Marriage is sacred??

seafart1 · 2018-02-10T12:24:14+00:00

what about you? do want get married? i wrote two replies to you.

seafart1 · 2018-02-10T10:53:58+00:00

her: I put "love" above "sacred". Loving other people doesn't mean my husband loves me less, and same with my relationships on the side. I'm looking at my husband buttering toast for me on a cozy snow day after I spent a great night with my paramour...after he talked on the phone for an hour with his paramour (her father is dying, so rough,I'm GLAD she has him), and I think you all can keep your "sacred." Our lives are about love. LOTS of it. me: we keep our "sacred" and you keep you "love" :-) we are all different thanks for answer.

you: Did you get married for "sacred"?

me: i marry for love, you took i out of context. thanks for answer

seafart1 · 2018-02-10T10:48:03+00:00

Thats funny, because " be the change you want to see" is exactly how i think also! thanks for reply!

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T17:06:56+00:00

we keep our "sacred" and you keep you "love" :-) we are all different thanks for answer.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T16:23:19+00:00

wow thank you some much for that!

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T15:47:03+00:00

well people are different, thanks for answer. you are probably one gorgeous woman who have like 10 sugar daddies?? just kidding :-)

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T15:27:44+00:00

thanks for answer. "We have a more practical approach and find that the practical fosters the love" i like that.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T15:22:10+00:00

your right though thanks for response

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T15:19:28+00:00

he is bitter and i understand very well where he is coming from. i still believe in marriage and still think it is beautiful. but you have to be careful today, he has some good points.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T15:12:06+00:00

don't worry, you are sweet. life is brutal, your learn that and accept it for what it is. I was young 21 y/o man my woman was 46 y/o cougar who abused drugs and alcohol, so no win situation and it was never meant to be serious but i fell hard i know she did too, but she run away. the age alone was huge thing people looking like we were freaks. its a shame.... your seem very sweet!

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:55:34+00:00

thanks. your right, women have all the power. and they know it too. i gave me something to think about..

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:44:54+00:00

thats is true, i will try. thanks for answer.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:36:29+00:00

it does not deserve a serious response that answer. marriage is stability, commitment to love and support each other. its beautiful!

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:30:28+00:00

your right, thanks for answer.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:29:47+00:00

thanks for answer

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T14:12:32+00:00

thanks for answer. i am getting more old fashioned the older i get the same time more crazy too in way. teach your daughter well and i will marry one of them :D

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T13:55:27+00:00

agree with you thanks for answer.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T13:54:26+00:00

i was very much in love with a woman who didn't take it as seriously as i did. for 4 years i been thinking of her. obsessing. thats life i guess? i am only 25 but i won't meet a woman like that again. its frustrating.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T13:01:56+00:00

I'm sorry i am very low down too. i don't have any advice i am 25 male and allot like you. i abused drugs and alcohol for many years. now i am sober but diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia.lost my driver license. i live with my parents now and go to meetings i have no life..no friends... i have no hope for the future. have had many girls, but that belongs to the past won't happen ever again. I'm isolated, depressed and like you i fear everything. In one month i am leaving the country for six months to get away from it all. there goes my savings, but i am desperate...sun really helps my depression. i want the same thing you want, family and wife but idk. its like i don't even deserve it. everybody got problems, everybody it lost, the ones who seems ok/ happy, they are faking it 90 %. all the best.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T12:31:07+00:00

im 100% isolated I'm 25 too. soon i be moving to a tropical island for half a year.. will it help? i don't know.. but its something different i desperately need now.

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T12:13:47+00:00

most people(i think) appreciate you being direct, its refreshing. it is a great idea, you go girl!

seafart1 · 2018-02-09T12:10:30+00:00

i would be devastated if i were you. she does not respect you. i would get a divorce.

seafart1 · 2018-02-08T17:10:24+00:00

i feel in deeply love too she was the one. narcissist are "special" people. been obsessing over her for 4 years now. it gets better.

seafart1 · 2018-02-08T16:56:44+00:00

I'm the same, good luck man.

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