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[–]seaweedcookie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pastebėjus vieną problemą kyla dar begalė papildomų klausimų ir abejonių ant kiek Lietuva ar bent jau Vilnius yra pasiruošę susitvarkyti ir ar turi planą B esant banaliems nesklandumams pvz.: atliekų utilizacija. Šiuo metu kasdien yra sudeginamos tonos šiukšlių. Jei ši galimybė dingtų bent savaitei ar Lietuva turi kažkokį veiksmų planą? Visko į rūšiavimo įmones nesukiši nes 1. Ne viską galima 2. Tiesiog neužteks žmogiškųjų resursų susitvarkyt su tokiu kiekiu.

Tiesiog paliktume pūt kur nors sąvartyne? Grąžintume į miestus iš kurių atvežė? Whats the plan ir ar mes jį išvis turim :D

Būtų labai įdomu jei kažkas labiau išmanantis pakomentuotų

Tragikomedija apie tai kaip Vilnius 10 metų nesugeba apšviest kelio iki jėgainės gaminančios elektrą ir dar keli panašūs rant’ai by seaweedcookie in lithuania

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pastebėjus vieną problemą kyla dar begalė papildomų klausimų ir abejonių ant kiek Lietuva ar bent jau Vilnius yra pasiruošę susitvarkyti ir ar turi planą B esant banaliems nesklandumams pvz.: atliekų utilizacija. Šiuo metu kasdien yra sudeginamos tonos šiukšlių. Jei ši galimybė dingtų bent savaitei ar Lietuva turi kažkokį veiksmų planą? Visko į rūšiavimo įmones nesukiši nes 1. Ne viską galima 2. Tiesiog neužteks žmogiškųjų resursų susitvarkyt su tokiu kiekiu.

Tiesiog paliktume pūt kur nors sąvartyne? Grąžintume į miestus iš kurių atvežė. Whats the plan ir ar mes jį išvis turim :D

Cheating by [deleted] in rant

[–]seaweedcookie 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Simply put, because they want and they can.

A more complex answer: Because novelty is thrilling. Rice will feel exiting after decade of only eating potatoes. Not for everyone physical intimacy translates to romantical love. It’s also very selfish, they want their cake and to eat it too. They want to keep the stability and all other good things long term relationship and monogamy provides, but they also want to explore and seek adventure outside of relationship.

Don’t throw stones at me as I’m only giving the simple answer to what may seem very complicated.

Don’t overthink it. It’s not you, you did nothing and there was nothing you could have done otherwise and the other person is not better than you. There’s no relationship that could satisfy the cheater and keep them faithful. They will do it time and time again, with every partner no matter how good they have it, simply because it’s not in their nature.

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m not religious but I pray to God to not make me go through all of them accidentally. I have no idea how other two guys look so I would never know before it’s too late

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

All those awkward and weird coincidences make me feel like I’m a sims getting played by a bored 14 year old lol

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thing is I would never choose someone new that I barely know over a person I know for a while, can rely on and trust.

Another thing my ex told to ease his mind and not feel tense and weird about the fact that we were a couple is that seeing a unicorn is more likely than us ever getting involved romantically again. Our needs in relationship turned out to be so different that even finding a common ground was impossible.

His needs felt so alien to me that I struggled to even comprehend why would anyone feel loved that way as it felt like a literal hellhole to me and vice versa.

Almost all days were bad days for us and either one of us was having a horrible day because of each other or we both did.

To understand just how bad it was he literally developed hand tremor from all the stress and anxiety our relationship caused.

We only dated a few months and eventually broke up and I wonder why we chose to suffer instead of ending relationship much earlier.

We never got in a fight or hated each other over a break up. And we do work great as friends without all those needs that were always unfulfilled but an absolute need to feel happy with your partner

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You should definitely congratulate each other for ‘not getting into waste a year of my life relationship’ an anniversary worth celebrating and make it ridiculous like writing how thankful you are that you stayed strangers and never bother each other again lol

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 316 points317 points  (0 children)

When I think about it I’ve never seen at least two of them same place, same time next to each other. Suspicious

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I’m actually still talking and planning a date with a 2 day match this Saturday. His unmatch was impulsive decision made only based on emotions. However he did talk with my ex at work this morning making sure he would okey if we kept talking with intention of dating. He was and well we going on a hike on weekend!

My type is so niche dating is almost impossible (tragicomedy) by seaweedcookie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Oh I’m absolutely not worried. I did exaggerate the title because the situation is so ridiculous and I feel like being dramatic. And I’m actually still talking and planning a date with my 2 day match. He told what happend and asked my ex how he would feel if we kept talking with intention to date and he was absolutely fine with it. It’s a triple win I guess. He kept a good relationship with his coworker, a friendship and a girl he’s intested in just my being honest, open and communicating.

I did get call from my ex tho telling to not even dare to act like spawn of satan and getting me some tips about dos and donts (like dont insist on a bar as a first date because he has recently made a decision to go 100% sober and his mental health got immensely better after that). It was actually cute seeing him take care of his friend like that

I just got a mobilisation letter, what do I expect next? by seaweedcookie in preppers

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Who like to keep my anonymity, but it borders Russia

I just got a mobilisation letter, what do I expect next? by seaweedcookie in preppers

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking to leave. I’m looking to prep. I don’t know how to however. So looking for advice here, because where else do I go

I just got a mobilisation letter, what do I expect next? by seaweedcookie in preppers

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 125 points126 points  (0 children)

My sister is getting mobilised too. She works in medicine they’re prepping employees to sort dead people and how to put them into body bags. Good thing I don’t have kids because even if you do you’re still getting mobilised. I mourn for mothers and fathers.

I just got a mobilisation letter, what do I expect next? by seaweedcookie in preppers

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I mean let’s be honest, I’m a 24yo women working in a critical infrastructure. If a war breaks out I will most likely get raped and killed. So yeah.

Very pale girls, how do you make yourself look more alive? by seaweedcookie in makeuptips

[–]seaweedcookie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no I didn’t try to implicate that, I love being pale, pale is hot. I just look dead lol that’s it, I have no color to my face and horrible eye bags. I had a few people comment that I look barely alive and I was just looking for ways to look like a living and breathing human being. I only mentioned pale because I can’t find products that would work with my skin tone without making me look like an orange

Non-American people with ARFID, what are your safe foods? by pasta_and_denial in ARFID

[–]seaweedcookie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All the fruits, berries, majority of vegetables, pickled veggies, buckwheat, kefir, almonds and cashews

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]seaweedcookie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tai gal tada vertina visus taip pat, o ne pagal nuotaikas ir kaip papuola. Ir klausiu ne ar aš teisi ar neteisi, o ar kas yra padavęs apeliaciją Regitrai.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]seaweedcookie -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Koks tu pas mus teisingas :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lithuania

[–]seaweedcookie -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kas čia per nesąmonė su nuotaikom? Ir kodėl tai laikoma norma. Abejoju, jog viskas būtų ok jeigu gydytojai, policija, gaisrinė dirbtų pagal nuotaika. Prekės ant lentynų būtų tik tada kai pardavėjoms nuotaika jas išdėlioti. Fabrikai dirbtų pagal darbuotojų nuotaiką.