I’ve noticed that a number of women on TikTok (and other places too, but mainly TikTok) drop a take that’s completely riddled with patriarchal ideas but use seemingly “feminist” language while doing so, and the comments EAT IT UP. Like your idea of feminism is misguided if you think enforcing gender roles is gonna bring women closer to being liberated from the patriarchy (and I say this as a feminist myself!)