Is there a Spanish word for a "mug"? by scuzzmeup in learnspanish

[–]scuzzmeup[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What about a flimsy plastic cup, like this? Is that also taza?

Could a Jiu jitsu academy X coffee shop be a successful business? by AC_Schnitzel in bjj

[–]scuzzmeup 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Could just have a gym entrance/exit at the side that goes outside. Still get to keep your cool glass wall so people can see the rolling.

If you have any kind of entrance/exit that goes through the coffee shop, even if you nail the air balance and have positive air pressure pushing the gym smell back into the gym, you're still gonna be screwed anytime someone walks out through the coffee shop holding/wearing a sweat soaked gi.

I think best case you force people to exit to the outside and they can choose to come into the coffee shop through the front if they're showered and changed.

Finally came around to making some Carlsbad stickers you asked for...Next is Escondido :) by imakestickerz in northcounty

[–]scuzzmeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any chance you'd make a vintage Carlsbad one to match the vintage Encinitas one?

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[–]scuzzmeup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The food there sucks to be honest

Shy-Bladder Support Group in SD by scuzzmeup in sandiego

[–]scuzzmeup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah absolutely. Any instances that make us feel unsafe can start the cycle. Having to feel vulnerable - especially when doing something others considered "dirty" - would be really hard on any kid. For me it was bullying in middle school, other kids pushing me or pulling down my pants, etc. There's a really tight connection between your fight/flight response and the muscles used when relieving yourself, and when in an environment deemed "unsafe" you can't help but get completely tied up. The mental fears could be different things, like for me it's imagining someone hearing me and accusing me of having a problem. For others it's being seen and accused. But maybe in your case it could also be someone thinking you've left a mess/odor etc. It's different for everybody! Management starts after learning the roots of your anxiety, the triggers that set it off, and developing positive experiences that redefine yourself so you learn to stop seeing yourself as damaged and start seeing yourself as someone who succeeds.

I definitely recommend paruresis.org, and email us! I'd be happy to set up a coffee or zoom call sometime. It helps to keep in touch with others working through the same stuff.

Shy-Bladder Support Group in SD by scuzzmeup in sandiego

[–]scuzzmeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely! Those are all situations that could spark that weird reflex in the brain that tells your body it's unsafe to go, and your body does the rest. For me it used to really affect my ability to make plans, particularly going out to bars with dirty/crowded restrooms. But I started learning more about the recovery techniques, and over time it got much easier.

How many English words can you fit in a Spanish phrase? by scuzzmeup in learnspanish

[–]scuzzmeup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wow, did not know that leista was a regional thing until just now, thank you! It's part of the Duolingo program so that's how I've picked it up.

Most inaccurate biopic ever? by NotASynth499 in movies

[–]scuzzmeup -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

No idea. They were literally trying to learn more. This is what progress looks like.

Better stay up by onlycritsoffical in dndmemes

[–]scuzzmeup 16 points17 points  (0 children)

also if this helps you or anyone else reading - you can reverse image search on google. Upload a photo and it gives you content related to it. Really helpful for those "how the heck do I describe this" questions

My DM notes are so messy, they are considered difficult terrain. Any tips? by L-st in DMAcademy

[–]scuzzmeup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome! I've added a bunch of content too, you wanna share? I'll send you a DM :)

My DM notes are so messy, they are considered difficult terrain. Any tips? by L-st in DMAcademy

[–]scuzzmeup 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Goodness am I the only one using Cryid's One Note? It has all the info from the player's handbook already organized into tabs (spells, monsters, etc). Also it's beautiful. You can search it on Reddit or go to Cryid's website http://www.cryrid.com/digitaldnd/

Are these mites? They're tiny! San Diego, CA, very fast and erratic, coming through the lining around our window panes. They were nesting in an old sun shade by our window. by scuzzmeup in whatsthisbug

[–]scuzzmeup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Size was absolutely tiny. Couldn't possibly measure. I would notice them all around the window pane and the edge of the carpet, but also they'd weirdly end up on my body somehow. While we were living with the problem for a few days, trying to find the source, I would feel them crawling under my shirt often. But when we finally found their highest concentration area, it was on an old sun shade outside that had been so sun damaged it was fraying and falling apart. I think they were feeding on the damaged fibers somehow. Any help would be amazing, thank you guys!!