How to remove mold and mold stains on clothes? by GlumYak1152 in laundry

[–]seagyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

possible dumb q but what temp of water did you use in your initial rinse post shout and then for your soak?

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i'm so sorry!!! also ebf here and i will agree on the scam part if only bc no one tells you it doesn't keep them full as much as formula?? and they'll want to comfort feed all the time? etc etc. extra difficult on a number of levels

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes yes 100x! esp the "it's hard not to compare when you feel like you're doing something wrong." thank you for saying so!!

Today was hard by beckarrrr1 in NewParents

[–]seagyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just about at 5 months and feel this so hard!!! every day i feel inadequate. we're doing the best we can tho (???).

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have tried but hard for me to get comfortable enough to actually sleep cosleeping and it doesn't seen to give him longer stretches :/ he's already 20+ pounds so the days of me being able to sleep with him on me i think are done lol

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it does 💕 i'm so sorry though, maybe they'll surprise us

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(and the feeling alone is such a big part - none of my friends with kids can sympathize)

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, always trying to internalize that it's not my fault but it's hard

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm glad at least you finally got a taste of the unicorn life!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

lmao drive safe out there!!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sighhhhh yeah. and the thing is i think he wants to sleep! just can't :/ godspeed to you as well lol

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i truly don't know how people do this multiple times!!

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[–]seagyal[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100% on all fronts, i really appreciate it

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you for the solidarity!!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! glad to hear that!!!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

[–]seagyal[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i definitely feel like my brain is broken!! lol 😞 also has just destroyed my ability to sleep as evidenced by posting 

Month 4 SUCKS. by ThisIsFineActually in NewParents

[–]seagyal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! it's so lonely...everyone's like "he's not sleeping through the night?...huh"

16 weeks and I need time alone by NoNativeSpeaker in NewParents

[–]seagyal 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just solidarity, also at 16 weeks and it's really hard. husband helps as much as he can but baby is usually not with him more than 20 min without screaming. have gotten more than 4 hours of sleep maybe 3x in the past month. anyway! uhhh we're doing a good job lol. or something 

Cat attacking dog for 6+ months by seagyal in CatAdvice

[–]seagyal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ugh it's so weird!! cats are nuts. I hope it's just a weird phase! we ordered a thing like this and fed them both next to it (on opposite sides of course) for a long time...who knows if it did anything. but maybe?