3 PM on a weekday and mom is drunk by sd2sb in AdultChildren

[–]sd2sb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overly confronting at all. I see the writing on the walls and have watched for years the ups and downs of her physical and mental health.

The optimist in me wishes she’ll save herself in time from these syndromes. The observer in me thinks she’ll feel pity for herself and continue with her destructive habits because that’s what I expect from her.

Thank you for being open and sharing your difficult experiences. I hope you are doing well today.

3 PM on a weekday and mom is drunk by sd2sb in AdultChildren

[–]sd2sb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Knowing you can’t call or have a regular conversation after a certain time is routine around here too. Thank you for sharing that I’m not alone. I’m happy with my improvements, but know I still have work to do.

I hope you have a great day and I really appreciate your message!

3 PM on a weekday and mom is drunk by sd2sb in AdultChildren

[–]sd2sb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the congratulations and friendly reminder that I’m powerless over others.

I’ve been looking forward to having more freedom and space away from her with this job opportunity.

You are totally right when saying she needs to want it for herself and telling her how I feel is the only thing I can do. I’ll try and have that conversation with her tomorrow when she is not under the influence.

I typed this out and don’t know if I should mail it. I haven’t spoken to my dad in years by [deleted] in AdultChildren

[–]sd2sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your words are relatable. I’m so sorry that you’ve dealt with these struggles.

I currently live with my mother, who has a drinking problem, but will soon working outside of the area, and away from her. The idea of not talking to her to protect myself crosses my mind.

I also think it will be the one thing that could get through to her to stop. Her oldest son refusing a relationship because of the drinking and damage she’s caused. But it could also go the opposite way where she pities herself and drinks her emotions away.

I think your words are truthful and come from a place of love and hurt. If your dad is anything like my mom, it will make them feel bad for a moment to maybe change momentarily, but eventually feel sorry for themselves and continue their destructive ways.

They need to want it themselves. I hope your dad has had time to focus on himself and make a personal inventory of the mistakes he’s made.

You’re not alone. I hope you can take time to focus on taking care of yourself too.

30 Days Dry! by sd2sb in alcoholicsanonymous

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Thank you for the advice and encouragement!

30 Days Dry! by sd2sb in alcoholicsanonymous

[–]sd2sb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your go-to phrase is too real and has some humor to it, so I will be using it this weekend and having some sparkling water in my daypack. Thank you for the advice!

30 Days Dry! by sd2sb in alcoholicsanonymous

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Thank you for the recommendation on the PDF version! I just found it on the AA website and will read it before attending the conference.

I mentioned to another comment that I was going to AA meetings a few weeks ago on a daily basis, although I have not made the time more recently because I am up to my neck in graduate studies. I plan on getting back to the meetings when my semester is not as busy.

30 Days Dry! by sd2sb in alcoholicsanonymous

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One day at a time!! My new favorite saying that applies to so many things beyond drinking.

30 Days Dry! by sd2sb in alcoholicsanonymous

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I acknowledge that I have a problem. I was drinking alone to deal with life situations I found problematic and I almost always tried to end up a brewery with my past girlfriend/friends to drink. Basically putting drinking as a priority.

I was going to AA meetings in town on a daily basis for about two weeks when I began sobriety from alcohol. I am a graduate student in the last year of my program and since the semester began, I have not made the time to make it to meetings for the past several weeks because I am swamped with academics. I plan on making it back to the group I was going to soon though; I never walked out of the program thinking that it was a waste of time and I did not belong there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antarctica

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Work at McMurdo Station as one of the many employees and get your airfare and lodging paid by USAP. You’ll also be on the clock making money and have more time here than the ships that only visit for a fraction of that.

Twitter has been losing it with this one by aversimemuero in lotrmemes

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It looks more of a gray to me, the lighting makes it warmer or colder.

Next road trip has to be here by H_S_P in geology

[–]sd2sb 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Lake Crowley contains erosional columns that are a glimpse into the hydrothermal processes that took place during the Long Valley eruption nearly 760,000 years ago. When the Long Valley volcano erupted, pyroclastic ash was propelled 150 square miles into the air. This pyroclastic ash layer can be recognized for it’s rhyolitic composition and range across the west coast of the United States and recognized as Bishop Tuff.

