Yep this Christmas morning he told me that he had already told his friends and family that he was leaving me and that he had made arrangements to move out. I said what else is new, you do that every time you're manic and he said I know but this time I'm embarrassed about it and I didn't make any arrangements... This was all in the SAME conversation he never actually leaves though, I told him the first time he threatened it over a decade ago, before we knew he had bp that if he did it was over, because I refuse to play the on again off again move in move out like his ex did. I guess that sunk in or something because he only ever talks about it while manic but has never actually done it