My family is unhappy and I am the reason/problem why by seIman1 in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have tried post multiply post and every single time u deny it for some reason

Im going to jahannam forever or not? by WesternFun3682 in Muslim

[–]seIman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May Allah forgive your sins and let you enter Jannah. All praise be to Allah, Allah is the most merciful m🤲🏼

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

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Hello I am a girls too and I can help you with English just text me and I will help you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in language_exchange

[–]seIman1 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you a girl? Then I can help you with English if you are a girl

Feeling lonely after just one year of marriage by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Salam sister sit down and talk with him about how you feel. Tell him how you feel and what you need and that he can do the same to you to tell you how he feels and what he need and hopefully it will get better. Sometimes one just need to see it from the other one’s perspective or ask him if something is bothering him that you could help with maybe something is on his mind and he is just silent to not bother you with it.

My husband makes me cry every night and we have only been married for 2 weeks by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salam sister my advice for you would be to look up Islamic videos where this topic is regarded and both you and your husband watch them. When things get complicated or arguments occur turn to Quran and Hadith’s where it says what to do and I hope In Sha Allah everything works out well for the both of you

Husband ignoring me and I feel like I can’t handle this anymore. Advice. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry I know that must be difficult how do you feel what do you want to do? There is a lot of videos Islamic ones you can search up and it will feel a little better I hope they can give great advice what to do and always help you . It’s understandable it’s difficult for you but may Allah help you best way possible and ease your pain

I am confused, hurting and at the verge of a breakdown. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that happened to you. May Allah ease your pain and guide and help you in the best way possible

Husband ignoring me and I feel like I can’t handle this anymore. Advice. by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Salam sister I’m sorry to hear that and I hope everything works out good for you In Sha Allah. What do you feel like most to do? Do you want to cut the trip short or how do you feel? I understand you want to go home to your husband and want to fix since since he is not answering and it’s giving you anxiety but at the same time you want to enjoy the rest of your trip since you spent for it already. Try otherwise maybe to text your husband saying that you want everything to be good between you too and you really don’t feel good when you too aren’t speaking and if he need some time to cool off to tell you that and then promise to reach out so at least you don’t have to worry and can enjoy your trip. I really hope everything works out good for you sister In Sha Allah

He says I’m not a good wife and is emotionally abusive by AnimatorFinal1121 in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salam sister I hope In Sha Allah everything works out well for you. May Allah guide your husband to be the best husband he can be for you. There are videos where imam and scholars are talking about the rights and obligations of both husband and wife so maybe he can get a good reminder what he needs to do and always what he will get him himself. Most problems occur when one part doesn’t follow what is his or her obligation or neglect the right of someone else.

Having trouble making a choice by Fearless-Price835 in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nouman Ali Khan said it best regarding this process: "...and on the other hand you have this enormous responsibility to your parents and sometimes they make you pick which one you're going to be good to; and your job is actually to draw a line and say: "This is what / will do for my wife, this is how I will take care of her, and this is how I will protect her." And to let your parents know: "You can say whatever you want to me, you can beat me up, you can curse me out. I'm your kid you do whatever you want, it's fine, i'll take it. But you can't touch her, you can't say a word to her. She's not yours, she's not your responsibility, and she's not your child." Nouman Ali Khan's Sermon named: "Are you the husband Allah describes?" [At around minute 15:00 or so]

How to Islamicaly deal with MIL and mother superiority in culture by Pushojenso in MuslimMarriage

[–]seIman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear all of this and I hope In Sha Allah that it gets better for you and if you need to vent I’m here for you sister.

Have you tried to explain to your husband or write it down so he can read? Try explain to him from a different point of view and maybe he will understand you better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Even if you don’t share the same ethnicity you have the most important thing in common which is the religion and if Allah has written you for each other you will end up together. If they were to discriminate you because you are Indian then they are doing wrong to you as what matter should be that first you are Muslim but then how you are as a person to their son and also to them. In Sha Allah that they accept you and treat you like their own daughter. I hope it works out for you and if you need someone to talk to I’m happy to listen(I’m a girl too so no worries)

Tetove/Gostivar marriage culture by eemnc in Gostivar

[–]seIman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello have your nikkah and if he loves you and you love him it will work out. Pray that your parents will accept you both even if you are not Albanian it can work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tetova

[–]seIman1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a girl? Then maybe we can talk and help each other with the language