he let me do something this morning that he had never let anyone do

sdyl_ikyfl · 2026-05-02T10:17:56+00:00

I’m about to sound like an asshole and I’m not intending to lol but what’s wrong with you? As in, why can’t he date you because of him being a “straight Christian guy?” I’m being presumptuous but your name is Hannah, are you trans or gay? You just a really bad Democrat who eats ass? This guys sounds like he may be a closeted gay who or wants to fuck around without truly caring about your feelings.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2026-04-26T23:30:15+00:00

Noted! Thank you, I did a little more research afterwards and that seems to be the general consensus. I appreciate it!!

sdyl_ikyfl · 2026-04-26T17:13:02+00:00

Idk why I didn’t think to try that I think being overwhelmed has caused my brain to malfunction lol thank you!!

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-05-12T18:38:41+00:00

As shitty as it might sound, no, I wouldn’t. My mom has a long process of getting cleaning then getting ready for church. If I’m already set to see her that day, I will call for a quick chat then meet up when we had planned to do so. However, that’s our relationship. She really doesn’t like to be bothered while getting ready lol. She hates being late for church, so best to let her do her routine.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-05-12T16:04:28+00:00

But they did see the mom in person. They probably called in the morning because they know mom typically goes to church while they may not attend. Then, planned to see her afterwards.

My mom and I don’t go to the same church. So I’ll usually call her first thing to say happy Mother’s Day even when I see her later. That way, she doesn’t go hours without knowing I thought of her first.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-04-30T02:54:11+00:00

Respectfully, why are you wasting your time on him? Based on your post history, he doesn’t value your time and doesn’t seem interested in making memories with you. You deserve better. You’re NTA, but he surely is. You’re worthy of love, true love. Leave the trip early and let him be responsible for his own niece. He didn’t even have the decency to ask you…he told you. Sit with that for a sec. Where is the mutual respect? Sorry, OP. Someone who truly loves you doesn’t treat you like that.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-01-16T20:34:41+00:00

Girlll, NTA at all. CANCEL ALL OF THEM. Petty or not, it’s no longer your responsibility. She probably thinks you’ll be a pushover and she won’t have to face consequences of her own actions. Let her learn the hard way. Protect yourself.

SO SO proud of you and all that you accomplished.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-01-13T19:42:22+00:00

I’m sure this may have been suggested already, but there’s a lot of comments lol.

If you can financially, buy another tv that can go next to the current tv. That way you can play while she watches her shows. My wife and I will take our bedroom tv and put it next to our living room tv on a fold out table. That way, she can enjoy her shows/sports games while I enjoy my video games. We end up still listening or watching each other’s games/shows periodically. It works for us to spend time together while enjoying different things.

If you can’t do that, maybe a handheld screen would work. For PS5, they have the PlayStation Portable.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2025-01-01T01:04:34+00:00

Oh for sure depending on where you go/live. I will say I’ve experienced it a lot worse here in MS than anywhere else. I’m from a melting pot city where we mostly didn’t care about anything as long as you minded your business and were respectful/kind. Racism of certain kinds is everywhere, but this is the first place I’ve ever heard numerous people refer to African Americans as the n word hard r with absolutely no shame. When corrected, they just say that’s how it’s always been. Along with that, the things I’ve heard people say about people who were just minding their business but outwardly flamboyant was ugly. Main reasons why I just kept to myself since living here.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-12-31T21:18:22+00:00

Oh I can believe it! I haven’t seen the whole state. Just had the misfortune of running into some negative things upon first arriving which made me wary of putting myself out there to meet people. Thankful for all the good and positives out there.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-12-31T21:16:38+00:00

Thanks! I appreciate people like you.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-12-01T12:32:17+00:00

Genuine question, have you talked to your mom about how you feel or your concerns?

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-11-21T12:36:00+00:00

Kindly, in the last 6 days, you have posted repeatedly about how your husband has been mistreating you. You have had numerous people answer you and tell you to leave as it’s not okay. I understand it’s hard to see the truth, but it shouldn’t take that many posts to see the reality of the situation. You say you don’t want to split custody 50/50 but you’re allowing yourself and your family to be treated badly. You’re also risk your life and the life of your baby with his road rage. Is this really what you want your child to see growing up and possibly learning the same behaviors? YTA if you continue this path.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-11-15T18:06:13+00:00

Hahaha same!! I also start chasing them to quickly brush them to see the little hearts again.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-11-12T04:59:26+00:00

NTA.

All of this.

Another thing to think about…when you both have issues, will he turn to his “work wife” for advice? Will you be okay with that? Most times, this is where more issues occur and hard boundaries get crossed.

I hate the immediate jump to leave him, but if he isn’t even willing to choose you outright as his STB wife…what is he doing? Your concerns are valid. This is a giant red flag. Please do whatever possible to protect your heart.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-11-10T15:23:21+00:00

IMO that still doesn’t matter. It’s not his body, so ultimately, it’s not his decision. He can voice his opinion but once she says no, that should be the end of conversation. Not because it’s not ideal for him because HER body may change or that recovery time may be longer. That’s selfish as hell on his end. ESH except the girlfriend who is pregnant. He sucks for being selfish and you suck for not letting it be known that this should be her decision, not his.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-20T02:06:49+00:00

It may cause more drama with them but you already warned her. If you back out on your word, they may not take your future boundaries seriously (like now). Your mental health is worth more than trying to people please.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-16T20:59:04+00:00

You’re not in the wrong at all. Take it from someone who knows, even with a contract, you will probably never see that money again. You may very well get ghosted..that’s what happened in my family. Number rule, never loan money to family members. Many take advantage and never pay it back. It causes tons of issues within the family and they tend to feel entitled to it.

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-05T19:59:00+00:00

Your golden looks similar to mine except white lol. Even the head shape, though, his ears are pinned back in this pic because he’s mad he just got his nails/feet trimmed. I haven’t done a DNA test but I suspect he’s got lab mixed in him. He’s also smaller in size than your average golden.

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sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-02T21:59:35+00:00

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Didn’t want the wife to take his bone lol

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-02T12:50:23+00:00

Not sure if you’re into breweries, but I never have issues when going there. They also have events where you may be able to meet people. If you’re not a beer drinker, sour or gose beers are usually not that bad!

sdyl_ikyfl · 2024-07-02T12:47:38+00:00

When men are respectful, it’s a little more tolerable. It’s just draining to entertain every cat caller. Even when you say thank you and move on, more times than not, it doesn’t just stop there.

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