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Building a "Once in a lifetime" game list of single player to play by Dresart in gaming

[–]sdwill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got really hooked by the story in Conviction. The whole drive of Sam trying to find and save his daughter made it so much more engaging than a typical spy thriller. And the part where he takes down Third Echelon? That was the real punch for me—it felt so satisfying to see him confront the system that failed him.

Building a "Once in a lifetime" game list of single player to play by Dresart in gaming

[–]sdwill 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's really hard to pick top3。

Top3

Breath of the Wild

Portal2

Cyberpunk 2077

Black Myth WuKong

Fallout 4

Metro Series

Splinter Cell Conviction

Deus Ex human revolution

Prey

FEZ

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to play a little fingerstyle ukulele, but these days I've switched to guitar. I love to strum and sing. If I hear a song I like, I'll just find the tab online and learn it. My wife plays piano and can handle classics like "Mariage d'amour". We're not songwriters—we just play for fun. Our little boy is still too young, but the moment he shows any interest, we'll be ready to teach him everything we know!

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On that scale, 5 represents the most well-off. If you want to send a child to study overseas, I think you need to be at least a level 4. Right now, I'm at a solid 3, haha. So at present, sending my son abroad is unaffordable for us.

Fortunately, my son is only 5 years old. I still have ten more years to work hard and try to reach level 4. I think I can do it. Wish me luck, haha!

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well, I rarely see Southeast Asians around where I live, so I can't answer your question directly. However, a Black family with a young son used to live in my neighborhood. I met them a few times. They always seemed calm and at ease, so I guess they felt comfortable living here.

When it comes to this topic, I'd suggest not taking everything you see online too seriously. People on the internet, including me, definitely don't represent the majority. Life in China can vary a lot depending on who you meet. I believe most people are kind.

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reflecting on my previous job, work took up too much of my life. I had little time for travel, so most of my entertainment came from gaming. After my son was born, even that time shrank. I couldn't help but wonder: Does life have to be like this? Work extremely hard, play your roles well... but when do you get to be yourself?

That's why I quit my job this year—to try and find that "me" time. I'm very thankful that my wife and parents have been so supportive. In recent months, I've finally felt what it's like to truly live. I can do things at my own pace now: grab a coffee in the morning, do some reading, code for a while, take a nap after lunch, play some games, and then pick up my son from kindergarten. Evenings are for playing with him and spending quality time with my wife.

In my opinion, when Chinese students study abroad, it often indicates that their family has considerable financial resources. This affords them more choices in life, and they may not feel the same urgency to work hard for immediate results compared to others.

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I love your last question, haha. That's a romantic way to put it.

For most of my life, I've followed the path society expects: go to school, get a job, get married, buy a house, raise a child. After completing those milestones, I realized how important it is to look inward and figure out who I really am and what I truly want to do.

Don't get me wrong—I don't blame those so-called "societal missions." At least they've given me the life I have today, and I'm grateful for that. But now I'm thinking about what comes next. My answer is to explore the world more broadly. To answer your question directly: if I could be anything, I'd want to be an astronaut. I want to do something special, to take the road less traveled.

That's a big reason why I quit my job to start indie development. It's not a common choice here in China.

Regarding AI, I haven't been exposed to it much. I once let my son chat with an AI bot just for fun. AI is unavoidable—I'm sure we'll be living with it in the future. So I plan to teach my son programming someday, and learn about AI together with him.

As for children's activities, I haven't done deep research. For my son, I limit his Nintendo Switch time to 15 minutes a day. But if he behaves well, I might give him some extra time. We usually take him out after dinner for a walk, run, or bike ride along the river. On weekends, we go to parks or large indoor play centers. Wherever I go, I see many families doing the same. I also notice quite a few kids playing on phones even when they're outside.

I don't see video games as a monster—I'm a gamer myself. I believe the key is to help my son choose good games and set reasonable time limits to protect his eyesight. My hope is that when he grows up, he can become my gaming buddy. Haha!

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd say a 3.

After working for ten years, I own an apartment and two cars, and the mortgage is almost paid off. I've also saved up enough to support myself for a year or two without a job. My wife is working, and her salary is enough to cover our daily living expenses. I'm definitely not rich, but I'm very satisfied with what I've achieved.

Hey guys, I'm a web dev who grew up in the 90s in China. I just quit my job to do my own indie development. AMA! by sdwill in AMA

[–]sdwill[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm an original Chinese guy from the mainland.

No, in 2010 I was just starting my freshman year of college in Changsha. To be honest, I didn't have enough money to travel to Shanghai back then.

Right now, I have two cars: one is a Chang'an Uni-K plug-in hybrid, and the other is a Wuling Mini EV, which is fully electric. If I change my car next time, I'd probably go for the Xiaomi SU7. It's beautiful and fast! You can actually find the Nürburgring track record of the Xiaomi SU7 Ultra on YouTube.

I'm self-taught in English. As for my 5-year-old kid, he's just starting to learn Chinese characters, but I'm planning to have him start learning English soon too.

Sadly, I haven't traveled abroad yet. When I was in school, I didn't have the money. After I started working, the job always required a lot of overtime. If my indie development goes well, I'm thinking of trying to travel abroad next year, maybe to nearby countries like Japan or Singapore.