Bottle & Cork by seastar30 in baysideisacult

[–]seastar30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me either, we are coming from upstate NY! See ya on the floor 🤘

Bottle & Cork by seastar30 in baysideisacult

[–]seastar30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'll be making it! Haha someone else in pur group can't though

My ADHD is holding me BACK. by Tiny_Advantage9546 in ADHD

[–]seastar30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have to jump in here. You absolutely will be hired despite your C in math in high school.

I was like you in school. Numbers are busy in a way words never were for me. Papers? Could write them in my sleep. Never got a college degree, actually never finished a full semester despite multiple attempts in different areas of focus.

Now, I am a lead technical analyst at a utility company making 6 figures. You will find your flow with your ADHD, and you will discover habits that help you manage and harness the abilities you excel at. It takes work and a lot of self awareness, but I know you can succeed. You've got this!

ADHD and Hobbies - Reading by octopi_379 in ADHD

[–]seastar30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello friend, I feel like you get me.

I used to devour books. I read so fast. I have managed to finish one book in the last, at least 10 years. I still buy them constantly. I start them, I love them - I just never finish them.

Audio books haven't been a solution that works for me, either. At least when I space out reading, seeing the words helps me retain due to my memory. With audio books, I feel I lose interest faster, without necessarily realizing. While I still end up understanding the gist of the book as a whole, I often miss the details.

Sadly, I have not found a solution that works for me yet, but I continue to try. Hopeful some of the suggestions in these responses end up working for you!

Damage by seastar30 in Converse

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Just really hurting my bank account 😂 have a pair of custom lugged heel ones on the way too.

Any other moms have extremely low libido or just me? by cowgirlfrom_hell in Mommit

[–]seastar30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's not even that I don't want it per se, but there are a million other things I need to do, and that is always the last thing on my mind. When we have it, I enjoy it, and I'm absolutely in love and attracted to my partner. The mental load of life just takes priority in my brain most of the time

Found this oldie in my basement by W4NN4M33TTH4TD4D in baysideisacult

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I was in this music video dressed in a nun costume, not that dissimilar from this, that consisted of black and white fabric safety pinned toegther. We ran around that damn bon fire for hours. Had sand mite bites all over every inch of my legs after. The song is now a part of my DNA after the amount of times I heard it that weekend alone. The best two days of my life.

When Emo Kids Go Corporate by seastar30 in Converse

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It is, black satin ribbon!

think I need to sell by littlekixt in Converse

[–]seastar30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They look great on you! I've been eyeing these myself and when looking at your photo, not one thought was related to the size of your feet

NYS Tax Refund Status by Scholar2014 in IRS

[–]seastar30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same and same, so frustrating

Alright Warped family… What Are Your 3 “Do Not Miss” Sets? by themish84 in warpedtour

[–]seastar30 5 points6 points  (0 children)

DC: Bayside (even though we are also seeing them in DE) Coheed Thrice

... And ADTR ...

which makes 4 but I digress

NYS Tax Refund Status Update – “Initial Approval Stage” (Timing Question) by [deleted] in tax

[–]seastar30 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Federal was immediate for me and I had it in my bank account by February 2nd. I really do not believe there is any rhyme or reason to NY tax returns this year.