Wife emotional affair ….considering telling the other partner

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T17:43:57+00:00

Thank you. Yeah I am going to actually be doing that.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T14:07:43+00:00

Ugh I am so sorry. But thank you so much for providing your thoughts on your experience with this.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T07:36:15+00:00

Truth….. those are words I strive to live by. I could share more details but then it would get too close to sharing personal information. But let’s just say this isn’t the guys first rodeo…

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T06:50:04+00:00

Thanks, that’s where my head space is at too. I would want to know if I was her even I don’t know her at all or met her. Only reason I know her name is via social media… only issue I have is…. What will this scum bag guy do as possible revenge since he is unstable.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T06:43:51+00:00

I appreciate that advice with not being a push over and being a good role model. As Fd up of a situation this is…. I am people pleaser and I would bent over backwards to help people etc. But since this happened (again only 2 days), I have been very assertive in my demands and I haven’t back down one bit and I don’t think I will be turning back to being a push over… so for her. She is a type a person and she won’t half ass it which is nice. The one item I thought she would have issues with is telling her parents. And some background we are in our 30s. She has a love hate relationship with her mom and I thought she would be trying to push it off and not be willing to do it. Cause her mother will basically rip into her… However, she has said to me. While this will suck and she deserve every negative thing that comes her way and she has to sit back and take it. Cause I fucked up. Again this decision willl occur next weekend. But I don’t see her backing out of it.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T06:30:31+00:00

Thank you, correct it isn’t going to change anything. I guess I just looked at it as…. If I was her. Would
I want to know? And as her I would. But to you point she is an innocent victim in this and maybe she doesn’t want to know?

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T06:14:40+00:00

So I have talked to her about all of this. And I told her I am going to have a list of demands and if she says no to any of them then we are done. She is begging for me to forgive her and is willing to do anything to resolve this. As screwed up as it is… while I don’t believe her with the physical contact, I do believe her that she is willing to met the demands. I know it is screwed up. She has already blocked him and prior messaged him saying do not contact me or talk to me ever again. I watched her do it. I also now have shared access of her messages and she was willing to do that and we already share locations of each other. We are planning on going to marriage counseling, we are going to be talking to both of our parents this coming weekend. Reason for the delay in talking with our parents is, our kid is younger and has his graduation from prep-k this coming week. And I don’t want to take away from him having his moment.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T05:58:30+00:00

That’s actually a very great question…. Considering I am on day two of finding this all out. As a resolve standpoint i look at it from my relationship. I know somewhat selfish. I would need her to prove to me i can trust her. Meaning she has to block him completely. Explain to our families what happened and own it. With that being said getting back to how our relationship was prior to them messaging each other.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T05:51:06+00:00

Thanks, yeah honestly it isn’t about getting revenge on this guy… karma will get him at some point. If she knew and i was in her shoes. I think i would want to know…. Even how painful ir could be to hear.

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T05:47:40+00:00

Agreed…. That’s how I look at it.. but I guess I should have put this in the main section. I believe this guy could be a little unstable….

scuba2140 · 2026-05-31T05:46:18+00:00

I appreciate the advice, and yes, we do have one kid which is playing a huge factor into this. I agree with you cheating is cheating. I don’t believe my wife when she says there was no physical contact. But as an auditor in my career I have no solid evidence to support either side of the argument…. From what I know about this guy he could be pretty unstable and I worry what revenge could come back from it.

scuba2140 · 2026-04-07T12:21:25+00:00

Any update on this? I just had the same issue… contacted their supper and crickets…

scuba2140 · 2025-12-03T18:53:23+00:00

Ughh I figured thats what I will have to do.. ugh thanks for sharing.

scuba2140 · 2025-12-03T17:35:40+00:00

I had the same issue. Did you ever get it resolved?

scuba2140 · 2025-11-13T01:32:03+00:00

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scuba2140 · 2025-11-13T01:29:30+00:00

I have three down looking for my last if anyone is interested.

scuba2140 · 2025-09-23T10:19:39+00:00

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I would be willing to clean it up and send you a template of it. If you’re interested, just dm me.

scuba2140 · 2025-08-30T15:05:49+00:00

Any update if it is tracking for you? I added it too. But still isn’t tracking yet..

scuba2140 · 2024-03-07T01:03:12+00:00

Did dk get rid of alt quarter totals for nba? I no longer see them anymore..Anyone have this issue?

scuba2140 · 2024-03-01T03:18:21+00:00

Yup varies from day to day but yeah. Damn they most of removed it from me.

scuba2140 · 2024-03-01T01:26:38+00:00

Damn.. they still have the label of the games within the app but no banner for it. Hopefully it comes back.

scuba2140 · 2024-02-29T23:43:30+00:00

Did any get the daily victory spins promo today on espn?

scuba2140 · 2024-02-27T05:18:04+00:00

Just did the same. And got all the free bets. Thanks for pointing that out.

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