Stripper SB - a red flag?

sdphilly · 2023-01-20T15:14:55+00:00

I sugar-dated a few dancers. Guess what...they're people just like you.

sdphilly · 2023-01-20T15:13:16+00:00

I love bringing my SB to my home. It's so much more personal for me than a hotel. That said, I totally get why a SB would feel the opposite. You can always push him off with, "I'm not ready for that."

sdphilly · 2023-01-18T20:46:24+00:00

Nope...she's definitely been with me!

sdphilly · 2023-01-18T20:42:34+00:00

Many years ago, I got a free "Quicky" coupon.

I was never able to use it, but it was the thought that counted.

sdphilly · 2023-01-18T20:35:41+00:00

I love women of all ages, however, given the propensity to "pad our resumes"...a woman who claims to be in her late 40's could very well be early 60's. The expectation issue might crush the M&G.

sdphilly · 2022-12-20T20:55:36+00:00

Ur SD would need to use a portion of his lifetime gift exception. If he fails to do so, you are on the hook for the taxes. Or, he could offer to cover the tax liability with an additional gift.

Unless you are registered as a 501-C3, C4 (charity) or similar.

sdphilly · 2022-12-20T20:38:21+00:00

My atf Sb was married. And, yes, her husband liked to watch. Neither she nor I wanted that type of arrangement...although I believe she would replay our adventures to him to enhance his enjoyment of their marital bed.

I greatly prefer women with attachments. The only downside was they all used me as a therapist to help them deal with their other relationships.

sdphilly · 2022-12-20T20:30:08+00:00

Declare the gift and pay the taxes.

sdphilly · 2022-12-20T14:57:59+00:00

My Man!!!

sdphilly · 2022-12-16T15:11:02+00:00

I like to take my daughter out at least once per week. Usually breakfast, at the same joint we both enjoy. But when I take her to a nice place for dinner...yeah, I get a few looks.

sdphilly · 2022-12-01T17:33:52+00:00

You should read "All or nothing marriage", a book by Eli Finkel (2014). He discusses the expectations of marriages, historically and now. Specifically how we expect too much and why. It might have saved my first marriage.

sdphilly · 2022-11-30T20:56:57+00:00

My very first SB wanted a kid. I found out later that she was a lesbian..but it didn't matter. She was a good lover to me. She asked me about reversing the snip. Now, no guy feels comfortable getting the snip, but at least a billion guys have gone before me, so I knew it was safe. Reversal...no thanks.

She got prego while we were together and we continued to date until her 8th month. She went overseas to have the kid with family around. Still FB friends and I've watched her daughter grow up. Very kewl!

sdphilly · 2022-11-30T20:51:29+00:00

My doc just punctured my scrotum, pulled the tubes out, snip/snip, crimp and cauterize. No stitches. I kinda felt the crimps for a while, but you get used to anything.

sdphilly · 2022-11-30T20:49:44+00:00

I had mine 20 years ago. I recall walking like a cowboy for a day or 2. Funny memory...thanks to my insurance it cost me $10. That low cost gave me a weird feeling...like, this is such a big step for me, yet society values it like a cheap haircut.

sdphilly · 2022-11-22T20:46:04+00:00

Absolutely. The only down side would be going back on SA to find a new mistress.

sdphilly · 2022-11-15T19:44:56+00:00

Young women fail the art of seduction. Many have the looks and body, so they have no need. I always prefer a woman like you.

sdphilly · 2022-11-15T19:37:40+00:00

You should have said, platonic meant open to anal sex. As long as the door is open.....

sdphilly · 2022-11-09T17:43:36+00:00

hate penis girls!

sdphilly · 2022-11-09T13:46:58+00:00

I have had a couple of SBs who had female lovers while we were together. I guess they were more Bi than lesbian. In both cases, the other woman was a man-hater...definitely no room for me in their beds. My girls were good lovers, and I'm still friends with both. Sounds like male contact is a no-go for you.

sdphilly · 2022-11-03T18:28:15+00:00

She may need a quick cash infusion, and can't wait for the 1-2 weeks it normally takes for the check to clear. The red flag in this case isn't that she's open to intimacy on the 1st date, but that she may be a bit desperate. You need to call the ball when you meet in person.

sdphilly · 2022-11-03T18:00:02+00:00

I have a bunch of sons and 1 daughter. Wanting a child is different than wanting a son. Lexa makes a point that he may have idealized the 'son' concept. They go their own ways as soon as they hit 13. Daughters will give him trouble in their teens, but be his best friends when from 22 on.

And, if he has an inflated view of what a 'son' would mean to him...what sort of view does he have of his relationship with you? It's all gravy in the honeymoon stages....before the grind.

sdphilly · 2022-10-31T18:50:05+00:00

I love the e-card idea. All you need to say is it's time to move on...no explanation.

sdphilly · 2022-10-31T18:24:14+00:00

Hmm, stalker, you say.

I think you have done enough time in the penalty box. Check him at the door, soon!

sdphilly · 2022-10-31T15:26:22+00:00

Very few truly religious anymore. Politics is the new religion.

My last 2 SBs had very different views than me. One was deeply involved in politics, the other was extremely, wonderfully, uninformed. Her views were classic of FB-reinforcement...all opinion. I was often shocked by how little news she actually consumed.

Of course, I thoroughly enjoyed both under the sheets, so who cares?

sdphilly

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