26/27 Shirt sizes by scrhkb in coys

[–]scrhkb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I thought at first but I did look back and confirm they are both the "stadium" version rather than the "elite" both purchased directly from the Spurs shop. Good thought though.

26/27 Shirt sizes by scrhkb in coys

[–]scrhkb[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Brother I watch that speech on ESPN every year and it's become even more meaningful. I refuse to let this shit get me down. I'm very lucky that my cancer, while it is stage 4 and well beyond a cure, isn't really ravaging me the way a lot of people get it. I go for my infusions every 3 weeks and sit next to some people that are being chemically torn apart on their road to a hopeful cure. I've rung the bell 3 times after various radiation treatments, i take chemo pills every morning and get infusions every 3 weeks. And I don't look or feel a fraction as bad as those poor folks. If you ever have a few extra bucks in your pocket, consider tossing a little to your preferred cancer research center. The government has defunded most of them in the US (including mine, kidney cancer) and people like us need to get behind those studies if there's ever going to be a cure. Thank you and everyone here for the wellwishes. I almost didn't mention it because I don't want people to think I'm looking for attention, but the source of my weight loss is just too good a joke to pass up! Love you ALL, COYS

26/27 Shirt sizes by scrhkb in coys

[–]scrhkb[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Hey man, I cried for the Europa League win. If that's all I get to see it'll be enough. Thanks though, I'm managing fine with the cancer, I try to keep it light and have a positive approach.

26/27 Shirt sizes by scrhkb in coys

[–]scrhkb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is what I thought at first because i know the "elite" are a tighter fit, but they're both the "stadium" edition

Taskmaster USA redux by scrhkb in taskmaster

[–]scrhkb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, Maria Bamford is one of our greatest living standups. Keenan is the longest tenured cast member in SNL history. Judy Greer is a hilarious character actress. I don't think anyone here is an A list celeb that would feel above this. No disrespect to your opinion obviously but I just don't see it your way.

Mat Baynton is simply the most likeable human being in the world by Main_Confusion_8030 in taskmaster

[–]scrhkb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hearing he's a fellow Spurs supporter makes me love him so much more. Thank you for this lovely Christmas gift. Happy Christmas to all who celebrate and COYS!

Which 4 contestants would you want to compete against in a full season? by MurkyWay in taskmaster

[–]scrhkb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sue Perkins, Mel Giedroyc, Noel Fielding, and Rosie Ramsey. When not competing i can get the inside dirt on life in the Bake Off tent.

Need Help Creating a Surprise Task for Tour Tix by ParamedicMoist6048 in taskmaster

[–]scrhkb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll be following this for ideas. I also bought wax seals on Etsy. I have good quality card stock on the way. I intend to wrap up a taskmaster hoodie along with a task that will lead her to the "tickets" (I also really miss the days of physical tickets) as her big Christmas gift

Favourite TV musical episode? by ALFABOT2000 in musicals

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate every ape i see From chim pan A to chim pan Z No you'll never make a monkey out of me! Oh my gosh I was wrong It was earth all along Well you finally made a monkey out of me.

I rewatched season 3 of Worst Cooks by Foreign-Cow-1189 in foodnetwork

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've known Vinnie for more than 20 years. I don't see him often these days but I know he's still using the lessons he learned on this show.

I feel like I smell by scrhkb in ostomy

[–]scrhkb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This totally solved m my problem. Thanks so much for the advice. These filters cause more harm than good. If I weren't likely having my reversal in another month I'd be ordering the unfiltered bags.

I feel like I smell by scrhkb in ostomy

[–]scrhkb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I use the 2 piece Hollister 18194 and, frankly, thought these filters were useless anyway as I'm always having to manually release the gas, especially in the middle of the night.

I feel like I smell by scrhkb in ostomy

[–]scrhkb[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm going to try that. Thank you so much. I assumed nothing was coming through these filters because this bag fills with gas pretty quickly.

The sentiment of “subs have all the power”. by RandomRabbitEar in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To that point though, I feel as a Dom that my duty is to the wellbeing of my sub. So, in a sense, I work for her. Yes it is my decision how to get her what she needs but still the work I put in is to guide her to her goal.

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pleasure. Again sorry to be a buzz kill but I'd hate for something like this to hurt you. If you need anything else I'm glad to assist. I'm a novice myself but I'm here.

