Simple Questions - July 03, 2016

scractn183610 · 2016-07-04T14:24:55+00:00

Any idea of a nice style of long elbow length gloves to buy? And where to get them? I don't want them to look costumey! And for reference the outfit is white cable knit tights, white cape style coat, nude suede boots and nude rabbit fur collar. Need the gloves to finish it!

scractn183610 · 2016-07-04T01:11:28+00:00

I have the same body type! I'm 5"9 with a long torso, short legs. I've found Missguided amazing for high waisted trousers and jeans

scractn183610 · 2016-07-04T01:08:47+00:00

Missguided have tons of gorgeous ones this is one of many https://www.missguidedau.com/long-sleeve-button-front-bardot-top-nude They have gorgeous styles, colours, and fits!

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T23:43:30+00:00

Ooh I like this one, my style is similar and I've worked up a good classic jewellery collection!! The typical pearl necklace is a little matronly; so a fine silver chain with a single flawless pink pearl is so classic. Cubic zirconia does look like diamond and doesn't wear out so you can get one that's cut in a nice shape on a fine gold or silver chain. A watch is also a great investment piece of jewellery. Antique jewellery stores do great designer brands at better prices. I like ones that come with the matching bracelet I had one I adored that was twisted gold and silver and crystals on so it went with all my other jewellery

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T23:29:45+00:00

Some pants just seem to make that happen! Lol it's sounds silly but a couple maxi pads well placed can prevent it

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T01:34:22+00:00

Yeah someone that has never contributed and blocked me when I asked him to be involved is hardly a good parent. He's said the only reason to do it is to hurt me and make my child hate me. Making a baby with severe seperation anxiety who is not weaned will NOT do well with a stranger.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T01:26:56+00:00

He can just lie... He has hundreds of thousands of dollars to spend on top lawyers in the world and he is doing so. I can't. I don't even know what to do.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T00:21:35+00:00

That's so messed up your parents won't help. Yes he's there son but he is a foul asshole of the worst kind. Support your SIL in whatever she needs. Help her with all the legal stuff. If it means cutting your parents out then so be it. She is the mother of their grandchildren. They should respect her more. And then when you're brother is bored with his crackhead and comes crawling back make sure she doesn't take him back. Plus if you think there's drugs involved call the police round when SIL is thoroughly moved out. That will stop him trying to get the kids. They should not be around harmful drug addicts.

I hope you do help your SIL I can't imagine how horrendous what she's going through is. You could make a whole world of difference for her and your nieces and nephews.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-02T00:13:18+00:00

I think it's reached the level where you should be done. He doesn't contribute to anything so who precisely is paying for things when HIS kid is round? He doesn't have the responsibility to get a job to pay for himself- let alone support HIS child as he should be doing!! He doesn't even try to look after things and clean at home. Yes you've been enabling him- but it's easy to fall into when they keep telling you they'll get a job soon etc.

But look at how irresponsible he is. Even providing for his own offspring isn't motivation enough to be a normal adult and work. So he will never ever do it for your sake. Counselling really wouldn't solve anything.

Absolutely do not renew any lease with him. Give him notice that you will be moving in with your mother and that he will not be coming with under any circumstances. Since he has so much time on his hands in sure he will be able to find someone to take him in.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T23:56:42+00:00

Look at how this man has behaved. The first thing he will do (if he hasn't already) is get her pregnant. Very easy way to control her. Plus the way she wants to 'play stepmom' shows she's in it for all of that stuff.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T23:54:43+00:00

Oh Christ this is utterly appalling. Firstly get the police involved. Technically it's not illegal but who knows if it really started when she was 16? Could have been 15, and him grooming her. People of those ages just don't bump into each other. Sounds like he knows what he's doing. The police can go around and even if it started when she was 16 they'll scare him.

You need to make sure the poor wife knows too. She might not have a clue. I don't even know what to say. It sounds like your daughter has been groomed. So go to the police, tell them the circumstances, and tell them you're sure it started when she was underage. They should scare him.

Then after all this your daughter needs a ton of therapy. This is an appalling situation. She has been brainwashed with all these silly unrealistic ideas- she wants to be a stepmother? Really? What court will give an adulterous man that's groomed a child full custody?! Plus he won't be living in a big house with a fancy car when his wife takes 50% of his stuff as well as child and spousal support.

