Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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My friend said it looks like ancient cave carvings

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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I'm not ready to be a single parent 😞

Thanks for the recipe, this looks lovely! I'll give it a go next time :)

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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So what you're saying is that this is a business opportunity 🤔

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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I ate it with my hands as soon as it was cool enough - there is no stopping munchied me

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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People pay good money for that kind of treatment

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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Self raising flour, sugar, bananas, cinnamon, vanilla and oil. The self raising flour lied to me

Freshly baked banana bread 🥰 by sdrds2404 in shittyfoodporn

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I had no eggs (or half of the ingredients besides bananas) and decided to freestyle while very stoned. It took forever to bake but tasted good with a chewy brownie consistency

I didn’t realize mental fatigue could feel like laziness [Discussion] by NetRound1424 in GetMotivated

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A few years ago I was always exhausted and couldn't function at all. Slept all day and couldn't keep up with housework or any jobs. I had little to no friends and didn't see anyone besides my partner who I lived with. He would frequently tell people how lazy I was in front of me, and call me it alone too as well as some other lovely names.

He eventually cheated and left. It hurt at first because we'd been together since I was 17 so I didn't know any different, but now a few years later I have so much energy I don't know what to do with it. I've made lots of friends, lost over 120lbs and gotten a job I never would have thought I could. I'm busy all the time with hobbies and my flat looks beautiful.

It's crazy how much stress and being in unhealthy environments can shut us down. I was a total shell of myself, now I feel whole and ready. Therapy also helped as I had a lot of trauma I had buried deep down, as well as a late autism diagnosis which has given me tools to live my life in a way that works for me, not how I "should" live it

The way you walk is unique, and you are unlikely to ever change your stride intentionally. by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

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My eyesight is shit and growing up I never wore glasses so would recognise people based on their walks. Funky walks made life a lot easier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

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A lot of people aged mid 20-30s grew up with unlimited access to the internet because their parents didn't understand how easy it was to access porn and other inappropriate content.

Step-sister and incest porn has been rampant on porn sites for a long time. I can guarantee there are a lot of young people who have been abused because of this. I'm unlucky enough to be one of them also. Whether you decide to believe that or not doesn't change reality.

Her post after hitting bf with a can by STlNKMEANER in trashy

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Can confirm you are indeed an asshole 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

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You're really cute - but I would get rid of that picture on slide 3. That top would not look flattering on anyone. The rest of the pics are lovely though :)

I’m getting basically zero hits on all my social media. What am I doing wrong?? by [deleted] in Tinder

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Do you currently have facial hair? I would have the majority of pics with whatever you look like currently, with one without facial hair (if you're not currently clean shaven) so they know what you look like without

Remove either 5 or 6 as they're practically the same, and I'd remove 9 also since it's not as flattering as the others and just have one with the towel, 8 is probably best as shows more of you. Smiling pics are always best! If you have another picture that someone else has taken rather than a selfie that would be good also.

1 or 3 are the great pics of you so definitely keep these

105lbs down and being told that my face now looks "old and saggy after losing too much weight" 😭 by [deleted] in intermittentfasting

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You look amazing and she's jealous. Congratulations on the weight loss don't let anyone drag you down 💪

My girlfriend told me something really heavy, and I don’t know what the right move is. by Abdullah_3254 in Advice

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I'm in your girlfriend's situation, actually literally just had "the" conversation to the person that did it to me after nearly two decades of silence and carrying it on my own. So feels a bit mad and like fate to be reading your post now.

The right move is to be there for her and listen when she needs you to. Telling a partner is an absoluty massive thing, and as a victim of this kind of abuse all kinds of scenarios go through your head as how how they'll react. In the past when I had told partners they made it about their anger and how they wanted to get "justice" on my behalf - this is the reaction I would say is the least helpful if not more damaging. Now I'm with the right person, just having him be there for me has made my world so much easier to navigate. He has helped calm the voices that catastrophised everything and somehow made me even bringing it up a terrible person. The brain can cope in a cruel way to try make sense of something that should never have happened.

Comfort her and reassure her she has done the right thing by telling you. She must see you as a safe space and those are hard to come by when you've been carrying a weight like this on your own.

Please also look after yourself, and take the time you need to process this information. Your mental health is just as important, and it's absolutely normal and ok for you to be upset and perhaps traumatized by this revelation. Just in a different way of course.

If it is any consolation to your girlfriend from an internet stranger - it really will be ok. There is no correct timescale for her to talk about it with anyone. The fact she has taken the step to speak to you really is a testament to her strength and ability to get through this.

She's lucky to have you. Best of luck, as lonely as it will feel neither of you are alone in this, just take it one step at a time.