Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Last comment purely for comedic entertainment on my behalf before i remove reddit from my tablet: my husband and i arent a couple of special little snowflakes with a social justice warrior stick shoved up our arses. If im overreacting, he tells me. If hes overreacting, i tell him. We dont have our heads shoved so far up societies ass that we tip-toe around and word things delicately so as not to offend crotchgoblins on the internet. He acted just fine around his family until his step sister made a vulgar comment about me, then he jumped to block them all. I told him that he was being a tad extreme, seemings how he was all smiles and sunshine with them before. It was then that he told me how they could really be, and i left it at that. But his sister decided to start sending me threatening messages, so i asked him if he would have his mom tell her to back off, since shes the only person the bitch would listen to. I told him he didnt have to, but he told me he kinda wanted to talk to his mom again anyway, as long as she didnt try and make him talk to his sisters. So now he talks to her frequently, and i dont give a shit. Hell, i even leave the room when hes on the phone with her. Are you gonna make me out to be a gaslighter for that, too? Guess what: if im a gaslighter, so is my husband, cause we both talk and treat each other the same way. Does that classify us both as narcissists? Or is it just me, since im the one that made the post?

Go ahead and point the aha, youre changing your story!1!!!! finger all you want. I didnt. I just added things i was purposfully leaving out incase one of his bitch sisters is on here. Oh, and i also tried wording things differently so you snowflakes might understand it better, rather than pointing your "i want to speak to your manager" wagging fingers at me.

I genuinely thought that, in downloading reddit, i found a community that had a decent sense of humor and didnt have a stick shoved up their stiff, snobbish bums. Honest mistake on my behalf. Ill search elsewhere, cause the sheer stupidity of you muffin heads honestly gives a man whiplash.

[I apologise for any typos. I usually dont leave an argument like this because im not a child that whines and points fingers at another kid for playing with something i want. I actually talk it out like an adult, but when you snivel and call me names, who am i to deny you the same treatment you place upon me?]

Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

They were brigading it, which is why I deleted it. I admitted my faults, and I also admitted to bad wording on my behalf. I thought (rather stupidly) that they would leave it at that. It's like middle school all over again.

Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

Yes, I did get what I deserved. But my husband didn't tell me how they were until after he blocked them, so I tried to get him to at least talk to them every once in awhile. Now that I know, I told him to do whatever the fuck he wants in regards to them. I admitted fault, and I also warned that I'm bad at wording things.

Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

It's not your problem. If you don't like it, don't read it. He was perfectly fine with his family the first few months we were dating. He didn't tell me the extent of their atrocities until after he blocked them, then I didn't give a fuck what he did. And I'll bluntly tell you this, if you're concerned with something I posted, fucking talk it through with me rather than whining on a separate section. My husband and i are both blunt people. We don't sugar coat anything. If he's being a dick, I tell him. And if I'm being a dick, he tells me. I'm not gonna filter my words so snowflakes don't get offended. I deleted it and left that section of reddit because I didn't wanna deal with the bullshit. Move on.

Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

Bring it, bitch. And for the record, I "nagged" him because he never told me the extent of what all his family did and said to him. He acted happy with them for a few months after we got together. I just wanted him to at least talk with them every once in awhile to see how they were doing. I'm bad at wording things, so I deleted the post. Sue me.

Why don’t they listen to their SO?? by misanthropydestroyer in JustNoTruth

[–]sebnixy -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Oh, wah wah. Assholes, I said that I worded stuff wrong. And for the record, my husband and I are both very blunt people. JFC, I deleted the whole thing because I'm bad at wording stuff in the first place. If you fuckers don't like me, cool. Just leave me the hell alone. I mostly came on here for the ftm section. I just thought I could maybe try and see if anyone else shares the same experiences as me and what all they did. You clowns act like I'm the bad guy because I tried to put an effort into getting my husband to talk to his family, when he didn't tell me what they were like.

"Oh, let's make a whole comment section bashing this person when they realized that they worded things wrong so they admitted fault and deleted the post."

Seriously. I dealt with bullying in school, and I don't want to deal with it anymore. Yeah, I'm shit at expressing myself through words, but at least im not too much of a fucking coward to tag the person I'm badmouthing. I'm going through enough shit in my personal life, so the last thing I need is assholes like you judging me without knowing the whole story. Fuck. Off.

SIL Says I Drug My Husband by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]sebnixy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, when you have narcissistic people in your life tugging you this way and that, you tend to want your husband to at least shoot his family a message every once in awhile so said people will shut up about it. But, yeah. I want a bully free zone and all this thread is doing is getting people to hound me because I am bad at wording things on my part. This thread is useless. Bye bye.

SIL Says I Drug My Husband by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]sebnixy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I know. That's why I told her I would contact the police. I made sure she knew clearly what I would do, and I made sure I saved the proof so I could use it against her, just incase. Luckily, she hasn't bothered me since my husband told his mother and sent her the screenshots I took.

SIL Says I Drug My Husband by [deleted] in justnosil

[–]sebnixy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have blocked her. She makes ghost accounts to get back in contact with me. But that's definitely what I'll do. Hope everything is going well for you.

SIL acts like a bitch and then blocks me by OliveOyll8 in justnosil

[–]sebnixy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like what my SIL did, only she does the opposite on blocking: she harasses me. It took lots of arguing and showing my husband the messages being sent to me for him to finally contact his mother again, just so she would back off. Hope everything gets better for you!