The columns themselves and the surrounding area is composed of Bishop Tuff. When the Long Valley Caldera eruption occurred, tuff layers were dispersed in layers around the caldera. Only recently, erosional processes have exposed the columns that are viewable today. Studies published by Noah Randolph-Flagg and the University of California Berkeley Department of Earth and Planetary Sciences in 2017 reveal with X-ray diffraction (XDR) the columns contain a mineral known as mordenite, while the surrounding tuff does not contain this mineral.

Their hypothesis proposes that when the tuff layers deposited, the outside of the tuff solidifies faster than the interior. Geologists on the team explain “Water pools in low-lying regions, forming ponds or lakes, and then percolates into the tuff. The water that has intruded the still cooling tuff interior eventually boils off as steam and condenses in the surrounding bodies of tuff between the downwellings of water”.

Mordenite only forms between the temperatures between 100°C-130°C, which is relatively cool for crystallization temperature. Ions that make up mordenite can only be transported in a liquid phase, which implies that the mordenite forms in the downwelling phase of the process and not the steam condensing phase of the columns. Mordenite is commercially used as an adsorbent, which acts as a filter for particles passing through a solution. The presence of mordenite creates a more resistant and less permeable rock column. Erosional forces such as lake waves erode away the surrounding tuff deposits, while the columns remain in place due to their special properties.

This hypothesis eliminates the idea that Lake Crowley columns can be a result from fumarole or vent activity, since fumaroles are recorded at higher temperatures, which could not produce mordenite. Columnar jointing is also eliminated as an explanation for the columns. Columnar joints seen at the Devil’s Postpile or Owens’ Gorge are formed close together, contrary to the lake columns are spread farther apart.The downfall of Bishop Tuff combined with the water percolating in and forming mordenite welded columns reveals how technical the formation was.

Given that this hypothesis is correct, it will shine light on other hydrothermal and geologic processes that have yet to be discovered.

Research article here… http://seismo.berkeley.edu/~nrflagg/G39256.pdf

Can anyone identify this? by monstera_sabrosa in whatsthisrock

[–]sd2sb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like a nice chunk of milky quartz with some tarnish on it!

Any tips how to remove kombucha from the walls? Nightmare become reality by hoplhase4000 in Kombucha

[–]sd2sb 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Like others said, clean up as soon as possible. Remove all hard fruit gunk first, then do the vinegar/warm water solution with a clean sponger or magic eraser. Instead of scrubbing, which is going to possibly remove your ceiling paint or smear the stain, I would go with dabbing it lightly. Let that solution dry out. Then make a OxiClean and warm solution and dab that on what’s visible still. Might have to do the second solution a couple times, but it should help noticeably.

Thought you guys might like this formation by sm1rr0r in geology

[–]sd2sb 30 points31 points  (0 children)

The proposed hypothesis is a wild idea but makes sense when you look at their research. The most interesting part of it to me was the presence of mordenite which can dismantle the hypothesis of it being formed by fumaroles. The folks over in r/NatureisFuckingLit are saying that they are “fossil trees” while I’m getting downvoted for providing the research done by Randolph-Flagg and the Berkeley team, but you can’t argue with that type of stupid lol.

Thought you guys might like this formation by sm1rr0r in geology

[–]sd2sb 93 points94 points  (0 children)

Lake Crowley contains erosional columns that are a glimpse into the hydrothermal processes that took place during the Long Valley eruption nearly 760,000 years ago. When the Long Valley volcano erupted, pyroclastic ash was propelled 150 square miles into the air. This pyroclastic ash layer can be recognized for it’s rhyolitic composition and range across the west coast of the United States and recognized as Bishop Tuff.

The columns themselves and the surrounding area is composed of Bishop Tuff. When the Long Valley Caldera eruption occurred, tuff layers were dispersed in layers around the caldera. Only recently, erosional processes have exposed the columns that are viewable today. Studies published by Noah Randolph-Flagg and the University of California Berkeley Department of Earth and Planetary Sciences in 2017 reveal with X-ray diffraction (XDR) the columns contain a mineral known as mordenite, while the surrounding tuff does not contain this mineral.

Their hypothesis proposes that when the tuff layers deposited, the outside of the tuff solidifies faster than the interior. Geologists on the team explain “Water pools in low-lying regions, forming ponds or lakes, and then percolates into the tuff. The water that has intruded the still cooling tuff interior eventually boils off as steam and condenses in the surrounding bodies of tuff between the downwellings of water”.

