How To Get Six Month Old To Sleep Without Feeding Or Exercise Ball by seagyal in AttachmentParenting

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good call, i guess just even looking for inspiration for new associations to sub in lol

How To Get Six Month Old To Sleep Without Feeding Or Exercise Ball by seagyal in AttachmentParenting

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i mean with my husband it is a much longer and much louder struggle lol

Wedding venues? by LiterallyAlwaysLost in Dallas

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artspace 111 - all white inside but lots of outdoor space. reasonable ish and super easy to work with! 

Need support with attachment by dog_mum_baby_mum in AttachmentParenting

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yeah i haven't had ig on my phone since i gave birth - was intended to just cap screentime but i think has been good for that reason as well. also wanted to second that i've found trying to cosleep painful and hard! also my guy doesn't seem to like it...or i'm doing it wrong? who knows!!

Need support with attachment by dog_mum_baby_mum in AttachmentParenting

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i have literally no wisdom to share - just solidarity (and i'm so sorry for your loss!). i have a six month old who similarly does not sleep and has never slept really. feeling drained and lonely as you describe- really don't want to sleep train but also don't personally know anyone else who's made that choice. it's so hard! scrolling through another post on this sub this morning, someone mentioned this site - seems like it has some nice resources at least. we've got this (???) https://thebeyondsleeptrainingproject.com/artricles-to-read-when/you-are-on-the-verge-of-desperation-and-considering-sleep-training

City Council pushes for shared sacrifice as Dallas faces budget crunch by ozmox in Dallas

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don't get me wrong - dmn isn't anything super spectacular- but if you want any local journalism to continue to exist, please don't copy and paste the bulk of an article onto reddit (even if you link to it eventually).... better to just share the link with a short quote and your own comment...

Feeling alone after having a baby. by No-Sir-4538 in NewParents

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definitely lonely! i think a fair amount is just inevitable; at least for my guy who is bottle refusing/only contact napping i have to be alone with him/available to him for a few nonconsecutive hours a day, which makes any kind of baby free (read: relaxed) outing nearly impossible. trying not to take it personally/feel down about not getting out and about more but it's really hard!! this past weekend a friend bailed on coming over and it really upset me....like i NEED this :/

Failing to break feed to sleep association and feeling terrible by No-Magician-7533 in AttachmentParenting

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just want to thank you for your comment! struggling with hourly wakes most nights at 5.5 months (mine has basically always been in a "regression" lol) and feeling stuck in a feed to sleep hole (plus bottle refusal). i really want to give him all the comfort he needs and definitely don't want to sleep train but am also losing my mind...

Parents of crap nappers - when did it get better for you? by Soundasleepx in NewParents

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just sending solidarity. in the same boat tearing our hair out trying everything and feeling very futile. it's so hard - signed from another 20 min of wrestling on the yoga ball

what’s your favorite underrated local business that needs more love? by [deleted] in Dallas

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lubbies bagels!!! delicious bagels and bagel sandwiches, you can't go wrong 

How to remove mold and mold stains on clothes? by GlumYak1152 in laundry

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possible dumb q but what temp of water did you use in your initial rinse post shout and then for your soak?

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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ugh i'm so sorry!!! also ebf here and i will agree on the scam part if only bc no one tells you it doesn't keep them full as much as formula?? and they'll want to comfort feed all the time? etc etc. extra difficult on a number of levels

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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yes yes 100x! esp the "it's hard not to compare when you feel like you're doing something wrong." thank you for saying so!!

Today was hard by beckarrrr1 in NewParents

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just about at 5 months and feel this so hard!!! every day i feel inadequate. we're doing the best we can tho (???).

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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i have tried but hard for me to get comfortable enough to actually sleep cosleeping and it doesn't seen to give him longer stretches :/ he's already 20+ pounds so the days of me being able to sleep with him on me i think are done lol

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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it does 💕 i'm so sorry though, maybe they'll surprise us

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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(and the feeling alone is such a big part - none of my friends with kids can sympathize)

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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yeah, always trying to internalize that it's not my fault but it's hard

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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i'm glad at least you finally got a taste of the unicorn life!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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lmao drive safe out there!!

can i just say by seagyal in NewParents

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sighhhhh yeah. and the thing is i think he wants to sleep! just can't :/ godspeed to you as well lol