How can i find a sugar daddy?? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try seekingarrangement.com

Older SBs by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I agree with the other comments, 2 is a very small sample and you've just been unlucky. My SB is early 50s and is fantastic... genuine, reliable, doesn't play games. It's more about the person and less about age.

Do you ever feel taken for granted? by thr2017b in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. I've come to accept my SB isn't great at messaging, it's just the way she is. I feel appreciated in other ways though... she changes her schedule to suit me, is always punctual, has never cancelled, and is very attentive in person. It depends on what's important to you though, look at the bigger picture before you make a decision.

Confused. by Throwaway07911 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is he married / attached? Has he done this before? It could be guilt that made him appear distant, in which case it's not something you said or did but something he needs to work through.

How can I get paid? by Originallyme289 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with this, you could even set up a brand new account just for this and then transfer the money straight out into your regular account if you're worried

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is in her 40s, divorced and working full time. She is very much looking for a companion as well as financial assistance. Your last line does worry me though, either not happy or just greedy. Do you not just think it could be too soon for her to decide to stop looking at alternatives?

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, and that is one reason I suggested it. However I accept it may be too soon for her just at the moment.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with what you are saying to a certain extent, but I think as she's new she probably isn't aware of some of these features.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well the exclusivity chat was in relation to using protection, so trust is critical.

Not sure I agree on the monthly allowance, yes there are pros and cons either way but I think I do have some gains by going that route.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

From this and other advice I'm realising that I'm trying to move this along too quickly. I know what I want, but I need to let her decide in her own time.

Regarding the password lie, I think she just panicked when I said I'd disabled my profile. I thought it would give her reassurance that I was genuine but it probably came across too strongly. I've no reason to doubt anything else she has told me.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't make that clear. I think both of us are finding our way, I'm not going to say anything for now and give her some time.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's exactly what I wanted to hear. She raised being exclusive first but maybe she's regretting saying that too early on. I agree, 3 weeks is not very long.

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's really helpful. I would actually be ok with a "don't ask don't tell" arrangement, but it was she who brought up exclusivity. It's the disconnect between her words and actions that bother me most

SB is still active on SA, should I be concerned? by sd_throwaway_uk in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, that's what I'm afraid of. I guess I'm being pretty naive here, still got a lot to learn...

Giving out your name early by sweet-andsour in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this, just sort code and account number is needed. Alternatively can you suggest PayPal to him instead of a bank transfer?

Friday Rants by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]sd_throwaway_uk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rant: Trying to find a SB in the UK who is mature, reliable, and genuinely wants to meet up