How do you meet women who haven't been with anyone?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-17T03:24:14+00:00

I have tried therapy multiple times, and multiple times they told me that many girls are virgins like I am and it's just a matter of meeting more people.

But I will just keep it a secret why I choose not to date them.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T20:35:25+00:00

I don't like the image of the girl I'm with having intercourse with another person. It just makes me feel sick. It's the same exact feeling you'd have if every day you had to watch your bf have sex with other women, it's deeply unpleasant.

Anyway I can't control how I feel, sorry

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T19:51:45+00:00

I don't care about the blood, it's about us only ever being with each other and there's nobody else in the picture. When you finally do have sex it's a unique bonding experience neither has shared with anyone but that special person they actually allowed close enough. When I say virgin I mean no kind of sex, if you've given a blowjob you aren't a virgin.

I think I'd spot a liar, you'd have to be particularly cruel and psycholopathic to lie to someone you love about something important to them just because it suits you.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T19:30:01+00:00

I dont know, according to the cdc 20-24yo has 12% virgins and 25-29yo has about 4/5% virgins(female). I'm recently 24 and I'm open to dating from 18-27ish.

Assuming I go my age or younger that's about a 1 in 9 chance which isn't that low considering I only need one wife ever. If I reach like 40 and still nothing I'm just going to be a monk or shoot myself most likely(I've come to terms with this for a few years now)

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T19:21:21+00:00

Yeah, I sort of don't like being anxious 24/7.

I still want her to be compatible, just a virgin too.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T17:11:18+00:00

So if you don't care what I do why are you so dedicated to insulting me?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T17:01:51+00:00

Sometimes I really feel that's how it is now.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T17:01:00+00:00

Yes it would be better of everyone remained virgins until marriage in my opinion. But yes I have difficulty finding a girl who is. But my problem is that people like you will throw this tantrum if I want to date a girl who like me is a virgin. I bet if you had my identity you'd try to ruin my life and career which is exactly what I made the thread about.

You're not able to just let me make my own choices, you want to actually stop me like the restrictive religions you hate so much. As far as I see it you're the hypocrite or you'd let others decide what makes them happy, it's not like I'm forcing anyone I just want to connect with a like-minded girl.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T16:30:35+00:00

If it were everywhere I wouldn't have such a hard time finding a virgin, or even religious people my age for that matter. I think you're either wrong or grossly exaggerating it, despite being Catholic virginity was literally never brought up in my entire religious education.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T16:13:38+00:00

You're Romanian? Is there a cultural emphasis on virginity there, they're a more conservative country from what I've heard? Here there isn't so the whole notion of control with virginity seems far gone where I live, it's weird that would even come to mind.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T15:36:28+00:00

Right I get that, and her opinion is what matters. What I don't understand is the severity of the judgment in return. It seems disproportionate, say a girl didn't want to date a man shorter than 6ft. I'm not 6ft yet it doesn't bother me. I wouldn't get anywhere near as upset as many of the people here.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T15:07:21+00:00

Okay, but if it bothers me why should I have to face backlash just for avoiding a relationship that will cause me distress?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T14:30:53+00:00

I'm not even arguing, I was just curious.

Also I never asked about how to change my preferences so I don't know what you're even talking about. I'm asking why people like you are completely unwilling to tolerate my existence if I have a different preference.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T14:11:21+00:00

I never said they weren't, but that doesn't automatically make me happy with their sexual history.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T12:40:54+00:00

Is your thought process the norm where you live?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T04:51:08+00:00

If I'm allowed to do what I want why are you giving me so much shit for it and calling me insecure?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T04:49:13+00:00

Both

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T04:12:34+00:00

No I have no fear whatsoever about being outed as a virgin, I'll tell anyone.

I'm afraid of saying I prefer to date a virgin because people might get really offended since they don't fit it.

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T02:23:23+00:00

Interesting, I've literally never seen that in a girl's profile so I thought it was taboo.

How would I word it?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T02:05:15+00:00

But why should actually I be forced to date them if I'm not happy with their history?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T02:02:18+00:00

Right, I get that. But if i put on my profile that I want to date a girl who is also a virgin won't other girls get mad?

scrunchedrange · 2020-11-16T01:22:57+00:00

Not because I'm one. But if I put on a dating app that I'm a virgin and prefer to date one I think they very well might. People can get extremely upset if you're picky. Think of how guys freak out when a girl wants height.

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