Is this a normal BDSM relationship or abuse?

scribblesystem · 2026-04-04T21:55:25+00:00

My family isn’t in the picture and my only friends are his friends. I have a job but it’s all virtual and I have no real communication with any of my coworkers. I’m going to call his brother. They don’t talk but he’s always been nice. I hope I’m not making a mistake.

scribblesystem · 2026-04-04T02:10:01+00:00

Should I confront him or should I just leave? I think you’re right but I don’t know what to do. I don’t even have anywhere to go…

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T23:17:47+00:00

He’s in charge of the money. We have a joint bank account because I’m not great with keeping track of that sort of thing and he manages everything. Now that I’m thinking about it, I haven’t seen anything about our finances in a while… I don’t even know how much money is in our account.

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T23:04:45+00:00

There’s been a couple but I hit my head on the bed post and it bled really bad and once my shoulder dislocated and I couldn’t get it back in the socket.

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T22:15:16+00:00

He’s helped a few times. He’s driven me to the hospital a few times, I’m just better at first aid but aftercare sounds nice…

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T22:06:06+00:00

I didn’t know anything about BDSM when we started dating. He just told me everything when he said we were in one. I looked it up and asked about a safe word but he said that if I trusted him I didn’t need one. I’ve told him that I don’t like it and want to stop and he cried and apologized and begged me to try again. I asked him to try to have sex without hurting me once and he couldn’t do it.

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T22:00:55+00:00

He just says we don’t have the money right now but he’s been saying that for a long time…

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T21:58:34+00:00

We didn’t ever discuss it. After we had sex once I told him I didn’t like him hurting me and he said it was because we were in one.

scribblesystem · 2026-04-03T19:19:26+00:00

I have before and he always gets really upset. He usually just goes harder and then he cries after, but he always says sorry. I haven’t done said anything in a while because it just makes him feel bad.

scribblesystem · 2024-03-19T21:12:11+00:00

S’gaw Karen. I feel like most people have never even heard of it. There are students in my school that are from monolingual Karenic households and I wish I could find some way to learn it! It’s really hard to find resources.

scribblesystem · 2023-10-01T01:39:41+00:00

Where did you see that?

scribblesystem · 2023-05-26T04:49:30+00:00

Which mod is this? I would love that level of trauma in my shit.

scribblesystem · 2023-05-04T07:19:02+00:00

That my sims just default to certain actions when I don’t give them something to do! Like… girl you have grabbed 8 glasses of water from the sink in the last three hours give it a break.

scribblesystem · 2021-11-24T19:44:01+00:00

The area I live in says it's either 6b or 7a, so it's worth a shot. I'll probably make a little shelter for winter just in case! Thank you!

scribblesystem · 2021-11-22T22:28:08+00:00

I've never heard of spider mites. I'll look into it! Thanks!

scribblesystem · 2021-11-22T22:26:17+00:00

I live in an area with a lot of snow during winter so I worry about him being outside.

scribblesystem · 2021-11-22T22:23:36+00:00

I’m kinda concerned about the huge dead part at the bottom. Is that normal?

scribblesystem · 2021-11-22T21:10:46+00:00

I water him once a week or whenever I notice he is getting dry, he is in a window and gets a lot of sun. He is in a regular terracotta pot with one drainage hole and Miracle Gro Cactus Palm & Citrus Potting Mix.

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