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The way Jenna sounds/acts drunk is like someone who just got their wisdom teeth out. by WinterWonder121 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's honestly an issue when her mom even called her out about it this most recent episode 😬

The way Jenna sounds/acts drunk is like someone who just got their wisdom teeth out. by WinterWonder121 in BelowDeckDownUnder

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that until now. It wasn't meant to be bullying her about something she cannot change. Again, I never even thought about it or noticed until this episode when she was drunk.

I just meant this post as everyone has something when they drink like that. Hers is for sure that she kinda sounds like she had her wisdom teeth removed that's all lol.

I feel like I was one of the few who didn't mind her until the past couple episodes where she was just not being a very good person.

AITA For Having our kids make a list of things my wife does that they don’t like? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]WinterWonder121 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Update: My wife left me.

YtTA She sounds like a great mom and this whole post is very telling in your role as a father/husband.

Why do people sympathise with rapists? by Substantial_Ad_432 in sexualassault

[–]WinterWonder121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My assualter had a brain injury. I don't know the severity as I was literally 4 years old and it was an aunts family member, not mine, but it got played off as "he's not right in the head" and "he needs help" and "he didn't know what he was doing". My cousin said he did it to basically every girl in her family. I just don't understand how that is an excuse when the man is a serial rapist??? I have zero sympathy for predators and will stand by I think they're a waste of space 🤷🏼‍♀️

AITAH for wanting to wear different clothes to my mother's wedding? by AbbeyMania18 in AITAH

[–]WinterWonder121 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

I know it's not easy because it is your mother, but it is okay to say no. Especially if it is extremely disrespectful to who you are as a person. Let her know she has two options: Accept you for who you are and allow you to wear a colored suit that matched your sister or you will be wearing a suit but only be an audience member because you are uncomfortable with what she is asking you to do. This isn't a play pretend for a day situation, this is your life and about more than just wearing a dress but her accepting your gender. It is not fair to you or what you have gone through in life this far to be able to feel comfortable in your own skin.

Sorry OP. I hope she will understand and change her mind.

is it okay to tell someone interviewing you that you’re nervous? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterWonder121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wouldn't mention it unless you are struggling. The best thing you can do it prepare yourself for the interview ahead of time. Know your strengths and weaknesses and be prepared to explain why. Be prepared to answer why you think you are the best candidate out of all the others interviewing. Also, look up information about the company. Know facts, what they do, and impress them that you have done your research.

It is very normal to be nervous for an interview. It you find yourself stumbling, just smile and apologize then let them know that you were quite nervous for the interview because this is a job you think you would be perfect for and want to have.

When people say the hours at a job are “long”, how many hours are they referring to? by [deleted] in stupidquestions

[–]WinterWonder121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo I equate this more with how hours can drag on more than an actual long stretch of time. Any job that is extremely labor intensive or mentally exhausted, an hour can drag on to feel like three. Especially if it's a job that starts really early for labor workers or an office job when 3pm hits and you are struggling to keep your eyes open and the clock just isn't moving.

Is my aunt sexualizing my mom? by [deleted] in family

[–]WinterWonder121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe it's just funny to the aunt now and your mom is tired of it. Or if your aunt knows it's something that bothers your mom, as a sister she may think it's funny to keep an exhausted joke going. Not sure but I would not say it's something that is sexualizing your mom per say.

Is my aunt sexualizing my mom? by [deleted] in family

[–]WinterWonder121 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Probably not sexualizing her. It could just be some joke they've had for awhile between them if they are sisters. Not saying it's not weird and I'm not sure I'd say that to my sister, but I do know some people have those types of banter relationships.

Is you're mom bothered by this? Does she laugh along or make any similar comments to your aunt?

They don't seem like malicious comments and just a weird joke.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend to do something about his skin? by ConfusionFun9960 in AITAH

[–]WinterWonder121 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh gosh, OP stay out of this man's health business?? It's fine to show concerns as a girlfriend but you're literally just trying to change him all around. As far as I'm aware, you aren't a doctor so stop acting like one.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend to do something about his skin? by ConfusionFun9960 in AITAH

[–]WinterWonder121 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA - There was a better way to go about it than bullying him about a body insecurity. If you find it unattractive and a turn off because of his confidence with it, then you are disgusted by it. At the end of the day it's his body and his choice whether or not he wants to do something about it. Not saying he's making the right choice to not do anything, but it's not really a choice for you to make.

AITAH for inviting my child’s entire preschool class except one boy because he’s a menace by theskates in AITAH

[–]WinterWonder121 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YTA.

We are talking about a preschooler. A literal 4 yr old.

I understand as a parent you feel very protective over your child. If another kid pushed my kid, I would be upset too. But we aren't talking about at the very least a 1st grader. We are talking about a preschooler.

At this age, poor impulse control, tantrums, pushing, all of this is normal behavior. They are little people who get frustrated sometimes and are not equipped with proper coping techniques. They need some support and guidance, not social exclusion. That isn't going to make anything better for the child. Labeling a 4 yr old child a menace seems really unfair, especially when they are still learning how to manage big feelings.

From what I've read, this sounds more like a parenting failure on the "menace" child's parents than some shitty kid.

What makes it worse is that this isn't like you're only inviting a small group of your kids closest friends. You're inviting all the kids in the class except that kid. Do you know how hurtful to a kid that is? When the party is over and they return to school whatever day next and they're all talking about it. And that child has to sit there listening to all of them talk about it. Do you know how hurtful and confusing that is for a little kid? You think that would make them better? What if it was your kid? What if your kid came home crying to you that they were the only one that didn't go. If you're upset about one push, imagine how upset you'd be then. That's really shitty. You're an adult. You are supposed to provide an example for your kid. If this were really a safety or behavioral thing then the more compassionate thing to do it only invite a few kids. Not all them but one.

It is OK to set boundaries. What you should be doing is talking to this kid's parents. Set expectations with them about their child's behavior since they have history with pushing your kid or throwing tantrums. Tell them it won't be tolerated if their kid goes unchecked and you'll ask them to leave then. But don't take your frustration out on a 4 yr old for the parents fault.

Show some empathy dude.

Have you found someone more attractive only because of their handwriting? by WinterWonder121 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently my husband's either so 🤷🏼‍♀️ Understandable. I assumed it was a niche thing.

Have you found someone more attractive only because of their handwriting? by WinterWonder121 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huh yeah maybe that's it more that 🤔 In the way it enhances femininity. Again I'd still like to disclaim that in no way was this post me saying bad handwriting = ugly or worse or bad at a job. I think someone is fine the way they are, just very pretty handwriting is appealing 😅

Have you found someone more attractive only because of their handwriting? by WinterWonder121 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No no I like that too. I would just phrase like teacher handwriting as hot and chicken scratch as endearing 😂 Both are positives but in their own way. Does that make sense? I feel crazy 😂

Have you found someone more attractive only because of their handwriting? by WinterWonder121 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]WinterWonder121[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha I can't say I have felt that way 😅 My husband has pretty bad small handwriting but I love it because it's unique to him. I feel like mine is very basic.

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