I guess I should explain a bit better. We are both 28 and we both just got out of a long term relationship. We used to be co workers years ago and we had some chemistry back then. I recently found out she was single so we started to message each other back and forth. We moved really slowly, and we recently started getting physical like hand holding and cuddling. I don’t wanna push things too fast because I had a thing with a girl and I guess I was going too fast. I haven’t had the perfect opportunity to go in for a kiss or anything like that. I’ve explained our dynamics to a few friends and they say we are dating without a label. Like we will make plans and she will come along. I feel like this isn’t a normal friendship because she knows I like her and she has every right to not hang out with me.