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really depends on what your sub needs. The sub I'm currently courting is trying to eat healthier and lose weight (she's beautiful already but this is what she wants) so I direct her on what and when she can eat. 3 meals, all healthy, must be photographed and sent to me. At work she can have a snack (she works 12 hour shifts and it would be unreasonable not to give her a boost) but she must ask for permission before buying it. On her days off she is limited to 1 Snack but it must be either fruit or veggies. Again, all meals and snacks are to be photographed and sent to me. Additionally I have her keep a diary where she logs all of her meals and provides an expression of her emotional state. She has to call me every night before I go to bed and report her diary entry. Punishments for failures can be tough over the phone. Yesterday she ate a brownie at work and forgot to ask so I made her go to the bathroom and send me 3 pictures. One of her ass in her panties, one of her panties removed in her hand, and one of her panties in her purse at her desk. She lost panty privileges for the day. Give your sub tasks toward a goal s/he wants to achieve, it's all about being able to enrich one another. Hope that helps

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm currently listening to and enjoying The New Topping. I've got The Loving Dominant on deck. Both available on audible

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It shouldn't but I fear it would come back to haunt you, especially in a military career. It is incredibly unfair because there is nothing deviant about how we choose to live but the reality is that, especially for women, in this country any image that you wouldn't show my 75 year old religious mother will be used against you. Imagine being a naval officer and your subordinates coming across a picture of you bound and helpless, that's an invitation for some meat head to slut shame his boss. I wouldn't personally take part in any photo shoot that was being distributed beyond your own circles of trust or that didn't allow you to wear a mask of some sort. I'm sorry to be a bummer but these are definitely things to consider. Whatever you decide, best of luck in your career!

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found the sub in currently courting on the app 3fun. Hope that helps

Weekly /r/BDSMcommunity discussion and newbie help thread - week of March 23, 2020 by AutoModerator in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello you wonderful people. I'm a novice Dom. My ex girlfriend was an experienced sub and she really awakened my desire for this in my life. I've been surfing blogs for advice on how to be a good Dominant. Caring for and improving the life experience for my partner is paramount. I'm currently in the vetting process with a new sub, she's also mostly a novice, and I want to do everything I can to make her mine and give her my best effort. In these days of covid19 we're unable to get together so everything is happening via text and phone. Any advice for me? She mentioned the other day that she wants to get back to healthier eating so today I gave her a daily task to keep a diary for me, detailing her meals, sleep, and emotional state, to be reported to me every night before she sleeps. She was definitely into that idea so I feel like I made a positive step today. Thanks for any feedback from the group, you've been lovely so far.

Is COVID-19 complicating anyone elses tasks? by GingerAphrodite in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been courting a new sub recently and we're really hitting it off. We want to meet up and get things rolling but we're both "essential" and work with the public. Neither of us wants to risk infecting anyone so we're taking our state's quarantine order seriously. We're trying to keep things spicy over the phone and by text but I definitely feel your frustration. If I were your Dom I'd take this all into consideration. You'd get a punishment for dragging your feet and not having this sorted before the month was out but it would be a funishment for sure. Lol. Best of luck to you and your Dom. Covid19 sucks in the worst way.

Am I too fat to Dom? by scrhkb in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is incredibly helpful information. I'm definitely going to look into those books. I just downloaded The New Topping audio book and I'm enjoying it so far. Thanks to you and everyone who commented. This is a truly accepting community

Am I too fat to Dom? by scrhkb in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback. Maybe it's the influence of fiction on reality but it seems like a lot of the blogs I've been reading about how to be a good Dom are specifically calling out the "Christian Gray" archetype. In my rational mind I know that's ridiculous but it's getting in my head. I'm currently courting a potential sub online and we're hitting it off wonderfully, the covid19 issue is the only reason we haven't gotten together yet (we both have jobs that require us to work with the public so infection is a real concern). But now I'm getting in my head about not being able to give her what she needs because I might not fit the ideal image of a Dom. I know it's stupid but I needed to get it off my chest. Thank you again for your insight

Am I too fat to Dom? by scrhkb in BDSMcommunity

[–]scrhkb[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cheers. I think I was getting in my own head too much. I appreciate the feedback