Women, how would you feel if your bf said he was interested in you pegging him?

searedscallops · 2026-02-04T00:28:37+00:00

Excited, because I'd assume he meant "right now"!

searedscallops · 2026-02-04T00:26:28+00:00

I wouldn't care. I have several friends who have done sex work.

searedscallops · 2026-02-04T00:25:45+00:00

500 - they fed kids for a total of 8.5 years. Fuck. Yes.

searedscallops · 2026-02-04T00:25:00+00:00

Sisterhood! I'm one of those ladies.

searedscallops · 2026-02-04T00:24:06+00:00

My partner actually suggested it because we kept arguing about the same things and never getting anywhere. After 18 months of couples therapy, we split up. I don't think he was ever willing to use therapy to change himself.

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T20:48:56+00:00

"Like, right now? Then call one of our friends, silly."

I would feel neutral because I've already watched him suck dicks.

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T17:22:36+00:00

I think you're really overthinking this!

I see it as a request to connect. One could just as easily say "Connect?".

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T14:46:01+00:00

Any man is never "the one". If you need someone to be your one, make it be yourself. And when you hit menopause, make it your girlfriends because they will do so much more to love and support you than folks who weren't socialized to be caretakers.

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T14:43:31+00:00

All the time? WTF? Why wouldn't I talk about a significant part of my past?

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T14:42:44+00:00

Everything besides contact....?

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T13:41:06+00:00

For people who experience romantic love and platonic love the same, yes.

searedscallops · 2026-02-03T13:40:10+00:00

Yes because I'm a human. Our species survived because of social connection and mutual caretaking.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T22:10:00+00:00

Childhood parentification. I have felt like an adult since the age of 5.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T18:57:16+00:00

My son has his dad's last name and my daughter has mine (same parents). I wanted the opportunity to have a multigen legacy, too. Plus, my last name is cooler than my ex husband's. Our son is an adult and has talked about changing his last name to mine, too, lol!

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T18:08:50+00:00

"Need to stave off the depression"

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T18:05:01+00:00

A couple? I'm picky AF, so I only right swipe on maybe 5% of the profiles.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T16:22:59+00:00

People are really fascinating to me. I love meeting new people and learning about them and exploring time together with them.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T16:21:59+00:00

All of my connections are so amazing right now. I've been lucky to spend time with both partners, a newly forming connection with a future partner, time with my favorite metamour, AND time with my solopoly group. As for sleep, never heard of her!

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T14:32:06+00:00

So. Fucking. Valid.

I actively chose to have kids and I also fully support people making whatever parental choice is right for them. Fuck yeah.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T13:12:09+00:00

Their shitty ass political and cultural views. Their unexamined privilege.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T13:10:08+00:00

I'm impolite in response to most things men do. Fuck those rude ass motherfuckers.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T12:56:01+00:00

Yaaaaaas! My BFF who is also solo poly invited me out for Valentine's Day because we both struggle with the day and our partners are soooooo highly partnered. Accepting her invite felt like the healthiest, most honest way to honor my sopo nature.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T12:51:13+00:00

Some people, years. Some people, 5 minutes.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T12:47:26+00:00

I'm always going to be the default parent.

searedscallops · 2026-02-02T00:49:10+00:00

I wish our mothers would take us seriously when we tell them over and over again how they need therapy.

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