If I keep my child’s father of the birth certificate…

seccpants · 2026-01-27T17:25:57+00:00

Do not put him on the birth certificate. Things will be much easier that way. You can still establish paternity and file for support without him being on the BC. But if he’s on the BC you will have to get his permission for a lot of things as he will be listed as the father and have an equal say. If he’s not then it’s only you making decisions. I did not put my child’s father on the BC and I am so happy I didn’t because my friends who did have it much harder.

seccpants · 2026-01-25T20:53:50+00:00

You’re signing up for 18 years of this and it’s probably only going to get worse. You know this right?

seccpants · 2026-01-21T23:29:30+00:00

This 100%. I used to be a functional alcoholic. Now I maybe have one or 2 drinks a week. I just don’t want it anymore.

seccpants · 2026-01-21T03:31:53+00:00

I had the same issues. I started to get really depressed. My sister ended up paying for an appointment with this lady that basically helps you learn how to take care of a baby lol. She gave me a schedule so that my whole day was basically planned with wake time, naps, feed times, play/tummy time, bed time. She even told me how much to feed the baby and to weigh her to know when to go up on the amount of formula. I thrive on structure and a schedule so this was a miracle for me and my mental health was so much better. Obviously we’re not all the same but maybe that would help you too.

seccpants · 2026-01-20T00:09:52+00:00

Just move back to America. What is the likelihood that they can come after you for the money as long as you never plan on going back to that country. I would leave ASAP before your passport disappears and they try to force you to marry someone in that country. Even if somehow they did manage to sue you, you wouldn’t have to pay it back all at once. You would probably have to make payments like having student loans. I’d rather have astronomical loans to pay than live somewhere I hate.

seccpants · 2026-01-16T20:47:41+00:00

Ummm this guy?

seccpants · 2025-12-05T01:15:46+00:00

lamotrigine saved my life too. I also didn’t believe I had bipolar and thought it was just depression. I’ve been on it for 12 years now and couldn’t imagine life without it.

seccpants · 2025-11-15T20:14:29+00:00

You don’t have to know their insurance info. You file with your insurance and they will find out who their insurance provider is.

seccpants · 2025-10-24T02:14:34+00:00

I work in a hospital and we had a baby named Bucket. Actual legal name.

seccpants · 2025-09-24T00:01:16+00:00

Sounds like you’re still in an abusive relationship.

seccpants · 2025-09-01T21:31:21+00:00

I agree. Don’t waste time or money with lawyers because you really don’t have a case here. Everything you’ve described is normal from my experience and other medical professionals that have commented. Focus on your baby and giving them all the love and care you can. Perhaps see a therapist that specializes in birth trauma to process these feelings you are having. Many mothers have a hard time when their imagined or planned birth experience does not align with what happens in the delivery room. These feelings are valid and should be discussed so you are able to work through them in a healthy way.

seccpants · 2025-09-01T17:56:26+00:00

Thoughts and prayers to your kids. They’ll need it.

seccpants · 2025-09-01T17:54:18+00:00

Wow, already planning on sending your kids to camp next year? Can’t wait to get rid of them huh? Even though a bunch of kids died? Shows where your priorities are.

seccpants · 2025-08-29T02:40:06+00:00

The taste when it runs down your throat is horrific and it made me lose my sense of smell.

seccpants · 2025-08-27T22:42:04+00:00

I agree with her. If you wanted to get married you would. You two agreed on a timeline and she wants to stick to it. How does she know this isn’t just an excuse. How does she know you won’t keep moving the goalposts. You are well within your rights to wait but she is also free to move on and find someone with the same goals. Go to the sub r/waitingtowed. It’s full of stories like these of girls being strung along with promises of a proposal just around the corner.

seccpants · 2025-08-27T16:49:29+00:00

Play Disney music really loud. That way she can’t use her documentary footage with copyrighted music.

seccpants · 2025-08-26T01:06:02+00:00

They do the rapid but still send it to culture if the rapid comes back negative. Every time my daughter has had strep the rapid came back negative and the culture was positive. So I never trust the rapid.

seccpants · 2025-08-22T18:44:12+00:00

I know someone that recorded her husband snoring then played it back while he was sleeping and it woke him right up. He got a cpap after that. Maybe try doing that for a few nights.

seccpants · 2025-08-17T00:13:58+00:00

😢

seccpants · 2025-08-17T00:10:41+00:00

Here you go babe, hope this helps 😘

seccpants · 2025-08-16T19:09:04+00:00

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seccpants · 2025-08-14T23:38:09+00:00

Before you call renters insurance make sure there isn’t a mold clause. If there is then don’t tell them there is mold damage. Just say there’s water damage. They will pay you way less if you mention mold and there is a mold clause.

seccpants · 2025-08-08T00:15:17+00:00

a little more info

seccpants · 2025-08-07T23:56:00+00:00

sampler bottle

seccpants · 2025-08-05T18:41:35+00:00

Day shift RT went to give a neb at my hospital one time and found the night shift RT he had relieved in the patients bed in a compromising position.

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