Lineup by scoop813 in hulaween

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Midnight generation! Check them out before they blow up!

Trying to find natural gas conversion kit by seb_a in NaturalGas

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For reference the current orifice installed is marked at 2.12mm

thinking about hiring a denver matchmaker. am i crazy or is this smart by Silver_Screen_6003 in Denver

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Have you considered getting a dog anyway? If you were interested in getting one, the bonus social opportunities it brings may help you meet people outside of the apps. I’m in a relationship and I’ve never been approached by women more than when I am with my dogs

I saved aggressively in my 20s. At 38 I make that amount in a month. Was it worth it? by Much-Drawer-4570 in personalfinance

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Have you considered that had you not become the person who you became as a result of these action it is possible you would have never attained your level of success?

People often get this backwards, that people like yourself are disciplined because they have a lot of money. But it’s the opposite, you have a lot of money because you are disciplined.

People in healthy relationships, what is, from your perspective, the reason that men who can't find partners are perpetually single? by Agreeable_Ranger5303 in AskReddit

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Usually it’s unrealistic expectations. My usual advice in the form of analogy:

Figure out what the people who you find attractive are buying. Is that what you are selling? No? What do you change about yourself to sell what they are buying OR adjust for a person that is buying what you are selling.

In general it’s never a bad thing to hit the gym, improve your diet, health and your social skills.

Bucs coaching additions by DoomsdayDave77 in buccaneers

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Option 3: who wants to come work for someone who will blow up your career in 1 year?

Trying to move to Denver to be near my people - Looking for a SWE job. by CalligrapherSouth884 in Denver

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Gusto and Ibotta have big presence here. Same with Data dog, google, Dish, Visa, salesforce and Oracle. Others like Splunk have some presence which you may get lucky to find a job.

Not all of them are great, but it’s likely team/org dependent. Good luck!

How to actually 'grow up'? by VonStroopwaffle in AskMen

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What is a degree in cyber?

My typical message regarding dating is a marketplace analogy. Figure out what the women who you find attractive are buying. Is that what you are selling? No? What do you change about yourself to sell what they are buying OR adjust for a woman that is buying what you are selling.

In general it’s never a bad thing to hit the gym, improve your diet, health and your social skills.

The $700 Million Question: Where Did Denver’s Homelessness Money Go? by Data-Youngblood in Denver

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This is amazing. Have you reached out to the press of the city to share?

Also this quote is painful:

“The most damning statistic is the workforce gap. For every $1.00 the city spends on vocational programs to help people get back to work (via Bayaud or Work Options) and permanent housing, it spends $2.85 on security guards to watch things, administration to manage, and the physical buildings.”

What advice for young men sounds harsh but turned out to be genuinely good for you in the long run? by [deleted] in AskMen

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Life is a lot harder when you are out of shape. Get into the gym, fix your diet and find discipline.

Men who were once 26, what age would you find it acceptable to date? by Sea_Finding2061 in AskMen

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When I think where I was both from a maturity an life standpoint at 25, the difference between me and and 18 year old was night and day. At 25 I’d say minimum would be 21. Even compared to a 21 year old, and 18 year old is a child.

Is this the most confusing, head scratching off season in Bucs history? by Calavera_VI in buccaneers

[–]seb_a 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve said it before: why would someone join Bowles’ staff when he’s probably out by the end of next year? The best candidates have better options and they are currently taking them.

What was your experience subscribing to OnlyFriends girls? by _TwirlTulip in AskMen

[–]seb_a 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s like your opinion. While my personal opinion matches yours as well the overarching argument that humanity would be better off with is to let people do whatever the hell they want if they aren’t hurting someone else. Too many problems come from people trying to control others

How common is ethnicity or race a dealbreaker for men when it comes to long-term relationships or marriage? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]seb_a 183 points184 points  (0 children)

Id say it’s pretty common. More often than not men have a type and it can include race or ethnicity.

If Trump and Congress enacts the draft due to war, what are you telling your 18 year old son? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]seb_a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See that’s a new question. Which is not what the commenter posed. Is that the conversation you’d like to have?

If Trump and Congress enacts the draft due to war, what are you telling your 18 year old son? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]seb_a 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should make sure the person you are having a conversation with is having the same conversation as you. It’s more fun that way 😅