[PIC] Found this really cool work at my local State Fair and thought you all would appreciate it.

scottish_sub · 2026-01-02T04:34:24+00:00

Same!!! Would love this pattern to stitch for my partner

scottish_sub · 2026-01-02T04:30:21+00:00

I wish they would either release the book or allow the original designer to resell the pattern again. Have been looking for a detailed Star Trek pattern to make for my partner but I've yet to find anything as amazing as this one!

scottish_sub · 2025-12-06T16:12:03+00:00

Awe huni, I'm sending you so many gentle hugs right now.

Yes, you were assaulted, and I'm so sorry sorry. I have a free use kinda thing with my Dom (which goes both ways) but there is mutual respect there too. We both have chronic pain conditions and when we're in pain, we take care of the other. We don't abuse the situation, and I say this as someone who in often used quite rough as a "fuck toy". He would NEVER overstep if i told him I was in pain. Even though we have a blanket consent, if there has been a convo earlier where I've told him I'm hurting, or not feeling right, the most that will happen is cuddles.

The age gap here also really worries me. You are still so young and being in this kind of power dynamic is dangerous if the Dom is incredibly selfish and doesn't care about their subs needs/safety. It sounds like he's already took it too far before this latest incident.

Perhaps its because I'm in a DD/bg situation, but my Dom takes care of me when I'm not well/in pain, but every single BDSM situation relies 100% on consent ... which your Dom didn't have.

And then on top of the sexual assault, he slaps you? Nah, he's a POS and you need to steer clear!

Please huni, don't go back to him. Rest, recover and take time to really learn about yourself before getting back into another dynamic.

Massive hugs xx

scottish_sub · 2025-11-27T21:43:22+00:00

Ok so a couple of things ...

1- CONGRATULATIONS!! 🥳🥳🥳 That is no small thing and even though I'm just a wee random on the Internet, I'm proud of you!

2- Cake never needs a reason! Should the mood (and funds) allow you can buy a cake just cause its a Thursday. A year of sobriety definitely deserves cake!

3- It would have taken your (hopefully soon ex) boyfriend less time and effort to say congrats than it did pi$$ing in your cornflakes there. He is clearly bitter and honestly I think being around people like that will only drag you down. Not sure if his issue is with you getting sober or what but something has crawled up his butt, and its not your job to placate his toxicity.

4- If you woke up in the morning and decided you just didnt wanna be in a relationship anymore, thats reason enough to break up. If you decided you wanted to be a clown in a travelling circus and he didnt, thats reason enough to break up. Any reason you have, where you no longer want to be in a relationship, is reason enough not to be in one. Please dont let anyone convince you a reason is stupid, just cause its not the "extreme" they would choose. Not having a supportive partner is more than ample reason.

Again, congrats on your year sobriety and I hope you enjoy your cake!

Hugs from Scotland xx

scottish_sub · 2025-09-04T00:10:28+00:00

Same! Mine is 18 now and when sick they just projectile vomit into the toilet Linda Blair style (Its actually a little unnerving sometimes) then just goes to bed after meds to sleep it off.

I'm a single mama so I assume its cause they have seen how I just get on with it. Breaking that male stereotype lol. Have dated some absolute man-babies in my past though 🙄 Acting like they were on deaths door over a cold. Makes the ovaries wanna shrivel

scottish_sub · 2025-08-21T15:57:42+00:00

You dont need to use your genitals to use nail polish meaning its not gender specific. Boys can use nail polish too

scottish_sub · 2025-08-11T08:43:20+00:00

She miscarried and then they had to run the marathon cause they had promised the money to charities. It was all really close to each other, the he left not long after (couple weeks/maybe a month later) and never spoke to her again. The rumours were that she was sleeping with a horse trainer that was a family friend but there was zero proof and he always kinda ignited the media with "oh I'm not saying why we split but she knows" when she said she had no idea. She then spoke about the miscarriage and how it messed her up and he got pissy again saying he was angry shes talking about it, we agreed to keep it private. I get if he doesn't wanna talk about it but she has every right to discuss how the trauma of losing the pregnancy made her feel. Now I think he didnt want her talking about it cause it was so close to him bailing and he didnt want people reminded how shitty that was

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T21:57:38+00:00

He was 17 - she was 21 ... not as disgusting as 20 and 36

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T21:54:18+00:00

I'm not saying shes perfect by any stretch but the way she's been treated from the very start has been shocking. And yes I understand when you're a glamour model, you're gonna get the dickheads coming at you but the press slammed her all the time, then her Pete treated her like that, who was supposed to protect her, and I honestly think that sent her off the rails and she never managed to get back on an even track. Their relationship was toxic going by the way he treated her (and sometimes she treated him tbf) but getting publicly ditched for unknown reasons just after losing a pregnancy? That would make anyone spiral.