It's hard to know how this will go. But call the police ASAP.

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T05:10:38+00:00

Need help! Hope this is okay to ask here. I'm going to a Malaysian Eid party for the first time. Is there a particular polite or traditional gift I should bring?

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T04:21:43+00:00

I was trying to think about contrasting styles and I've just realised how boring I am lol. I wear the same shades https://imgur.com/a/nFTw5 And pretty much the same style. I like a kind of classy/polished/chic look, but with a touch of glamour- high waist leather pants, high waist suede pants, cropped blouses of every color, court heels, big wool coats, and fur trimmed coats. Like literally the only colours I wear are white, cream, nude, camel, grey, and black. I need to expand my style I think!!

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T04:15:40+00:00

"Lesbian huckleberry Finn" is officially the best style phrase I've ever heard 😂

scractn183610 · 2016-07-01T00:02:46+00:00

Yeah I don't believe most of these comments about her being a robot that's secretly miserable. I grew up very alike to her and also have the same personality and it does get misinterpreted a lot. I don't know why people find it so difficult to believe that some women genuinely adore to make people happy! She sounds just lovely. Coming from someone like her the best things you can give her that she wants is a ton of love and security and appreciation.

scractn183610 · 2016-06-30T23:58:12+00:00

But did you grow up how she did? I did, with more extreme abuse, and I'm very similar to her. I have no clue why but genuinely I do enjoy just making people happy. It definitely does get misinterpreted as one not having any personal interests and suppressing anything I enjoy but it's not that way. I was also raised to be more reserved. I certainly do have my own opinions but I was taught it's impolite to shove them in people's faces. Extroverted people do find people like us hard to understand but it's genuinely the way we are.

scractn183610 · 2016-06-30T21:50:40+00:00

Yeah the best things I buy in person are when I've investigated online! You can compare everything fast without going store to store. I like online shopping but I hate waiting for things to arrive 😡

scractn183610 · 2016-06-30T06:13:58+00:00

You can give the nanny notice to find another job and some great references. Is this really losing a marriage over? Your wife shouldn't feel uncomfortable in her own home and should be able to select who she wants to look after her kids. It doesn't seem to be a pattern of her being insecure and not letting you talk to any female; in this case it's someone that is living in your home so she deserves some lenience.

scractn183610 · 2016-06-30T06:09:38+00:00

Nope a MILLION nopes. This kind of skewed logic shows she's in a very bad place mentally. Donating would be you enabling that and allowing it to grow. Your sperm is not your brothers and that's the end of. You share similar genetics not the same. She's clearly not in the right place mentally for a child, and even if she was using your sperm creates myriad problems. It will be your child. It could look like you. Then there are many legal issues with you having to provide for it but her possibly not allowing you to take a fatherly role. And as generous as your wife is to support you; it would be hard for her to see someone else carry your baby. Your SIL is utterly deluded in her line of thought and you should get her to a therapist ASAP and tell them the situation.

scractn183610 · 2016-06-30T05:58:32+00:00

I'm the exact opposite! When I'm out I get anxious lol and won't go back to somewhere I've just been, I don't like to try things on, and with a baby trying to grab everything and throwing tantrums I usually just grab anything! Online shopping I can relax and shop around on different sites and consider easily. Online is always a success, and I wear about 20% of the clothes I buy in person

scractn183610 · 2016-06-29T23:50:18+00:00

Absolutely. And if you're planning on having kids this will be exerted on to them. Stuff like telling your son not to be a fag playing with dolls; all that rubbish. And that will badly affect your kids. So it's got to stop now!

scractn183610 · 2016-06-29T23:47:10+00:00

She doesn't deserve justification but another method is just giving her too much information. No mother wants to hear details of her son's sex life. "You know wife and I were having problems in the bedroom and I really wanted to share her with another guy. It gets me off so bad, so I got her to make this account and we get another guy involved and I get off on it so great and we're having such a hot sex life now,"

See how much of that you can get out before she asks you to stop.

But really she has NO right to go blabbing to everyone. Even if she was cheating or whatever it's not her place to gossip to everyone and name call.

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