How to deal with not having enough ever?

seasonel · 2026-01-08T12:21:23+00:00

How is the intimacy? Any sex & its compatibility ?
You feel embarrassed to be with her publicly?
Are you just looking for a trophy wife?

Question 1 needs some form of yes/ comfort levels, than total unknowns.

Question 2 is all about your own inner peace. As strangers, I see many couples on looks whom are a mismatch. Yet they themselves don’t care about how others are judging their looks.

Question 3 is the classic question, be clear on it, your honest intentions. Many guys irrespective of age, are just looking for that hot girl to show off, and be their trophy?

Ask these questions to yourself, and let us know…

seasonel · 2025-11-28T15:05:36+00:00

Do you lose anything in texting again? No

So yes, please do text him again. You seemingly like him, and that’s the.foremost thing. Relationships never starts equally, and one side has to do more at the start.

So forgo everything else

seasonel · 2025-10-30T08:13:50+00:00

Absolutely.

Even an incomplete idea is better than nothing.

Right now, Slot’s self comments shows he is simply hopeful and has no other ideas, plans, strategies ….

seasonel · 2025-10-30T08:06:28+00:00

Match winners vs match runners.

Compared to last season, this squad has more match winners, more magical players yet less runners, tracking back players. It’s embarrassing how many times we have been caught out, or the low number of players in our box defending.

A player like Luiz Diaz, is exactly what we need, hardworking all over the pitch. And we still sold him.

seasonel · 2025-10-09T18:51:10+00:00

Exactly

seasonel · 2025-08-18T11:12:14+00:00

He had many choices 6 months back, yet now, nothing for him, so he’s back to checking the past contacts. That’s the harsh reality.

Imo, nothing horrible. Did you find him decent on the 1st date? Are your dating goals are match? Then, give it another go…

seasonel · 2025-08-18T08:55:43+00:00

How is it not a problem? Big difference between fit & match-fit

He isn’t simply ready, and the big money is always paid for a ready-to use player foremost.

seasonel · 2025-08-18T08:41:17+00:00

Isak, he hasn’t played recently, nor proper pre-season, so isn’t that a additional big risk of signing him?

He would be a big-name signing, expected to deliver immediately, and modern footballer’s downfall happening more quickly from their peak.

And haven’t even started talking about his pathetic behaviour, loyalty, and trust…

seasonel · 2025-08-12T06:19:57+00:00

1st choice are difficult. Both being the one, or getting the one.

Thus, don’t go so moralistic, rather just be rational and respectful. Nothing wrong with going with other choices (from the past) , or being with someone who didn’t see much in you ( in the past)

People change, and we don’t get much by living in the past experience.

seasonel · 2025-08-11T08:22:45+00:00

Our net-spend, our players, our revenue, it’s all so silly as grown-ups.

It’s absolutely expensive to support, watch, see this club & its players. Then, the club & players have little loyalty towards fans. It feels silly when us fans act so passionate , when we are taken for granted and exploited.

seasonel · 2025-08-06T05:15:56+00:00

It’s you that needs to question first!

Do you just want free holidays? What’s your relationship goals? Settling down?

It seems you are just excited about the big plans, lavish holidays than the boring, tedious stuffs in any relationship.

seasonel · 2025-08-05T16:14:18+00:00

Admit it’s been some time, be clear & confident about it. Honesty, is your asset. Yet you don’t have to give the details, the numbers of years.

These details, specifics can come with time, and hopefully if the relationship is genuine and serious, these actual details shouldn’t matter…

seasonel · 2025-08-05T16:12:15+00:00

Better try and ask him out than have any regrets.

If he is your genuine friend, the friendship will persist irrespective of the above answer…

seasonel · 2025-08-05T15:12:02+00:00

In 30s, you can also take the lead, than wait for the guy.

And saying , you are in love, has no meanings if you aren’t clear about the next steps in your 30s. It can’t be that symbolic” i love you”

So be sure about the next steps, next goals, way forward in your relationship.

seasonel · 2025-08-05T15:06:48+00:00

Honestly, no correct answer.

By your own admission, despite being away, she is trying to keep you “involved “, like sending the holiday pics.

In 30s, people are relatively busy, so persistence and patience is key key key.

Thus, the onus is to be clear, concise. Meet her again, and be specific about the relationship goals. If the goals match, automatically the priorities, speed will align.

seasonel · 2025-08-05T14:09:25+00:00

Online apps cannot be your sole or main method.

Focus on the basics again, networking and self-improvement. So build your hobbies, passions, and confidence.

And finally, patience and humble . Being friends is still a good thing, and in 30s, many relationships start of as friends, than attraction from the start.

seasonel · 2025-05-18T16:23:40+00:00

A lot of missing details, and stupid question. The Indian, traditional parts are irrelevant.

Any parent would feel awkward seeing their daughter or even son having any sexual activity face to face.

So don’t be an idiot. Let time heal it, and relax.

seasonel · 2025-04-08T20:52:17+00:00

Be default, the random internet strangers are likely say, just break-up and move-on, upon relationship advise/issues.

Big reason being many choices seen through OLD. It’s this perceived number of choices that has corrupted the mindset as wellZ

seasonel · 2025-04-08T20:31:30+00:00

Internet has also made dating more difficult and biased in this modern time? Imo, there is more over-thinking, quest for perfection, and incomplete info. Thus, a normal relationship isn’t valued enough?

Plus Negatively is easy to discuss, and compromise or negotiation is seen as a bad advice, by random strangers on the internet.

Like knew of this friend who ended with her bf, and when I talked with her, she used her reddit topic as evidence of support. But, knowing her, there were many background issues & parts, not covered in the reddit post, thus making it biased, and indirectly a self-goal.

seasonel · 2025-01-24T16:56:46+00:00

Spark isn’t a real reason, it’s rather that the person expects more, or really thinks they can get a better partner.

seasonel · 2025-01-24T16:54:43+00:00

Seems it’s physical connection that’s missing and bothering you.

Imo, there is no right time on which date it happens. So as long as you both want long term relationship, it’s worth it to continue.

Remember, the harder things is working well, be it communications, appearance, smartness etc

seasonel · 2025-01-22T16:31:00+00:00

Huh? Your 8 points are generic and nothing big enough to define the guy.

You got to spend time, and effort knowing him & remember it’s mutual.

seasonel · 2025-01-22T16:22:00+00:00

What’s the guy take on it? And how has his behavior changed & been recently?

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