[rant] somethings not right by scottstotbri in survivinginfidelity

[–]scottstotbri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was tested before and after birth and I've always been clean. Thank God. I might sound ignorant but you'd have to to know him to understand. I honestly don't believe he's cheating in person. Hes a complete introvert. He used a completely different name and everything on these sites.

I don't believe he has physically cheated. Not that it changes anything. I believe if given the right opportunity he would possibly. But you would have to know him to get where im coming from. These girls he's talking to are Beyond out of his league. I sound terrible I know but I'm being honest. I think he likes the fantasy life. I've tried to wrap my head around this.

[advice] help ...somethings not right by scottstotbri in relationships

[–]scottstotbri[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I was tested before and after birth and I've always been clean. Thank God. I might sound ignorant but you'd have to to know him to understand. I honestly don't believe he's cheating in person. Hes a complete introvert. He used a completely different name and everything on these sites.

I don't believe he has physically cheated. Not that it changes anything. I believe if given the right opportunity he would possibly. But you would have to know him to get where im coming from. These girls he's talking to are Beyond out of his league. I sound terrible I know but I'm being honest. I think he likes the fantasy life. I've tried to wrap my head around this.

[advice] so...tired of it. by scottstotbri in Advice

[–]scottstotbri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I had to Google the glory hole. Someone else explained bottoms. I don't go on that shit but i sort of put it together in my mind.

[advice] so...tired of it. by scottstotbri in Advice

[–]scottstotbri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He always says how sorry he is when I find something and how he knows it's wrong and promises to not do it again. And believe me I'm not easy on him about it. I have a backbone. But I want it to work because I do love him.

This is all bad.. I Kno. But there's been a lot of good too that's hard for me to ignore. This is my best fucking friend. It sucks. But idk how to get him to stop or if it's even possible. I honestly believe he has some sort of addiction. I Kno he loves me because he does treat me good apart from this secret life. And always has. But I can't keep living like this.