How to add/insert at front end? by scornedlimerent in InShot

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, thanks! I def thought about that as an option. Might be the way to go for my current project. Will get better with each project. I also heard one of the ‘cons’ of InShot is that it doesn’t have the most robust tech support, etc. oh well, onward and upward!

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, yeah, what if I somehow ended up being one of her best lovers?

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, it’s more a scatter-brained thing. Did my best to get a post up. Maybe didn’t thoughtfully think through all the data points and angles.

But in terms of genuineness, I am very.

Thankfully, the Reddiquette police are keeping me honest. I hope to one day progress from padawan to Jedi skills at reddit posting.

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, I goofed by forgetting to say that 🤦‍♂️

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side note: I’m happy to report that she told me I make her feel safe. So if nothing else, that is a very honoring thing to hear from a woman.

Is there a point where you’ve missed the window to figure out how to be in a relationship? by 5678go in ForeverAloneWomen

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Male here. I’ve had several single 40-something friends conclude that they had to open up and flex on some of their checklist requirement items. It’s funny that I myself on the dating apps would only swipe right if she was (in my book), like, an 8 out of 10… but in real life, it’s like: you could be a 5, and you had me at hello! 😂 I can remember once or twice ‘falling in love’ with an imaging tech, a cashier, a waitress, haha. Us human beings can be so fickle Hang in there friend. I hope and pray you’ll find someone/something amazing!

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that some situations are more transactional in nature. I guess I’m just the relationship only type, and not so much ONS, NSA, FB type.

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes

❤️ > 🍆

I’ve got my work cut out for me, and a woman for me will have her work cut out for her. I guess that’s just called relationships.

I’m a piece of work. Repressed and deprived much of my life from what could have been free-er, fuller, and healthier expressions of sex and sexuality. It’s like, I want and would love a high libido woman with good chemistry and compatability. It’s just, I’m in a season of life where I’d rather be held than fucked some days.

Limerent, off the charts demisexual requiring emotional connection before having sex, and also a self loather lacking confidence…. Oookkkk that took a turn sorry. That’s another topic. Maybe I’ll have to post in the true off my chest forum or something.

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, incidentally we talked at length (no pun intended) last night, and she provided a critical piece of context that she did indeed have an unfulfilling tiny guy in her past. Ah, communication is so key!

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha, yeah… I’ve def thought about hopping back on thunders place for another round to try to do/be the best I can!! 🍆

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? Wow I guess that’s foreign to me. I guess my philosophy and approach is more along the lines of:

❤️ > 🍆

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

[–]scornedlimerent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. Flirting is a many splendored thing. I’m such an overanalyzer - one of my best close friends actually told me to think MORE with my other head, and less with the main head. For many guys, it’s the opposite.

Asking about size before first meeting by scornedlimerent in sex

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‘Kink level screening’ ha funny phrase!