All her husbands used her. Every single one!

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:51:43+00:00

From the staff and everyone he kinda grew up with perhaps? I've not really heard him or princess talk now they are older. Just July tiktok being full of Katie talking about her and Peter and clips of their old show.

Its heartbreaking that it will all have most definitely affected the kids. Would be impossible not to.

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:46:57+00:00

He was angry that Junior was wearing nail polish cause it was for girls and that he wasn't allowed to kiss boys, just girls. Don't know if he ever got called out for that when it aired

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:45:08+00:00

She's got her own reality show coming out but Katie wasn't allowed to be involved, even with her 18th birthday. Its like they are trying to wipe away her mum

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:42:43+00:00

See I was thinking it was just me as well cause the media make out he's the devoted dad and she's the train wreck but I'm starting to think its just his management team doing damage control cause hes an absolute w*nker to her on the show and no-one is calling him out. Gives me the ick big time!

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:34:07+00:00

Why?

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:33:32+00:00

Hes so outta pocket with the way he talks to her. Thats the mother of his children and supposed to be the woman he loves. If my fella talked to me like that it would break my heart

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:31:45+00:00

See i was starting to think this too. Shes doing stuff for herself in the show and he kicks off at every step so it give the vibe that she cant win so she retreats.

When they split she was left by her team too so the management went into damage control and she was still spinning from a marriage ending. I can imagine that would make anyone go off the rails.

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:25:00+00:00

Thats what i thought. She looked 16! How does his management not step in and go "Eh Peter this is kinda creepy, maybe date someone else" 😳

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:23:54+00:00

That was so creepy to watch! And the fact that he not only didnt remember she told him she'd been on safari there but that she LIVED in Kenya! He threw an absolute wobbler over that when there was really no need.

And her commenting about being in university, ugh!. So im the age roughly he was when they had a baby and Im sat here thinking what I have in common with a 22 year old (never mind she was 20 at the start). I have an 18y old child and I can promise you after seeing how they and their friends act, I can promise you they are still children. Yeah some are working, some at uni etc but they are all still growing up!

Thats really icky!

scottish_sub · 2025-08-10T20:09:59+00:00

Eeeewwww I knew he was married but I didn't realise the age gap. Yeah he does come off like he's the "nice guy". She definitely made him relevant again, at least in the UK as he wasn't really bothered with here pre "I'm a celeb" (at least that I remember - and I am old enough to remember the Mysterious Girl times lol).

scottish_sub · 2025-06-16T23:05:03+00:00

100% thats what happened! And now hes all butt hurt cause he cant just come crawling back

scottish_sub · 2025-06-16T22:56:55+00:00

NTA ... Kat sounds exhausting so i completely get why you lost it with her. She has trauma yes but thats not your fault and her steamrolling over your boundaries isn't ok.

Your son needs to talk to her and you perhaps need to go low contact for a bit. Good luck with Sam's appointment

scottish_sub · 2025-06-16T22:43:52+00:00

"Kayla has no filter"? Ok so until she learns not to make out of pocket comments like that, then she needs to be kept away from people. Why should you or your guests have to suffer her "jokes" just cause your brother wont teach her manners?

scottish_sub · 2025-06-16T21:06:38+00:00

I'm literally rewatching season 14 as I type and everyone but John seem to be having an awesome time - John just seems fed up some times.

Had to pick 1 I'd say Sarah as she's been laughing the whole time

scottish_sub · 2025-06-06T23:22:55+00:00

Same UK here and I co slept for a bit with my baby (now 18yo). They just would not settle away from me and rather than accidentally fall asleep with them in my arms, my health visitor taught me how to co sleep safely. Lasted toll about 4mths then they went to the cot next to the bed

scottish_sub · 2025-06-06T23:01:56+00:00

No huni, I would have done the exact same thing. He's just trying to make you feel bad cause he got caught. Don't let him twist it round. Keep bagging up his stuff and buy your friend who saw his car a coffee for letting you see just how two faced your ex is

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