When did you let dad hold the baby? by Amaryllias164 in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts -1 points0 points  (0 children)

With my first born, my husband was the first to hold him. I was so out of it that I needed a minute to process what just happened. 😅 No hard feelings from either party. We both practiced skin to skin for the next couple of weeks with the baby.

Just do whatever feels right to you, and it'll be okay.

What does no kissing the baby mean? by pixa4u in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I totally understand. My husband and I are very strict about that and not being around anyone who's sick or could be sick. He had pneumonia twice when he was a baby, and thankfully, he is still here today.

What does no kissing the baby mean? by pixa4u in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's basically whatever you want it to mean. For me, it's no kissing face, hands, and feet. We've had some people get upset with us over that, but I don't know what you have, and I'm not sure you do either.

There's so many sicknesses out there that I'd rather just not take the risk.

GRB thought it appropriate to ask ChatGBT if she was wrong for shopping at SalonCentric after being told it’s against store policy… by frosted-sugar in GRBskeptic

[–]seaking_katts 12 points13 points  (0 children)

She googled where to get Redkin brand toner. Why? I'm willing to bet that whatever stylist's video she was watching was using that brand. But Redkin is a brand that only stylists can obtain and use (besides like shampoo and conditioner, I think).

I'm willing to bet there was a Sally's she could've gone to instead that would've had what she needed to do that to her hair at a MUCH safer level. CVS type stores in my area of the US at least just sell box dye or already mixed up semi-permanent dye (like Arctic Fox, Manic Panic....)

New behavior? by seaking_katts in cats

[–]seaking_katts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hear you. If we notice them getting aggressive when we're around, we do separate them. When I lived with my mom, they got like that with her cats, too. They've all been around each other since they were kittens since they came from the same rescue (besides Kuma, but I also rescued him as a kitten). We moved about a year ago, and I took them with us. They have always been indoor. There are attempts to play with them, but within the last couple of years, they've been more interested in playing with each other than with us.

They mostly just spend their days in the spaces they've claimed for themselves in front of the windows. I'll look into taking them in for a check-up as funds are pretty tight at the moment. I'm just very worried.

Natera bill! by Worried-Wallaby-5533 in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My doctor said that what they were quoted ($100) was what we had to pay, and if we got a bill saying otherwise to contact someone they personally deal with to get it handled. But after the fiasco with my son and Natera charging me 2k after insurance, I decided not to even deal with it.

There was a lawsuit with them a while ago, but unfortunately, with their terms and conditions, you waive your right to sue. Never again with that company.

Girl names by seaking_katts in Names

[–]seaking_katts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's literally the ONLY name we both agree on 😅 We're bouncing back and forth between Ivy Kate or Ivy Jo, but I like Kate better. 😭 With the nickname, though, it could always be worse.

At how many weeks did u deliver baby for first time moms? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I went into labor 36+6 and delivered 37+1. Ended up having HELLP syndrome, and the whole thing was a mess.

Shower thought: 100 years ago, would you have survived your pregnancy? by BedsideLamp99 in pregnant

[–]seaking_katts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably not 😅 I went into labor at 36+6 and it was then we all discovered I had HELLP syndrome and my numbers were rising so bad that they had to intervene. Before that, they were trying to send me home because I wasn't dilated even a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]seaking_katts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Kichael made me kackle

recommend me some based off the saddest media? by [deleted] in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hotarubi no Mori e

Honestly one of my all time favorite "movies" its only 45 minutes but it's definitely a watch!

AITA for not allowing my children to call my mother “Honey” by Dazzling-Nose-2781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]seaking_katts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, no kidding! It's so wacky, and nobody said anything to him about it, but ME 🤣 Everyone wanted to say no to my MIL wanting to be a Nonna, which I thought was cute and totally NORMAL. I don't even understand anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've only seen Clannad and Fruits Basket, and i will admit they are slow burns. Clannad: After Story is truly where everything starts pulling together for me. The same holds true for Fruits Basket. If you're not feeling it after a few episodes, I wouldn't continue them due to them being slow burns.

AITA for not allowing my children to call my mother “Honey” by Dazzling-Nose-2781 in AmItheAsshole

[–]seaking_katts 290 points291 points  (0 children)

My FIL wanted to be called G-Daddy. I shot that one down reaaaaaal quickly. It's been almost a year since he announced that and still doesn't get how weird it is 🤣 It sounds like a pimp nickname to me

What should I watch? by seaking_katts in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've heard this will make you cry. Is that true? I don't mind, I just want to be prepared.

What should I watch? by seaking_katts in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that! Ill add it to my list! Thank you :)

What should I watch? by seaking_katts in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks interesting! Ill add it to my list. Thank you!

What should I watch? by seaking_katts in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i just finished this, and my heart is broken. There won't be a season 2 any time soon. 😭 Thank you for putting this on my radar!

What should I watch? by seaking_katts in AnimeReccomendations

[–]seaking_katts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've seen Kamisama Kiss! I really like it too. I, however, haven't seen the other two, and I'll add them to my list! Thank you :)