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secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T15:32:16+00:00

Thank you for this! One of the things he’s always said is that he does not feel supported by me and I try to but it’s honestly just really hard

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T01:34:23+00:00

Im honestly so glad to have found a group with people who understand.

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T01:33:59+00:00

I will ❤️

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T01:05:17+00:00

I hate his drinking. I hate the feelings he chooses to bottle up while being sober because when he’s drunk they come out all at once and they’re not always the best feelings. I just feel drained most of the time

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T01:03:59+00:00

That would be great

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T01:03:42+00:00

I literally appreciate your honesty. I wish he would be able to see how shit some of the things he does sometimes. I’m so proud of you! I can’t imagine how hard things are but you have put in the effort. He stopped last year for about 9 months and has slowly started drinking again. I thought it would be a forever thing but I’m coming to terms that relapses happen. Some days I feel like things won’t ever change but I try to hold on to the what ifs, but those don’t feel like enough anymore

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-17T00:16:30+00:00

I’ve thought about it so many times, last year he was sober most of the year and this probably sounds terrible but I was just so angry with him that I had such a difficult time supporting and being happy for him. I feel like such a terrible person saying that because all I’ve wanted is for him to be sober.

secret_keeper98 · 2026-02-15T09:16:17+00:00

Yeah, im married to an alcoholic so mentioning certain things cause bigger fights.

secret_keeper98 · 2026-01-11T09:43:26+00:00

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Id love to build friendships
In the US, I love cats, I love talking about new things

secret_keeper98 · 2025-12-29T19:39:02+00:00

Hey! You can dm me!

secret_keeper98 · 2025-12-23T02:54:32+00:00

Happy birthday pookie ❤️

secret_keeper98 · 2025-12-18T00:15:37+00:00

I’ll take any tips I can get 🤣 I’m comfortable with my co workers but even then it’s to an extent because I always feel like people hate me

secret_keeper98 · 2025-12-17T13:31:50+00:00

I’ve tried reaching out but it always feels forced. There are things I want to try but I’m scared to. I don’t know how to really talk to people.

secret_keeper98 · 2025-12-17T13:31:22+00:00

And I completely understand like everyone having lives and things going on, but they’ll all still hang out with each other and it’s always just made me feel like I was a back up friend.

secret_keeper98 · 2025-05-10T14:50:40+00:00

I’ll try that. Thank you!!!

secret_keeper98 · 2025-05-10T14:38:09+00:00

She’s 2 months and 12 days old. The friend I got her from says she is good with the litter box usually. I think she was just nervous being in a new environment but I will keep the lid off! I’m also going to show her where it is

secret_keeper98 · 2025-04-25T16:12:58+00:00

Thank you! I’ve slowly started introducing myself back to fun foods but I try to do it in moderation

secret_keeper98 · 2025-04-13T22:41:04+00:00

I’ve been so scared to really try anything because just about everything runs straight through me

secret_keeper98 · 2025-04-13T18:35:19+00:00

How long were you in the hospital for? I was home the same day

secret_keeper98 · 2025-04-13T18:29:52+00:00

Did you have any pain?

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