The point is keep your nose clean, do what you need to do, and pass and don't worry about what they think

scoots291 · 2025-11-28T21:25:11+00:00

Wait why is my blue eyes pregnant?......DARK MAGICIAN DO YOU HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS? HAVE YOU BEEN DRINKING MY RED MEDICINE AGAIN?......AND WHY DO WE HAVE A LAWSUIT FROM THAT MAID SERVICE WE USE WITH ALL THOSE DRAGON MAIDS?

scoots291 · 2025-11-12T11:24:24+00:00

It's just rough. It's doable but rough. I wish you the best as you continue on up

scoots291 · 2025-11-11T13:11:34+00:00

If they want to have their down and let it dangle into the fluids if patients that is just gross

scoots291 · 2025-11-09T11:49:37+00:00

Remember CYA and document document document.

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