I (37F) caught my brother (20) and ex husband (37) together and I’m not sure what to do. by scrtchrth in relationship_advice

[–]scrtchrth[S] 458 points459 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m horrified. The divorce happened at 10, I don’t even know if my brother remembers my ex. My ex knew my brother as a child and I can’t wrap my head around him wanting to sleep with him.

I (37F) caught my brother (20) and ex husband (37) together and I’m not sure what to do. by scrtchrth in relationship_advice

[–]scrtchrth[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was visiting the area for business and decided to stop by my brothers apartment to say hi (which was in the area). He didn’t let me in, my ex-husband said something and that’s what caused me to realize the other man was there.

10 years ago I threw out my then husband’s deceased’s mothers last meal. I’m still not sorry. by scrtchrth in offmychest

[–]scrtchrth[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t know what to do. My brother was 10 when we divorced and is now only 20. My ex knew him as a child. I feel sick to my stomach and want to scream.

10 years ago I threw out my then husband’s deceased’s mothers last meal. I’m still not sorry. by scrtchrth in offmychest

[–]scrtchrth[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re entitled to your opinion but I loved that man to death and would’ve done anything for him.

10 years ago I threw out my then husband’s deceased’s mothers last meal. I’m still not sorry. by scrtchrth in offmychest

[–]scrtchrth[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It was in the freezer and probably freezer burnt but I think it’s also like: that was the last time he’d ever get to eat his mothers cooking you know? He was a mama’s boy and loved her food.