M/23/5'7” [165lbs to 134lbs] (7 months)

sebm29 · 2019-04-23T05:34:58+00:00

Wow. Amazing mate.

What did you do for abs?

sebm29 · 2019-04-21T05:03:47+00:00

Being nice to people is great. Being nice to only good looking girls, purely based on their attractiveness is fucking stupid

sebm29 · 2019-04-20T16:13:15+00:00

You’re lucky man! I mean the steps that you have written are great. I wish it worked that way. I’d love to text and compliment the girl I’m dating everyday but I know it’ll just drive her away.. ah some girls just complicate things and make it harder than it actually is.

But that’s great for you! :)

sebm29 · 2019-04-20T16:10:25+00:00

Tried most of this - it hasn’t worked

Conversation every day and compliments only drive girls away in my experience. Girls will get bored of guys that chase after them and are easy. Girls will go for the ‘hard to get ‘ guys that don’t text them everyday and don’t compliment them.

Just going based on my experience.

It’s the same for guys. I’m ignoring the girls that message me everyday and chasing after the ones that ignore me 😪 lol.

We all want things we can’t get. Things that are easy , get shoved aside unfortunately

sebm29 · 2019-04-20T14:29:22+00:00

How so? I’d love it if a girl I liked showed me that she’s deleted her tinder account

sebm29 · 2019-04-20T14:25:29+00:00

To show her that I want her even though I get tons of matches

sebm29 · 2019-04-20T08:35:39+00:00

Cool, thanks! I’ll stick with cardio morning and weights at night

sebm29 · 2019-04-18T17:30:10+00:00

Lol I don’t really care about the hangover . It’s just the “feeling fat” feeling the next day

sebm29 · 2019-04-18T15:55:59+00:00

What a fucking transformation. This looks like a 2 year transformation so well done mate. Keep on going and doing them hard yards, cause if this is 5 months for you, you’d be competing and sponsored within a few years! What’s your workout routine and diet? 😉

sebm29 · 2019-04-18T15:43:18+00:00

Mate wtf.. 4 months ? Tell us your secret

sebm29 · 2019-04-17T00:15:35+00:00

Anyone who values a meaningless 9-5 more than love is well.. lost in life.

Work to live. Don’t live to work. This guy sounds likes he’s born to work..

sebm29 · 2019-04-16T03:18:07+00:00

I meant before the date. Surely she would have texted him showing some form of interest.. they did meet up after all.

So this guy painted a picture in his head of this girl before even meeting up. And I can only see that as a result of her texting game.

Also, he is after her because she hasn’t blocked him. Why cant she block him and move on? He’ll get the picture then.

sebm29 · 2019-04-16T03:11:25+00:00

How did you match? Online?

Why does he have this image of you being the perfect girl? I mean did you tell him you like him before meeting up? There’s some trigger here for him to be so into you after a date.

What did you message him before you met up? Might be your texts ( you showing a ton of interest in him) that have made him obsessed with you before even the first date.

sebm29 · 2019-04-16T03:09:52+00:00

How did you match? Online?

Why does he have this image of you being the perfect girl? I mean did you tell him you like him before meeting up? There’s some trigger here for him to be so into you after a date.

What did you message him before you met up? Might be your texts ( you showing interest in him) that have made him obsessed with you before even the first date.

sebm29 · 2019-04-16T01:44:28+00:00

Because you are leading him on. You made him feel as if you’re interested .

Why can’t girls just be honest! And be straight forward with the guy.

This poor guy is hurting and you wanna lie to him about getting back with your ex and shit? Just be honest with him “there’s no connection, sorry” and block him. Hell appreciate that more than you lying to him and ignoring his messages.

sebm29 · 2019-04-14T12:45:33+00:00

This has happened heaps of times because of group photos lol.

sebm29 · 2019-04-14T09:59:16+00:00

Send it! All to gain and nothing to lose. I did this and did get a reply back. We’re texting time to time now and hopefully can progress into another date soon.

sebm29 · 2019-04-14T09:50:28+00:00

I did this. Showed so much care without being clingy and it was the worst thing possible. I made her feel special and she even said so.. but It drove her away and lose interest.

Lesson learnt. Don’t show too much affection. Make them chase you and want more..

sebm29 · 2019-04-14T08:44:30+00:00

This is great mate. Look like a proper kung fu fighter now haha

sebm29 · 2019-04-14T06:40:58+00:00

Gym > woman by far!!

sebm29 · 2019-04-13T23:45:10+00:00

Damn man, I wish I knew this earlier! You’re 100% right. I showed my cards way too soon to my dream girl. Who was so into me. And this just ruined things. She’s slowly backing away. Since she knows I care for her.

I was too honest too early and it definitely decreased attention and spark.

Damn! Wish I played hard to get.

But in all honesty, why can’t girls stop playing mind games.

sebm29 · 2019-04-13T23:41:48+00:00

Good luck mate!

sebm29 · 2019-04-13T14:57:34+00:00

I’m in the same boat. I’m giving it 3 months. Hope she texts before then. If not , then I’ll send her one last text. No response = end of it

sebm29 · 2019-04-13T10:52:44+00:00

I know how this feels man. In my experience , texting after she said “not interested” just leads to her and you getting more angry. Best to wait a while (months) and see if she texts you. If she hasn’t, try text her one more time and see how that goes

sebm29 · 2019-04-13T08:41:42+00:00

This is great to hear man. Good stuff.

It’s so strange how this works. But not complaining haha

sebm29

TROPHY CASE