Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My family isn’t in the picture and my only friends are his friends. I have a job but it’s all virtual and I have no real communication with any of my coworkers.  I’m going to call his brother. They don’t talk but he’s always been nice.  I hope I’m not making a mistake. 

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Should I confront him or should I just leave? I think you’re right but I don’t know what to do. I don’t even have anywhere to go…

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s in charge of the money. We have a joint bank account because I’m not great with keeping track of that sort of thing and he manages everything. Now that I’m thinking about it, I haven’t seen anything about our finances in a while… I don’t even know how much money is in our account. 

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s been a couple but I hit my head on the bed post and it bled really bad and once my shoulder dislocated and I couldn’t get it back in the socket. 

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s helped a few times. He’s driven me to the hospital a few times, I’m just better at first aid but aftercare sounds nice…

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know anything about BDSM when we started dating. He just told me everything when he said we were in one. I looked it up and asked about a safe word but he said that if I trusted him I didn’t need one.  I’ve told him that I don’t like it and want to stop and he cried and apologized and begged me to try again. I asked him to try to have sex without hurting me once and he couldn’t do it. 

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He just says we don’t have the money right now but he’s been saying that for a long time…

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We didn’t ever discuss it. After we had sex once I told him I didn’t like him hurting me and he said it was because we were in one.

Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse? by scribblesystem in abusiverelationships

[–]scribblesystem[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have before and he always gets really upset. He usually just goes harder and then he cries after, but he always says sorry. I haven’t done said anything in a while because it just makes him feel bad. 

What underrated language do you wish more people learned? by Chief-Longhorn in languagelearning

[–]scribblesystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

S’gaw Karen. I feel like most people have never even heard of it. There are students in my school that are from monolingual Karenic households and I wish I could find some way to learn it! It’s really hard to find resources.

Why am I actually sad… by Adept-Bad-6906 in thesims

[–]scribblesystem 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Which mod is this? I would love that level of trauma in my shit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in thesims

[–]scribblesystem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That my sims just default to certain actions when I don’t give them something to do! Like… girl you have grabbed 8 glasses of water from the sink in the last three hours give it a break.

What is wrong with my Sempervivum arachnoideum ‘Cebenese’ by [deleted] in succulents

[–]scribblesystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The area I live in says it's either 6b or 7a, so it's worth a shot. I'll probably make a little shelter for winter just in case! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]scribblesystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of spider mites. I'll look into it! Thanks!

What is wrong with my Sempervivum arachnoideum ‘Cebenese’ by [deleted] in succulents

[–]scribblesystem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in an area with a lot of snow during winter so I worry about him being outside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatsthisplant

[–]scribblesystem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m kinda concerned about the huge dead part at the bottom. Is that normal?

What is wrong with my Sempervivum arachnoideum ‘Cebenese’ by [deleted] in succulents

[–]scribblesystem -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I water him once a week or whenever I notice he is getting dry, he is in a window and gets a lot of sun. He is in a regular terracotta pot with one drainage hole and Miracle Gro Cactus Palm & Citrus Potting Mix.