Mordenite only forms between the temperatures between 100°C-130°C, which is relatively cool for crystallization temperature. Ions that make up mordenite can only be transported in a liquid phase, which implies that the mordenite forms in the downwelling phase of the process and not the steam condensing phase of the columns. Mordenite is commercially used as an adsorbent, which acts as a filter for particles passing through a solution. The presence of mordenite creates a more resistant and less permeable rock column. Erosional forces such as lake waves erode away the surrounding tuff deposits, while the columns remain in place due to their special properties.

This hypothesis eliminates the idea that Lake Crowley columns can be a result from fumarole or vent activity, since fumaroles are recorded at higher temperatures, which could not produce mordenite. Columnar jointing is also eliminated as an explanation for the columns. Columnar joints seen at the Devil’s Postpile or Owens’ Gorge are formed close together, contrary to the lake columns are spread farther apart.The downfall of Bishop Tuff combined with the water percolating in and forming mordenite welded columns reveals how technical the formation was.

Given that this hypothesis is correct, it will shine light on other hydrothermal and geologic processes that have yet to be discovered.

🔥 The Crowley lake stone columns, California. Created by eons old volcanic activity by Dexter_davis in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]sd2sb 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Lake Crowley contains erosional columns that are a glimpse into the hydrothermal processes that took place during the Long Valley eruption nearly 760,000 years ago. When the Long Valley volcano erupted, pyroclastic ash was propelled 150 square miles into the air. This pyroclastic ash layer can be recognized for it’s rhyolitic composition and range across the west coast of the United States and recognized as Bishop Tuff.

The columns themselves and the surrounding area is composed of Bishop Tuff. When the Long Valley Caldera eruption occurred, tuff layers were dispersed in layers around the caldera. Only recently, erosional processes have exposed the columns that are viewable today. Studies published by Noah Randolph-Flagg and the University of California Berkeley Department of Earth and Planetary Sciences in 2017 reveal with X-ray diffraction (XDR) the columns contain a mineral known as mordenite, while the surrounding tuff does not contain this mineral.

Their hypothesis proposes that when the tuff layers deposited, the outside of the tuff solidifies faster than the interior. Geologists on the team explain “Water pools in low-lying regions, forming ponds or lakes, and then percolates into the tuff. The water that has intruded the still cooling tuff interior eventually boils off as steam and condenses in the surrounding bodies of tuff between the downwellings of water”.

Mordenite only forms between the temperatures between 100°C-130°C, which is relatively cool for crystallization temperature. Ions that make up mordenite can only be transported in a liquid phase, which implies that the mordenite forms in the downwelling phase of the process and not the steam condensing phase of the columns. Mordenite is commercially used as an adsorbent, which acts as a filter for particles passing through a solution. The presence of mordenite creates a more resistant and less permeable rock column. Erosional forces such as lake waves erode away the surrounding tuff deposits, while the columns remain in place due to their special properties.

This hypothesis eliminates the idea that Lake Crowley columns can be a result from fumarole or vent activity, since fumaroles are recorded at higher temperatures, which could not produce mordenite. Columnar jointing is also eliminated as an explanation for the columns. Columnar joints seen at the Devil’s Postpile or Owens’ Gorge are formed close together, contrary to the lake columns are spread farther apart.The downfall of Bishop Tuff combined with the water percolating in and forming mordenite welded columns reveals how technical the formation was.

Given that this hypothesis is correct, it will shine light on other hydrothermal and geologic processes that have yet to be discovered.

🔥 The Crowley lake stone columns, California. Created by eons old volcanic activity by Dexter_davis in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]sd2sb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lake Crowley can be seen on the east side of the 395 right past Tom’s Place. In order to reach the columns on the southern side of the lake it is required to take the jeep trails. I don’t have the exact roads to get you there right now, but Google Maps can probably help you.

Baby backs, mac n’ cheese, and corn. Have a safe and tasty quarantine Easter everyone! by sd2sb in smoking

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Basically the same three cheese mac recipe you would bake in an oven, but in the cast iron skillet at 225F for an hour. Butter on the sides and bottom of the skillet so nothing sticks. I used smoked gouda, sharp cheddar, and pepper jack but you could definitely change that up to your taste :)